Please help guys!!!

[valen]

ok heres the story,
I am at university, abt 8 months ago I was out at a niteclub and this stunning girl came over to me(she turns out to be a model!! We ended up kissing but she wouldn't give me her number at that point (I think she was playing hard to get) but I never asked her for it again. She brought be down to meet her mates and then back to her house after. Well last nite for the first time since we had first met she must have reconised me and she came over to me in a club again and said 'hi, how r ya? bla bla...' and that was that, I didn't go chasing after her or anything but afterwards outside the club she came over again and was hugging me and stuff and then asked why I hadn't rang her to which I replied 'You never gave me your number' so she gave me her number.

What is my next step, how long should i wait before ringing/txt'ing?
should I ask her to meet up again on the first call or txt message or what?

please help
cheers

 

[Chewy Bagel]

High Interest girl.

Take her for drinks and back to your place

 

[NewMan]

Don't text her - in my opinion it's cheesy.

Wait a couple of days - whatever you feel comfortable with - but at least 1.

Call her - and take her out on an action date - something fun. No just to a bar.

Go shoot pool - bowling - ice skating - whatever.

Something fun though.

Kino - and your golden.

Very high interest level - this one is in the bag. But a challenge, but not to much of one.

 

[Big Pappy]

Wait until Thursday. That way, I can ask her out Wednesday.

Seriously, Wait a couple of days, just so you know that the planets won't stop spinning if you don't talk to her. Don't leave a message if she's not there. Just call her back a couple of days later.

Good luck.

 

[Avsguy01]

For ex. met this girl at a party 2 weeks ago. I made conversation with her and even kinoed a little bit. I made a really aggressive move and kissed her but that was only cause of a slight influence of alchohol. Well i ended up getting her number. I waited "2 full days" and called her on the 3rd day. She immediately remembered me and even told me she was hoping i would call. Well i told her to make plans for the weekend to go out with me. She accepted. I kept the conversation short. Maybe 10 mins at the most. I came up with some bull**** excuse why i had to get off the phone.
Well she called me back the next night = High interest. She told me she may not beable to make it over the weekend. I then told her to give me a call when she knows for sure. I went on with my regular life. The next day rolls around it was a Thursday. She had called me and left a voice message saying she was in town and wanted to get together with me. I proceeded to call her up and i set plans up to go see a movie. To me a movie date is a great first date. We were able to engage alot of conversation. Everything flowed great. There was alot of kino involved as well. The date ended with a nice closing kiss.
Well she was busy for the most of the weekend. I called her on Saturday to see if she wanted to go out. I knew she was busy but when i called her i asked her what she was doing and then gave her the "Oh i forgot you were busy". So now that gave her a real impression that i was interested in seeing her again. Again the conversation was very short.
Sunday rolls around and she calls me up and wants me to come over to her house since she is back in town. I said sure. Now typically i would have said no, since this wouldnt make me seem afcish, but when her friend got on the phone and told me that (the girl im seeing) thought i was absolutely hot and they started joking around in a sexual flirtatious way, i returned with some flirtation over the phone and accepted her invitation. The plan was to watch movies over her house. So when i get there we get in my car and i change things. Make it a bit interesting. I asked her if she plays pool and she said yes. So i took her out to a parlor and we played a few games, and were very flirtatious and alot of kino occured (Action Date=fun, chance for major kino) Well i let her distract me (sexually) when we were playing pool and that allowed her to beat me 3-2 games. It was fun and she loved it.
We then go back to her house and we are feeling really comfortable with each other. We get heavy into making out and and then the next thing you know we are engaging in sex. What a wonder night Seems like i have played my cards perfectly. Now its been a day and no contact. She asked me to promise to call her. So i held off yesterday and im going to call her tonight and chat a little bit and wish her luck on her exams tomorrow. (Thats why i say shes back in town cause she lives up near a University) Then ive already asked her to come to my works Christmas party on Friday. This is a golden opportunity cause we will both get to see each other dressed up and in mature a state of mind. Timing is alot with getting that first intial step in a relationship. I think i may be on the right track. I feel really confident and i think its showing.

 

[valen]

credit to ya big man!, hope things continue to go well!
thanks for the help guys, I'll maybe leave it a couple of days eyt before I call her.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Text her with the message: "Will you be my Girlfriend? Y/N"

If she texted back with a "Y" then you're good.

If she texted back with a "N" then keep asking her til she says "Y".

 

[Avsguy01]

dont confuse him now!!!