PoF, Tinder, etc. How many of you use it?

[spiegel549]

Just curious how many of you actually use the dating apps?

I have been on Tinder a while and get a lot of lays off it.

I thought I would try PoF, see what its all about. Made a killer profile, been getting a lot of responses and numbers but honestly....(not that we all don't already know this) but the low quality and damaged goods on that site...man...lol. I am actually really turned off BIG TIME. I am even thinking about deleting it, regardless of the lays I can get off it....seems like just a complete waste of money (spent on the dates I get) and my time..

I personally love day/night approaching far better, but when I get bored I'll skim around for some online broads.

How many of you use the apps? You get turned off by it too?

 

[Gray The Prince]

I play around with Tinder every once in a while but that's about it.

 

[El Payaso]

PoF is trash.

 

[gravityeyelids]

im on tinder. i've had mild success, a couple meetups, just one lay...about half the girls i took out for coffee i wasnt interested in.

Honestly i feel i should be getting better results. spiegel, what's your usual strategy?

 

[MtnMan]

i'm on match and okstupid. I don't spend much time or effort on there, basically just wait for chicks to 'like' me or whatever and message them if they look interesting. I've gotten a few halfway decent dates/makeout sessions from match. One of my current plates is from match, but she is the only lay I have gotten.

I think of it as a passive source, and try not to rely on it. Now and again you will get a bone thrown your way, but mostly the selection is crap and the odds are stacked against you for any decent chick on there.

I have good pictures, and I'm tall, white and in shape. Apparently this is half the battle. Approaching in real life is still much better in my opinion.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Most of the people I know who are on Tinder (I'm not) are women an they are now bored of it.

Am on OKStupid as well and the only decent prospect I have currently lives in f*cking Bucharest!

Totally over-gamed a girl on there the other day who wouldn't give me her number as I was 'very confident' (WTF)!

The worst relationship of my life resulted from online dating, but that can happen with real-life meet as well.

Think online dating is starting to lose it's glimmer a bit. And let's face it, (most) perfect 10s will never need it (nor therefore, likely ever use it) as they can pull by going out to buy a loaf of bread.

Going out on the pull is far more fun and I have far more success in person.

 

[bukowski_merit]

These have been my experiences.


In order of ease of lay:
1. POF (I think this is because of the sheer number of women on the site).
2. OK Cupid
3. Tinder


In order of quality looks wise:
1. Tinder
2. Ok Cupid
3. POF


In order of women with their life together:
1. Ok Cupid (easily; although most are feminist/left swinging women)
2. Tinder (most are in college or just graduated)
3.
4.
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
756. POF ("I'm a single mothers of 5 kids", "I have 36 tattoos and want to get more", "I don't have a job, but I'm going to school at devry for nursing." "I'm 27 and never been in a real relationship; that's what I want.". "If you don't like curvy women - go somewhere else." (these women are rarely curvy and normally obese.) "I like guys who ride motorcycles and will treat me like a queen", "I'm tired of guys just wanting sex from me.", "I have my own place, but i let me dad move in with me", "I have a car but it's not running right now, if you're a mechanic and can fix it send me a message" "I'm looking for a good guy with lots of ambition [aka:money] in life" :crackup

Just started using POF and yes I'm turned off by those fat/ugly trailer-park trashy types with tattoos on their t1ts, demanding that a guy make a ton of money, not be into games, etc. etc. But there are SO many women on that site. I just use the "Meet Me" feature every other day or so and just spend 30 minutes clicking on the ones that look hot enough. Have actually met several from that site recently but no lays. I personally find that the women on POF are more defensive, bitter, and jaded than on any other site (and I've used several).

A lot of women on POF are jaded from the pump and dump parade. Mainly their own fault for chasing after men that are way out of their league then being surprised when his name no longer pops up on their phone after he hits it. Also their fault for talking to a guy like me about sex for 2 days and then coming over my house and letting our bodies do the talking. Then wondering why i seem to have lost interest

They get wayyyy more mail than any other site too; which i think contributes to their attitude. It really doesn't change what they're attracted to.

They can say all they want "I'm tired of guys who play games with my heart." But watch how quick they fall for a guy who does.

Best bet to find somewhat normal women is: search for new members. Most of the more normalish women I've met off POF have been women who at least claimed to be new to the site and online dating (aka: not yet completely contaminated)

 

[jurry]

Agree about the new members. Pull em quick before they delete their profile.. Much more likely to be normal attractive girls just giving it a shot before they get barraged with dik pics and 3some requests.

Okc does have quality girls on it and is also very easy to use phone app. POF has tons of people and u can get lucky there too gota be willing to sift thru the trash a bit though, the app is a pain in the ass to browse with tho IMO so i dont use it as much lately.

 

[spiegel549]

Great responses guys. I am glad you basically all agree PoF is the bottom of the list. I got a number from this really hot 21 yr old latina and I got so frustrated trying to set up a date with her that I deleted her from my phone, its quite funny actually lol...


Text Convo

Me: hey cutie whats going on, lets go out this week and have a drink;p when you free?
Her: Hi! Friday I am free..
Me: Great, how about we meet at xyz at 7pm?
Her: huh?
Me: I said why don't we meet at xyz at 7pm for drinks?
Her: What do you mean?
Me: lol...are you reading my texts?
Her: huh?
Me: You are a moron, please lose my number.

No joke..word for word, that was our text convo. Can someone say WINNER!!!! hahaha NEXT!

 

[HowardHughesDicaprio]

I use Tinder and don't regret it one bit.

 

[narcissist]

I have gotten a couple of lays off of tinder. But I also have an absurd amount of matches (over 1400).

I feel like I should have more lays considering the amount of matches I have. I need to tighten up my tinder game if I want to increase the ratio of lays/matches

 

[jake-a-roo4]

All those sites are basically the same very few girls on there you want to message.

 

[Poop1337]

I'm done using dating apps or apps to meet women. I used whisper not even a dating app. I also used tinder. It weakens your game. it works as a buffer which stops you from going out and meeting women.