Hard to get... ugh, i hate that game! Chicks don't realize it does them more damage than good.
Anyway, the thing to be certain of is that you're not confusing "hard to get" with "Back off, I'm not interested in you", because they can be similar. This is why a lot of chicks end up screwing themselves when they're interested in a guy and they play this game. Hard to get is all about giving a guy negative vibes so she won't appear too easy, but at the core she's still willing to hook up. Also, you should be aware that there are signs that a woman just wants to be friends, too.
"Hard to get": One day she'll come up to you and talk your ear off, the next day you'll be standing next to her and she'll pretend she doesn't see you. If you turn the tables and begin to ignore her back, she'll usually give in and be the one to initiate contact back with you. When you call her she'll either not return the call, or wait forever to return it. She'll be late a lot if you're meeting her, but the important thing is she's usually always willing to meet up with you. Because she likes you and wants you to think she's always available for you, she'll very rarely ever talk about other guys... when she does talk about other potential guys it's almost always in a negative context, like how things are going wrong, etc. I've noticed that women who are interested in me generally discuss their big plans or dramas in their life, and not the tiny day to day details.
"Back off": She'll hardly ever come up to you. When she does talk to you there's very little or no animation in her voice, and usually she's only talking to you because she needs to know something, or she wants something. When she needs or wants something, then she'll smile when she's talking to you. If you call her she'll get back to you within a reasonable time frame; you're just "business", after all. If you ask her somplace, she'll always come up with an excuse, or an exaggeration of a truthful thing she needs to do that blocks the possibility of meeting up with you.
She'll occassionally talk about guys in your presence, but she won't go into detail about how she feels about them. She'll hardly ever divulge any of the details about what's going on in her day to day life.
"We're friends! Yay for us!": If she knows you like her, but she's firmly on the "friends" thing, she'll always come up to you and talk, she'll usually always be smiling when she sees you. An important thing is to remember is that she won't ignore you, because you're a friend. She'll be willing to talk about a guy she's interested in, but usually not in too much detail, and when she does talk about a guy she's interested in, she'll discuss the positive aspects about him... she won't hesitate to go out with other guys. She'll return your phone calls as best she can, usually always, even if she's late getting back to you. An important thing to recognize is that she's always discussing the miniscule, useless details of her own day to day life and short term plans. Why? Because it's all about her, and she's not planning on sharing her life with you.
Hope this helps. Good luck!
