please help me someone!

[rjt1985]

Hi

A year ago, our college classes all got mixed up and thats when i met this girl in my class called alison. we got on really well and were good friends, but we never socialised outside of college. for nearly six months now, ive really fallen for her and i no its different to crushes ive had in the past because of thinking about going to bed with this girl my thoughts go beyond that and i can really see myself spending the rest of my life with her. the other day in a lesson she was working and minding her own business, and me, thinking she wudnt notice, was looking at her. i was looking at her eyes when she started looking around the room and suddenly looked at me and for a moment it really felt like time stood still, i was looking into the eyes of the girl i loved dearly, everything seemed so quiet and peaceful, like nothing else mattered, i had not a care in the world. then she looked away and i was pulled back into reality. a few months back i had been dying to ask her out but couldn't pluck up the courage so i wrote a letter explaining the way i felt, to which she never gave me a response so i took it as a no. then recently, i became aware i have only 20 odd days left of college and she will not believe that i am in love with her. at the end of the course i no i will feel regretful and far more hurt if i let her go without saying a word to her about the way i feel face to face. my idea at th emoment is to propose to her as i really care about her. i go to bed thinking about her, thinking about getting into college the next day to see her, and when ever i go home at night, i cant wait to go to bed, for the next day to come so i can see her again. proposing to her is the only thing i can think of to really convince her i love her. i no she wont go out with me and doesnt feel the same but i will feel far more hurt if i leave it and dont say anything than i will if she rejects me and i can live happy with my memories of her, knowing she knows i love her and i tried everyhting i could. please someone give me their views.

 

[Drow]

Wow I hoped this was some very late April fools joke..

rjt, you are not in love. You have a bad case of infatuation. You need to read the DJ Bible. Then reread it. And read it again.

Stick around this site. You need help.

 

[drixsa]

u wanna marry her?

u dont even really know her outside of class

u have one the AFC OF THE WEEK AWARD

this is by far the saddest story ive read since reading the daily updates from boricua

i really never understand why guys, like you, think that writing a girl a letter will get u what u want

READ THE BIBLE

dont jus come here to ask a question

get the information then ask the right question

i bet you dont even know who pook is

 

[Da Game]

First dude, you gotta use some paragraphs. Ahh!

Second, you need to calm down about this girl. The cold hard reality is that the more you want to get with someone, the less likely it is to work out. You're also taking this all waaaaaaaaaay too fast. You don't even know her beyond a college class, and you "love her" and "could see yourself spending the rest of your life with her"? That's simply not healthy.

Third, recognize that you're living in a fantasy world when it comes to this girl. She's not as perfect as you think she is. She eats, sh!ts, and farts like everyone else. Don't construct a fantasy of what she's like: she'll never live up to it, and if you ever do get to know her better, you'll end up disappointed.

You want to propose to her. In the fantasy world, this might work. In the real world, this is what will happen: her eyes will widen, and she'll start to back away slowly while reaching into her purse for some Mace. Next week will come the restraining order. Is that what you want?

At this juncture, you have two choices.

The first is what I outlined above. You can keep obsessing over her, and go through enormous pain for someone who will likely NEVER like you. The more you obsess, the worse it will become. You will lose several months of your life worrying over this girl, and you will get nothing in return.

The second choice is to forget about her for a little while. Get your life in order... Hang out with friends, don't think about her as much. Find some other cute girl to hang out with. I guarantee you, this girl is NOT THAT SPECIAL. Some people, you just crush onto really heavily... But that person is not the only one out there, and acting like she is will only make you unhappy. So get over her, improve your life, and find someone who returns your feelings.

 

[Evil-Rom]

At least this guy isnt as bad as the stalker who wanted to find a girl he SAW at disneyworld or something...

 

[tracy Jaks]

look Pal,PULL YOUR HEAD OUT THOSE ****ING CLOUDS.

Yea, your infatuated with a chick, big deal who cares weve all been there.And i understand you want her to know this. You say u love her, on what basis? where is the grounds for love. Have you actualy spoken to her and had a full conversation???

and you want to marry this chick?

WHAT COLOUR IS THE SKY ON YOUR PLANET?

Dont mean to be out of order or nothing but when i first read that thread i though it was funny, yes it was the most i laughed in ages, i had to read it agen to make sure it wasnt a figure of my imagnation.

Then i realised you just need help, in a major way. I hope you have read the bible,if you havent read it again, and maybe some more.

but listen here:

"True perfection has to be imperfect"

You want this girl ,if u end up with her the rest of your life thats perfect right?

youve barley said 20 words to her pal, well youve written some, maybe she thought u were joking like us did.

so the way your gunna get her is by CALMING THE **** DOWN, playing it cool, making conversation, inviting her to lunch, coffe, drinks and stuff, yea might not be perfect but thats how your gunna get her.

its not all candles and roses you know.

Youve got a lot of work to do in your 20 days.

lets face it you need a miracle buddy.

So grab you balls and walk like a man, talk like a man, and ****ing do the dj thing.