Planning in proposing after 1 week of being together, im only 19!

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Well to be honest with yall i know that i might be young or wateva but im preety positive and i most definetly think that this girl is the one to do life with although im young. Weve been gf and bf for only a week but what i feel for her is just too strong, i think ima do it yall...
 

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u dont understand.... i dont know how to explain what i feel really...
 

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Senior DJ on this board since 2002?!?!?!?

WTF....I HOPE THIS IS A JOKE BRO...

or you've been wasting 2 years of your life on this message board.

(i thought we had this one-itis thing covered?)
 

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.......... trust me ive dated a lot , a lot of girls and even more thanx for this board and never came across i girl that i actually had feelings for this strong.... i mean thats just how i feel right now, and she do too, cause we already talk and her head seems to be going in the same direction as mine....
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
(i thought we had this one-itis thing covered?)
I didn't even think it was possible to get one-itis in a week's time, let alone think that you should propose to someone...

"Hi, this is our one week anniversary. Will you marry me?" *slap*

The only thing that proposing after 1 week (god, I can't help but think this is just some lame joke gone awry) is going to do will be scare her away. If I were her, I'd think you were psycho.
 

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Give it more time. One week is NOT enough.
 

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DO IT... I want to see you fvck it up and become an example for everyone. Be a martr for sosuave, please....
 

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oh dont get me wrong i know that she is gonna say yes by a fact do thats not a worry for me... is just that dang... this is kinda like too much for me but yet i still wanna do it, shoot that dont mean that we are gonna get married anytime soon... but in yrs from now.
 

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First of all, you need to go get a damn education. Your 19, you write like your 9, so you obviously dont have a good job or education.

Providing that she ACTUALLY said yes, you couldn't take care of her. If you even have a means of income, it is probably minimum wage.

Heres some advice: STOP BEING SUCH A DAMN IDIOT.
Go get your GED, and try to get some more damn education under your belt.

Don't propose jackass, you'll either scare her off or she'll say yes and youll be married to some dumb biatch who you dont even know.

Right now you are just on a "high" from having a new girlfriend, its not true love

USE YOUR DAMN BRAIN
 

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congratulations bfl!

just prepare for the divorce in 6 months you retard

this feeling of bliss is common to almost every new relationship, but trust me, after 6 months, that feeling will be gone, and u'll already be stuck in a loveless unexciting marriage

you wanna know why most couples have dated for over 2 years before getting married?
because if you can still enjoy each other's company after the initial 6months of giddy happiness, then you have something special

now do'nt be a d!ckhead - if you must, bash your face in with a spanner
 

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HA!! GOT YALL dont this work like magic all the time.

Actually its not me the one that wants to get married to this chick, oh HELLL NAWW not bfl, but my friend, i wanted the most honest answers possible, so i can show his dumbass, also what i typed its word by word as he told me earlier today, he would not listen to me so hopefully hell listen to a whole bunch of people telling him how dumb this is, i mean in my eyes getting married is dumb period, not just at this age and with only one week of going out but as a whole.

ok now i will print this out and show him, nevertheless keep the replies coming, the more the better, i really want to save his ass, from the biggest mistake of his life.
 

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bfl
drill it into that moron's head - he shouldn't get married
do'nt let him make one fo the biggest mistakes he'll ever make
cause after the divorce, he'll likely be crushed, and because he wo'nt have had much experience in the dating field, he's only going to become a recluse
 

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Rule #1

... in fact, it Rule #0 is more like it:

One should never, ever, get engaged until the "flame dies down" a bit. In other words, until the "infatuation phase" has passed.

Some die-hard chumps never get to that point, so they don't understand it. But one must hang in there until the point is reached. One cannot help but realize it when it happens.

*********

Great ruse. bfl. I just about hit the floor. :D

If he doesn't cool his jets, I hope for his sake it does not work out before their fool asses hit the altar.
 

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Originally posted by bfl
Well to be honest with yall i know that i might be young or wateva but im preety positive and i most definetly think that this girl is the one to do life with although im young. Weve been gf and bf for only a week but what i feel for her is just too strong, i think ima do it yall...
OLL, failure get! What the heck are you trying to do, become the whipping boy for the Sosuave forum until you get soru-shattered out of existence? You are INFATUATED dude. How long have you even known her for???
 

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Originally posted by diablo
Oh, yes. Propose to every girl you've only dated a week. I bet you'll be VERY popular. :rolleyes:
this is good enough to be brought to your attention AGAIN.

do me a favor, dont be a dumbass. dont do it.
 

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Originally posted by jakethasnake
DO IT... I want to see you fvck it up and become an example for everyone. Be a martr for sosuave, please....
Agreed. Go for it bro, yoda man!
 

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It's this simple:

If you were meant to be together, then you don't need to propose this soon, you can propose 2 years from now, 5 years from now, 10 years from now. Marriage is supposed to last a life time (till death do you apart). And even then, you shouldn't get married unless you want kids. At age 19, you're NOT ready to raise and pay for kids.

What have you learned from her in a week? To be honest, every girl I've dated in the first month was PERFECT, they've done their best to show me their positive side, but after a while I see the negative and realize we're not compatible.

bfl, can you do me a favour and smack your friend? tell him it's from m4a1. :D
 

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No way man, let the guy get married. Crash and burn. Bwahaha
 
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