powersize
Senior Don Juan
Planning to walk away from a girl I have been meeting with since the beginning of March.
We met on Tinder - went on a dinner date, she is 24 yo 8 for me. Scheduled dates once per week, did not over texted her - in between dates (sometimes she texted me, sometimes me). We got laid on 3 or 4 date, sex was not good (i took it like ok, maybe she needs more time to get used to me). She is very childish which i kind of like, so I took it as it is. Than at some point she refused to meet on Friday without offering another date - i just replied ok and ignored. In the evening she texted me that she was just mad this day - I ignored again. Next day in the evening she texted me let's go for I walk on which I said - no, i am lazy. She started texting me tons of messages like lets go bla bla bla, sent millions on voice messages about her day - on which I said look, I do not like when you flake, be a good girl - she said ok, i will try. So we met this night, went to my place and so on. After that we texted the following week here and there and on this Friday i texted lets go somewhere after your gym - she said ok, and she will say for sure after her gym. In the evening she sends me that voice mail saying that she got invited to a house party with her friends that she did not see long time, and that they plan to drink and go on a techno party all together. I said ok and ignored her again. She said Am I mad - I say no. She texts me something later that if some of the friends will be not there she will not go - on which i ignore her again.
In the morning i see her voice mails at 3 am that she is going home, that she is drunk and smoked some stuff - i ignore her again.
Yesterday and today - silence from her.
So I am planning to move on with this one because:
1) There is a lack of respect - she did the same stuff next week and even did not apologize
2) Low interest - she did not ask for other day to meet
3) Mediocre sex and no real passion from her side
3) She keeps mentioning her ex over our last couple of dates that she broke up a year ago
I am not really mad that she wanted to hang out with her friends - she could just say sorry, i really wanna meet my old friends, lets meet tomorrow or sunday. And I will be completely cool with that. But no, she did not do it knowing that I travel early next week - so I will be back in the city next Sunday. For me it tells a lot about the girl. I did some stupid stuff by buying a vacation for both of us in couple of weeks to Austria (kind of early for a girl who did not really deserve it yet) - but ok, I will go alone anyway.
I might played my ignorance card too much here but I did my chasing in the past with other girls and nothing good happened with it, so I would rather quietly disappear from her life and focus on myself again.
What do you guys think?
We met on Tinder - went on a dinner date, she is 24 yo 8 for me. Scheduled dates once per week, did not over texted her - in between dates (sometimes she texted me, sometimes me). We got laid on 3 or 4 date, sex was not good (i took it like ok, maybe she needs more time to get used to me). She is very childish which i kind of like, so I took it as it is. Than at some point she refused to meet on Friday without offering another date - i just replied ok and ignored. In the evening she texted me that she was just mad this day - I ignored again. Next day in the evening she texted me let's go for I walk on which I said - no, i am lazy. She started texting me tons of messages like lets go bla bla bla, sent millions on voice messages about her day - on which I said look, I do not like when you flake, be a good girl - she said ok, i will try. So we met this night, went to my place and so on. After that we texted the following week here and there and on this Friday i texted lets go somewhere after your gym - she said ok, and she will say for sure after her gym. In the evening she sends me that voice mail saying that she got invited to a house party with her friends that she did not see long time, and that they plan to drink and go on a techno party all together. I said ok and ignored her again. She said Am I mad - I say no. She texts me something later that if some of the friends will be not there she will not go - on which i ignore her again.
In the morning i see her voice mails at 3 am that she is going home, that she is drunk and smoked some stuff - i ignore her again.
Yesterday and today - silence from her.
So I am planning to move on with this one because:
1) There is a lack of respect - she did the same stuff next week and even did not apologize
2) Low interest - she did not ask for other day to meet
3) Mediocre sex and no real passion from her side
3) She keeps mentioning her ex over our last couple of dates that she broke up a year ago
I am not really mad that she wanted to hang out with her friends - she could just say sorry, i really wanna meet my old friends, lets meet tomorrow or sunday. And I will be completely cool with that. But no, she did not do it knowing that I travel early next week - so I will be back in the city next Sunday. For me it tells a lot about the girl. I did some stupid stuff by buying a vacation for both of us in couple of weeks to Austria (kind of early for a girl who did not really deserve it yet) - but ok, I will go alone anyway.
I might played my ignorance card too much here but I did my chasing in the past with other girls and nothing good happened with it, so I would rather quietly disappear from her life and focus on myself again.
What do you guys think?
