POF Date with tattoo hockey fan girl

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So I was chatting with this attractive blonde girl who appeared to be a pof regular a month back or so. I asked her for # early and she was being resistant saying she wanted to chat more first cause she had bad experiences etc... I ended up mocking her and she blocked me... Anyway my buddy (who looks nothing like me) messaged her a few weeks later doing the same thing. He got the same resistance but ignored it and kept asking and she finally gave it to him. He wasn't interested so he gave me the #... I texted her and ended up sending her my pic, she said I looked familiar but this girl is such a regular on there she had no idea and just assumed she gave me her #

Anyway she's texted me everyday a ton and we've talked on the phone several times. She says I intrigue her even though she does most of the talking blah blah. Thing is she has some tattoos and piercings and i'm really clean cut without any so she might not be into me when she sees me. She is also big into a hockey team she follows regularly, I haven't had much success with die hard sports fans even the ones who liked the same teams as me but we'll see. but we'll find out tomorrow. I plan to go in there confident, get her talking, kino when I can and hopefully make a move. We will see!
 

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End Result = Deep Throat BJ with my phone being blown up.

About time because I had about 3 previous encounters that ended up fizzling. Just goes to show it's a numbers game and you need to keep swinging and not let your failures affect your inner game. That and some alcohol before the date helps loosen you up :)

Now even though I am considering this a success there was some very weird shvit that happend.

I am in a rush so I won't be able to type out every detail but here's what comes to mind. We end up meeting at this bar. I get there a little early and drank some vodka I brought with me in my car (wasn't driving). I text her and tell her I'll be there in a few mins and to grab a few seats at the bar and let me know where and what she's wearing. I walk in, smile and give her a hug, she stays on the bar stool and gives me a one handed hug. Her personality is just as it is on the phone/text... just talking a lot... This was good.. I listened, asked some timely questions about her job and family, really feeding off what she says. She orders a long island iced tea and I order another vodka drink. She offers to pay and I said I got it and paid for it. So anyway during the convo I try doing some kino by looking at her finger nails and touching them, then asking her about her hair and touching that. Her body language was that her body was pointing towards me with her legs pointing away. I've found either or is an IOI as opposed to when a girl just sits straight. So after a lot of talking we both finish our drinks, I ask her if she wants another and she said it was up to me, so I tell the bartender we'll get 2 more, she says she wants to pay for this one, I tell her she doesn't have to but she insists and I say thank you I appreciate it. So convo continues... and I start thinking to myself maybe I should try to kiss this girl in the bar... I usually wait till the end of the date but this whole thing is an experiement after all and i've already had those 3 bad experiences where I waited till the end so I strongly considered it.. Anyway she mentions ordering food and i say there's a place right down the road too we can go to, she said it was up to me. So I start getting close to her and rub her back a bit. She has also kino'd me very slightly throughout the date as well by touching my arm (although that could really mean nothing). But anyway back to that I got closer to her... I think the alcohol kicked in and I just went for it... We started kissing it was great!

Ok now for the weird shvt that happend because of course nothing can be normal for me on dates right! As we decide to leave we both hit the restroom. I take a leak then walk out to wait for her. I'm waiting for quite a bit and I actually start wondering if this girl ditched me... After a bit the bartender and someone that works there come up to me and asks me if I was with the blonde girl at the bar, I said yeah and they say she fell in the bathroom and hit her head! I'm like wtf... finally she comes out and is all apologetic.. she said she fainted.. she tells me hasn't eaten and the alcohol not sure what happend, but that she is ok.

Fvck I want to finish this up but I gotta run, I end up with my arm around her and walked to my car, started making out with her outside of it, got it and continued, she started rubbing my junk, I moan to let her know I like it, I then keep pushing her hand on my junk harder, and she says she is bad at undoing guys pants so I undo mine, and she started going down on me like it was her mission in life. I actually pushed her head down on my dvck hard and she seemed to like it. This might be the first girl I ever truly had that experience with... it was great. We end up going to eat later, she offers to pay but I insist on paying and I do. We make out a bit in my car before I drop her off etc.. and today she's blowing up my phone, but she used to anyway before meeting so it's not really anything new. It's just refreshing as most girls after the first meeting kind of go cold or play games.

I gotta run I'll try to fill in more details later sorry!
 

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Never got to update this... lets see from the original update I forgot to mention that I wore a tight t-shirt and subtely flexed every now and again, she said she liked my arms. She basically is like the AFC female, been texting me so much everyday and complimenting me saying I am nice, and handsome and nice smile, and arms blah blah blah blah. I ended up hanging with her again and got another BJ in the parking lot. HOwever I noticed she has a lot of execess skin hanging (used to be heavy) This turned me off, so I am going to next her.

Like I said I can't seem to ever win with getting a consistent side piece. The girls I do end up hooking up with always seem to have some sort of flaw. But anyway i think the biggest lesson of this story is that I didn't think this girl would be into me as I wasn't her type, but she is. Just goes to show it's always worth taking a chance, you never know if the girl will like you.
 

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Dude, everyone's got flaws. You act like we live in a perfect world. Our flaws are what make us unique. Chicks with piercing and tattoos are some of the biggest freaks out there.

Girl gives BJ on first date=pump n dump
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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Dude, everyone's got flaws. You act like we live in a perfect world. Our flaws are what make us unique. Chicks with piercing and tattoos are some of the biggest freaks out there.

Girl gives BJ on first date=pump n dump
I agree man, but it just seems like the girls that are reciprocating interest in me have physical flaws I can't get past.

Smelly vag, hairy arms, and now excess skin hanging off her body. The last consistent side piece I had had an terrible looking vagina... weird as hell. What's annoying is these are flaws I couldn't tell off the bat either. The hairy armed girl and the excess skin girl wore long sleeves and pants when we met so they both looked on the surface. And of course I only found out that the other girl's vag smelled after I fingered her.

Do you think God is trying to send a message to me not to cheat?
 
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