Plan to use breakup to put a girl in her place.

[Penguin69]

My current girlfriend of 7 months scheduled unimportant appointments during this Saturday. We see each other once or twice during weekdays and almost always Saturdays. This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.

My plan is to go NC for a about a week, if she does not try to fix things, I will call her up and tell her that I think she does not respect me or my time so I won't waste anymore one her then break up with her.

This I think will make her beg. I know that I shouldn't use breakups like this, but frankly I don't really care that much if I lose this 1, it would be nice to keep her but if not, no big deal.

So what do you guys think? Is this a good plan? Do you have better ideas?

 

[DonJuanabe]

You are a demanding, needy, authoritarian, high-strung, pathetic d0uche. That's what I think. It's probably what your soon to be ex-GF also thinks.

 

[Desdinova]

This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.

How in hell did you come to own this woman's life? If she needs to get 5hit done on the weekend, then let her do it. Getting all emotionally pissy over it isn't going to make you more attractive. Letting her do it will because she will miss out on spending time with you. If you just said "Okay baby, I've got some stuff to get done as well" I guarantee she would have been thinking about you while she's getting her 5hit done. That's what you want - to get yourself stuck in her brain.

Now call her up and apologize for being a d1ck.

 

[D.J. King Allister]

This is completely stupid and I approve of DonJuanabe and Desdinova's post.

 

[foreverAFC]

sounds like you have anger issues bro. girls do dumb **** all the time that shouldnt be taken personally, learn to let things go. what kind of guy are you if you are willing to retaliate like this, would it be cool if she was the same way?? you shouldnt want to take revenge on your gf cause she had to reschedule seeing you because of work. you are sounding like the guy who comes home and wants to beat his woman for not having dinner ready. you arent going to put her in her place or teach her any lesson, she just wont understand why you are being crazy. you need to learn to relax. you probably owe her an apology.

 

[Handsfull]

My current girlfriend of 7 months scheduled unimportant appointments during this Saturday. We see each other once or twice during weekdays and almost always Saturdays. This week however, without asking me prior, she reschedules some appointments on this Saturday (Could have done it on a weekday, but she does not want to inconvenience the client anymore or some bull**** like that). This shows me that she does not respect and value the time that I make for her out of my busy schedule. I told her what she did was bull**** and hung up.

My plan is to go NC for a about a week, if she does not try to fix things, I will call her up and tell her that I think she does not respect me or my time so I won't waste anymore one her then break up with her.

This I think will make her beg. I know that I shouldn't use breakups like this, but frankly I don't really care that much if I lose this 1, it would be nice to keep her but if not, no big deal.

So what do you guys think? Is this a good plan? Do you have better ideas?

You said the appointments were "unimportant". Are they? I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt here. There must be other thngs that have led to this point. Is this situation just the straw that broke the camels back? I mean, has she been b1tchy, distant, disprectful, etc?

You must have been picking up on gamey bull5hit for a while. If this is a first offense and you're reacting this way, that's a little over the top.