please im not feeling well right now

[Brian20o2]

ok important question. this doesnt come up much but i belive is one of the most important things to being a dj. how do you deal with stress? do you freak out and scream your head off? do you try and rationalize? do you try to control it and bottle it up? need help.

 

[Nighthawk]

Chilll out. It's just a ride.

Also wine, women and song.

 

[Wyldfire]

God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.


Those are words to live by...

 

[Brian20o2]

thx but that didnt help. ive tried the letting it go and ripping up cardboard boxes and the deep breathing... not helping

 

[Luveno]

What is stressing you out?>

 

[Brian20o2]

Originally posted by Luveno
What is stressing you out?>

extra class with people who have no respect and kid giving me nagtive vibes... nothing to do with women

 

[Mojo604]

buy a punching bag is you have rom in your house. Punching releaves stress really nicely. Or join a gym and work out.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Brian20o2
extra class with people who have no respect and kid giving me nagtive vibes... nothing to do with women

If you want an effective solution in dealing with specific stress you really need to give more information about the situation.

 

[Brian20o2]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you want an effective solution in dealing with specific stress you really need to give more information about the situation.

ok there are three kids that distract from the learning experience (its an advanced choir class) by joking around and not paying attention and therefor irk the teacher. the other kid ive known for 2 years and theres just always been this tension between us (maybe he wants to put me in my place or is afraid of me i dunno) and today he said that i was honestly the worst person in the choir group. that almost set me off but i played it cool by saying "i guess ill just try harder" the vibe im getting isnt one i can see or know y its there its just like one of those things you can just sense (like a 6th sense) im thinking about dropping the class but i know if those 4 kids were gone it would be just awesome.
hopefully thats etailed enough for u

 

[C00L]

dude grow some balls. someone says your the worst and ur like "ill try harder"...dont let haters disrespect you. Its like a snowball effect, they think they can do one thing and get away with it then it gets more an more.

Stand up for yourself. Call them out in front of everyone. "Why do you 4 morons always act so stupid in this class? If your only concern is coming here and fooling around just drop the class and save us all the trouble". Just call those bastards out.

 

[Brian20o2]

i have balls but do u remember pooks infamous quote "as you think you shal become" this kid thinks hes a demigod, and i am only new to this whole DJ thing. would you have rather had me get in a fight with him right when he said it in front of 19 other people?!

 

[JonJack]

Brian20o2, your situation is such that you either have to do something to make things better for you, or you decide to accept those guys and just not be bothered by them. Since you're clearly bothered, you will have to do something. Specifically what I wouldn't know. You've got to decide on the best course of action. However, things could either go your way or go to hell. If hell is the destination, then you just have to quit that class for your own peace of mind.

So, if you don't want to do anything about those guys, you better run. Otherwise, try harder to accept others for who they are.

 

[GropeDope]

Hit up the gym already biatch.

 

[flexion_]

Sounds like you are into drama. Cut with the crap and stop worrying about what others think of you.

If not then go see a doctor and start taking some meds to level out your mood.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Brian20o2
ok there are three kids that distract from the learning experience (its an advanced choir class) by joking around and not paying attention and therefor irk the teacher. the other kid ive known for 2 years and theres just always been this tension between us (maybe he wants to put me in my place or is afraid of me i dunno) and today he said that i was honestly the worst person in the choir group. that almost set me off but i played it cool by saying "i guess ill just try harder" the vibe im getting isnt one i can see or know y its there its just like one of those things you can just sense (like a 6th sense) im thinking about dropping the class but i know if those 4 kids were gone it would be just awesome.
hopefully thats etailed enough for u

Reminds me of my daughter's choir class in high school. She had to stand next to a kid that never bathed and didn't use deodorant. He wore the same clothes every day too. He was distracting to her. There were also some goof offs who only took the class for an "easy credit".

You're going to have people like that in about any class...especially elective classes. The best you can do is try not to be standing or seated too close to them. Talk to your guidance counselor about the distracting group. Talk to your teacher about it as well. Explain that you really want to stay in the class, but the goofs are ruining the experience for you.

As for the other guy who is just giving you a hard time...remind yourself that anyone who feels compelled to insult others only do so because they are insecure and need to try to bring others down to boost themselves up. You're probably actually better at the class than he is...and you clearly are putting more into than he is because you're focused on the class, not your ego.

Everywhere you go in life there will be jackasses. If you let them ruin things for you then you will find yourself quitting a lot of things you want to do in life. You can't really stop people from being an ass...but you can ask the school to deal with the goofs in class, because there's a good chance their behavior is having the same impact on the other students who took the class out of interest in the subject rather than because they thought it would be an "easy A".

 

[diablo]

AE...

 

[Brian20o2]

well thx everyone. good advice and im feeling better already

 

[cant think of a user name]

suggestions...

somekid: you're honestly the worst singer in this choir

you:

(then you turn away and go talk to someone else)


Make them feel like they're talking to themselves and they'll feel ridiculous.

 

[fender85]

As I currently work in an office environment, physical response to stress is obviously not going to work. I try to meditate. One thing I like to do is at the beginning I take the negative energy and compact it into one spot in my chest and then rise it up to my throat and then into my mouth, and then I breathe all the negative feelings out. Then I think of a bunch of positive/happy experiences and spread them throughout my body. Hope that isn't too new age for you guys. I don't believe in a lot of that ****, but I find that this helps me a lot.

 

[brucevangeorge]

Exercise is the best stress reliever. Plus there are those little side effects of looking good, feeling good, and being strong like an ox.

Ever see anyone pick on the huge buff guy?

Rarely ever happens.