This is regarding a cousin who bullied, abused, threatening behaviour, intimidation, slyness, more for nine years.
I'm writing this quicky, you can call me a sissy/wimp etc. it may not make sense as im writing this quicky.
I feel she's taking his side, not mine, if the police come, truthfully, if she going to say I've done nothing wrong?
Ive had problems with her and she has emotionally abused me in the past.
I will be going to be counselling because I've been hurt.
All my sister could say is:
-if you've got issues, speak to him
-Ive got mental issues
she did not say nothing to him, she said you say it, she lied
Overall what's her problem? It ruins my dignity, takes away my power
She said regarding the years I've endured bullying, abuse from the cousin:
"all in my head"
"I've got Mental issues"
"That cousin has done nothing wrong"
"You say it, that I've reported him"
"If you got issues speak to him"-im not the one with t problem
"Why don't you talk to him"
Do I really need to talk to someone I reported twice on big logs who bullied, abused, no respect for nine years?
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She says don't kick off and don't cause trouble, how am I causing trouble?
Why does she give easy info WHY?
Why does "she say they want to help you "
She didn't stand up to me and says nothing? The counsellor said before, she could say something and it looks like when he caused trouble last yome, she's not acknowledging it
She doesn't tell me nothing
She said "you say it" when I said I reported him to the police
She did get angry when I brought it up
She gives them info when they ask, when she shouldn't, she allows people in life.
She said why can I be happy for people. I've achieved, even could say got good income, have a lot more going for him ....I couldve said he is trying to ruin my happiness
She ignored it, didn't care about the bullying and twisted, she could like the counsellor said take a stand.
She said don't cause trouble to me, when he caused trouble last time, she just said why do I react and move on. The nerve she has shouting at me.
I lived in fear, is she going to take a stand, say something? Maybe detach herself a bit, protect me if they call the police, stand up to me, she knows what he's like
Above all, with everything I said, this cousin could damage me, and his family, twist things. Do you feel she's in the wrong, she doesn't care? She simply has no respect? I'm hurt, something doesn't feel right with what she says. I'm missing something, maybe someone intelligent will tell me the reasons she is like this
I'm writing this quicky, you can call me a sissy/wimp etc. it may not make sense as im writing this quicky.
I feel she's taking his side, not mine, if the police come, truthfully, if she going to say I've done nothing wrong?
Ive had problems with her and she has emotionally abused me in the past.
I will be going to be counselling because I've been hurt.
All my sister could say is:
-if you've got issues, speak to him
-Ive got mental issues
she did not say nothing to him, she said you say it, she lied
Overall what's her problem? It ruins my dignity, takes away my power
She said regarding the years I've endured bullying, abuse from the cousin:
"all in my head"
"I've got Mental issues"
"That cousin has done nothing wrong"
"You say it, that I've reported him"
"If you got issues speak to him"-im not the one with t problem
"Why don't you talk to him"
Do I really need to talk to someone I reported twice on big logs who bullied, abused, no respect for nine years?
---
She says don't kick off and don't cause trouble, how am I causing trouble?
Why does she give easy info WHY?
Why does "she say they want to help you "
She didn't stand up to me and says nothing? The counsellor said before, she could say something and it looks like when he caused trouble last yome, she's not acknowledging it
She doesn't tell me nothing
She said "you say it" when I said I reported him to the police
She did get angry when I brought it up
She gives them info when they ask, when she shouldn't, she allows people in life.
She said why can I be happy for people. I've achieved, even could say got good income, have a lot more going for him ....I couldve said he is trying to ruin my happiness
She ignored it, didn't care about the bullying and twisted, she could like the counsellor said take a stand.
She said don't cause trouble to me, when he caused trouble last time, she just said why do I react and move on. The nerve she has shouting at me.
I lived in fear, is she going to take a stand, say something? Maybe detach herself a bit, protect me if they call the police, stand up to me, she knows what he's like
Above all, with everything I said, this cousin could damage me, and his family, twist things. Do you feel she's in the wrong, she doesn't care? She simply has no respect? I'm hurt, something doesn't feel right with what she says. I'm missing something, maybe someone intelligent will tell me the reasons she is like this
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