Well the other day at a friends birthday we were chilling at her house for pre-drinks before hitting the club and I got into a discussion about player/slags and buying people drinks with some people.
A girl I know HB5 was talking with the only guy at the party I didn't know, so I went over and said hello. I don't know how, but we got on the topic of girls having it much easier than guys to pull on a night out. This girl tried to tell me that it wasn't, and that it was harder for girls, she even looked at the guy next to me for suport, and he nailed it, completly blew her off in favour of my argument, and elaborated on it by saying that 'if an avergae girl puts out she will get some, if an average guy puts out, people think he's a creep'
To my surprise the girl actually thought about it, then agreed with us, and we carried on talking.
Couple minutes later we get onto buying a girl a drink, and I said it's a policy of mine not to do it, unless it's the girls birthday and I know her personally. My reasons being that it has never worked before.
The guy next to me didn't agree, he claimed that it was ok to buy some girls a drink, if you know them, the HB5 on the other hand told me that it's the best way to get a girl back home. At this I laughed aloud and told her that most of the time, girls will use guys for a drink, then leave. To this the guy next to me agreed and once again helped me out, using the example of him buying a random girl a drink the night before and her just walking away. At this the HB5 claimed that 'not all girls are like that' to which I replied ' I know, but why take the risk, when you can just dance with them in the club and make-out without taking them to the bar?'. Her response was typically female, 'Because it's what a guy is supposed to do'. Again I laughed a bit and asked why. She said that's just how it is.
At this point, the guy, the HB5 and I had been talking a good 10-15 minutes. However some girls, who had seen the entire conversation, but not known what we were talking about decided that I was ****blocking the HB5 and called me over, when I asked why, they told me I was third-wheeling?!
Lo and behold, a minute after I've left, the HB5 and guy have seperated, the guy to find people he actually knew, and the HB5 to her ladyfriends sitting opposite me. What happened next is pretty interesting.
HB5 has a chat with the HB8 next to her, who has a word with another HB8 and so on until all the girls are in the loop. Then from across the room I get hit with a 'Why won't you buy a girl a drink then Gunner?'. I kinda saw it coming, and went with 'Why don't they buy me one?' with a cheeky smile before casually saying 'What has this girl done, besides being good looking, to deserve a drink off me?'. I have to say, the reactions were golden.
Some girls looked really perplexed, when they thought about that question, they had no answer. Others like the HB5 earlier, 'It's just what you do' and another girl, didn't even answer, instead she loftily proclaimed to the whole room 'And that is why you will stay a virgin' and I have to say I lost it there, I found it hysterical, the guys in the room were backing me up, but quietly, I was the centre of the female hostility to drinks. After I had finished laughing I said I was done being the spotlight of attention, and that if they didn't like it, it's just a virgin's opinion, I then saw off my drink and exited the room, to a high five with one of the guys.
So it was a pretty long read, and to be honest it wasn't neccessary, I just wanted to share.
Anyway, what do you guys make of the women and their reactions to me? And have you ever had this sort of conversation before, what were their reactions like?
TL.DR - Went out the other night, got into a convo about players/slags and buying girls drinks. Later on got called out by a room of girls for not buying girls drinks out. Countered with 'what have they done besides being good looking to deserve a drink off of me?'. Reactions varied from confused, to saying that this was the reason I'm still a virgin. Just wondering if you've ever had a situation liek this before and what the girls responses/reactions were.
Gunner
A girl I know HB5 was talking with the only guy at the party I didn't know, so I went over and said hello. I don't know how, but we got on the topic of girls having it much easier than guys to pull on a night out. This girl tried to tell me that it wasn't, and that it was harder for girls, she even looked at the guy next to me for suport, and he nailed it, completly blew her off in favour of my argument, and elaborated on it by saying that 'if an avergae girl puts out she will get some, if an average guy puts out, people think he's a creep'
To my surprise the girl actually thought about it, then agreed with us, and we carried on talking.
Couple minutes later we get onto buying a girl a drink, and I said it's a policy of mine not to do it, unless it's the girls birthday and I know her personally. My reasons being that it has never worked before.
The guy next to me didn't agree, he claimed that it was ok to buy some girls a drink, if you know them, the HB5 on the other hand told me that it's the best way to get a girl back home. At this I laughed aloud and told her that most of the time, girls will use guys for a drink, then leave. To this the guy next to me agreed and once again helped me out, using the example of him buying a random girl a drink the night before and her just walking away. At this the HB5 claimed that 'not all girls are like that' to which I replied ' I know, but why take the risk, when you can just dance with them in the club and make-out without taking them to the bar?'. Her response was typically female, 'Because it's what a guy is supposed to do'. Again I laughed a bit and asked why. She said that's just how it is.
At this point, the guy, the HB5 and I had been talking a good 10-15 minutes. However some girls, who had seen the entire conversation, but not known what we were talking about decided that I was ****blocking the HB5 and called me over, when I asked why, they told me I was third-wheeling?!
Lo and behold, a minute after I've left, the HB5 and guy have seperated, the guy to find people he actually knew, and the HB5 to her ladyfriends sitting opposite me. What happened next is pretty interesting.
HB5 has a chat with the HB8 next to her, who has a word with another HB8 and so on until all the girls are in the loop. Then from across the room I get hit with a 'Why won't you buy a girl a drink then Gunner?'. I kinda saw it coming, and went with 'Why don't they buy me one?' with a cheeky smile before casually saying 'What has this girl done, besides being good looking, to deserve a drink off me?'. I have to say, the reactions were golden.
Some girls looked really perplexed, when they thought about that question, they had no answer. Others like the HB5 earlier, 'It's just what you do' and another girl, didn't even answer, instead she loftily proclaimed to the whole room 'And that is why you will stay a virgin' and I have to say I lost it there, I found it hysterical, the guys in the room were backing me up, but quietly, I was the centre of the female hostility to drinks. After I had finished laughing I said I was done being the spotlight of attention, and that if they didn't like it, it's just a virgin's opinion, I then saw off my drink and exited the room, to a high five with one of the guys.
So it was a pretty long read, and to be honest it wasn't neccessary, I just wanted to share.
Anyway, what do you guys make of the women and their reactions to me? And have you ever had this sort of conversation before, what were their reactions like?
TL.DR - Went out the other night, got into a convo about players/slags and buying girls drinks. Later on got called out by a room of girls for not buying girls drinks out. Countered with 'what have they done besides being good looking to deserve a drink off of me?'. Reactions varied from confused, to saying that this was the reason I'm still a virgin. Just wondering if you've ever had a situation liek this before and what the girls responses/reactions were.
Gunner
