places to find quality women?

[pete101]

book stores?

ones who work for charities?

(i'm skeptical about some who work for charities.. i read this advice thing online for women to find rich men telling them to move to rich areas, join things like charities etc)

i guess the charity based work would wear out some females not in it for the right reasons eventually.

what about school teachers?

 

[Alex DeLarge]

i guess the charity based work would wear out some females not in it for the right reasons eventually.

Exactly. Just think, if you went to participate in something for the sole purpose of finding someone to use (not because you felt dedicated or passionate to the activity/work) you would eventually get tired of it. I don't think most women involved in charity work would have such a mindset though. It's kind of like going to a bar to meet women when you don't even like to drink. It's not gonna be your gig.

With that being said, it's a great place to meet quality women.. And also

- Hiking
- Rockclimbing
- Skiing / Snowboarding
- Bookstores (obviously avoid women in the romance novel section lol)
- coffee shops

I mean, obviously not every woman you meet in these places or doing these activities is going to be quality.. But it definitely narrows down the selection for you.

For physical activities (such as the ones listed above) you can find groups on websites like meetup.com or craigslist to do them socially.

Also, if you have some hobbies of your own.. Perfect places to meet women! For instance, I play music and have lots of friends in local bands. I met a girl I was dating around this time last year at a gig my band played.

 

[pete101]

Exactly. Just think, if you went to participate in something for the sole purpose of finding someone to use (not because you felt dedicated or passionate to the activity/work) you would eventually get tired of it. I don't think most women involved in charity work would have such a mindset though. It's kind of like going to a bar to meet women when you don't even like to drink. It's not gonna be your gig.

With that being said, it's a great place to meet quality women.. And also

- Hiking
- Rockclimbing
- Skiing / Snowboarding
- Bookstores (obviously avoid women in the romance novel section lol)
- coffee shops

I mean, obviously not every woman you meet in these places or doing these activities is going to be quality.. But it definitely narrows down the selection for you.

For physical activities (such as the ones listed above) you can find groups on websites like meetup.com or craigslist to do them socially.

Also, if you have some hobbies of your own.. Perfect places to meet women! For instance, I play music and have lots of friends in local bands. I met a girl I was dating around this time last year at a gig my band played.

can i ask why would hiking/rockclimbing/skiing be a good place to meet quality women?

im not saying there wont be any there just i cant see the logic exactly unless you mean girls who are into action style stuff would be more fun to hang with rather than the prissy princesses who go partying all the time.

the thing is im a bit turned off by girls who do things like hiking/rockclimbing etc (skiing is fine) just doesn't seem very feminine plus also i dont do that stuff so that's maybe why.

i think bookstore is great in that she is literate and prob spends time on her own at home reading or what not.. but still could be a party girl.

coffee shops im unsure of tbh, a lot of my pick ups are done in coffee shops and i find they're still all party girls, just it's where they go to the day after to cure their hangover before they go out shopping for their next outfit.

there must be other examples.. maybe what i'm trying to find is a hot girl who is high quality and a non party girl. dont think it exists too much. hot girls are addicted to attention.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

can i ask why would hiking/rockclimbing/skiing be a good place to meet quality women?

im not saying there wont be any there just i cant see the logic exactly unless you mean girls who are into action style stuff would be more fun to hang with rather than the prissy princesses who go partying all the time.

the thing is im a bit turned off by girls who do things like hiking/rockclimbing etc (skiing is fine) just doesn't seem very feminine plus also i dont do that stuff so that's maybe why.

Well the thing is, a lot of girls anywhere are going to be party girls if you're in the age span of 18-25. Even late 20's too.

I suggested the hiking and rockclimbing thing because most girls who are into this stuff are indeed more fun to hang with, in better shape, and don't let themselves get caught up in the whole party scene. It shows that they have interest in things outside of the typical "girl related" interests too.

If you're not into that kind of stuff, just search for women in areas you're interested in. It seems that you like literature judging from your bookstore idea, so start there!

 

[f283000]

Dancing classes: The reason for this are many. A woman that takes dancing lessons is naturally more in tune with her feminine side because dancing is a very feminine and sensual activity. I have found women in dance classes to have better than average attitudes and just easy going in general. And the reasons for this are..

1. In dancing classes women are taught to be led by men (what most formal dancing is about). That basic premise of letting themselves be led on the dance floor by a guy reinforces feminine values such as looking up to a man as their leader. You will not find many other activities out there that push these old fashioned values on women.

2. Dancing reinforces positive attitude: Their taught to smile a lot, carry a good positive attitude. All of this is done through the dancing.

3. Better shape: A woman that dances often is much more likely to be in better shape and take care of herself than your average woman.

4. Women that dance are more likely to be in tune with their sexuality: Dancing is a sensual activity that lets the woman release some of that energy on the dance floor. Women that dance are no afraid to show that energy and let it out.

Don't get confused. When I say dancing i'm talking about formal dancing like salsa (what i take), swing etc etc. I'm not talking about grinding on the dance floor at your downtown club that's not real dancing.

It's a known fact that dance studios produce many couples and marriages (due to all the kino going on).

 

[GameTime76]

Church! Some are naughty and nice.

 

[pete101]

Dancing classes: The reason for this are many. A woman that takes dancing lessons is naturally more in tune with her feminine side because dancing is a very feminine and sensual activity. I have found women in dance classes to have better than average attitudes and just easy going in general. And the reasons for this are..

1. In dancing classes women are taught to be led by men (what most formal dancing is about). That basic premise of letting themselves be led on the dance floor by a guy reinforces feminine values such as looking up to a man as their leader. You will not find many other activities out there that push these old fashioned values on women.

2. Dancing reinforces positive attitude: Their taught to smile a lot, carry a good positive attitude. All of this is done through the dancing.

3. Better shape: A woman that dances often is much more likely to be in better shape and take care of herself than your average woman.

4. Women that dance are more likely to be in tune with their sexuality: Dancing is a sensual activity that lets the woman release some of that energy on the dance floor. Women that dance are no afraid to show that energy and let it out.

Don't get confused. When I say dancing i'm talking about formal dancing like salsa (what i take), swing etc etc. I'm not talking about grinding on the dance floor at your downtown club that's not real dancing.

It's a known fact that dance studios produce many couples and marriages (due to all the kino going on).

i find salsa places that do lessons seem to attract desperate divorced 40 something year old women.. yeah it's great if you want an older desperate woman but if you want a quality girl i dont think that's the place..?

you'd know better than me though, in my area it's just desperate older women using any 'club' be it tennis or whatever as an excuse for a dating thing. it gets quite ridiculous.

i think i mentioned i lost my ex cos she wanted to do salsa and i didnt and some dude who moved in on her while we were having trouble did do salsa.. so i'm a little bitter about that.

maybe yoga might be a good place?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Curves.


Heheh,..

 

[f283000]

i find salsa places that do lessons seem to attract desperate divorced 40 something year old women.. yeah it's great if you want an older desperate woman but if you want a quality girl i dont think that's the place..?

you'd know better than me though, in my area it's just desperate older women using any 'club' be it tennis or whatever as an excuse for a dating thing. it gets quite ridiculous.

i think i mentioned i lost my ex cos she wanted to do salsa and i didnt and some dude who moved in on her while we were having trouble did do salsa.. so i'm a little bitter about that.

maybe yoga might be a good place?

I guess it depends where you are. In my classes there's only 1 old lady and most are younger women. I did find the girls in the actual salsa clubs very hot. The good thing taking dance classes is that you will be a better dancer than 99% of the guys at the club who don't know how to do anything but grind on a b|tch and move from side to side and nothing more

You shouldn't take dancing lessons with an aim to bang your fellow students although it's not difficult to do. You should do it to improve yourself, your confidence, and get a skill that will enrich your life forever.

 

[PapiChulo]

You find quality women through interests and hobbies you have- that's the best thing imho. Sometimes even at work too..... Let's be honest about it; if you spend these many hours with coworkers, something is bound to happen. I love the outdoorsy chicks, but have experienced a lack of "guality" as well. You can't really say that the quality women are found in specific place, you just have to plow through all the crappy ones before you hit gold.....

 

[SamTheHobit]

Real men don't dance.

 

[Zodiac]

Real men don't dance.

Real men dance into a girls pants.

 

[mustfirstregister]

women clothing stores!

 

[Packers2010]

a good friend of mine said.

"you never really know when your going to get a gf.. it' just happens"

you can meet girls anywhere.

you just have to be confident enough to talk to them.