Place A Tip Of Value!

[I love Hyori Lee]

I'm going to get flamed for writing this tip. But I hope that this will improve the quality of the posts written in the Don Juan Discussion Forum.


My thoughts on these tips

Before I go on any further, keep in mind that I’m fairly new to this site, so there will be a lot of you with more knowledge than me.

Anyways, I just wanted to address the fairly obvious fact that may be known to all of you. Why are tips offered on the Don Juan Discussion forum so WEAK compared to the DJ Bible?

Shouldn’t we just place the best and most effective tips on the Don Juan Discussion tips? There’s so many tips in here that I think are pretty lame in the tips section. Shouldn’t we only put our best ideas and not focus on cheap tricks to be with women?

I think there a lot of weak tips offered in the tips section. They are weak because of one or more of these reason:

1. It is a cheap tactic. A stupid tactic that won’t work.
2. It is an obvious tip. It is something repeated throughout the DJ Bible.
3. It is a tip that does not add value.
4. It’s a stupid post written by an inexperienced person.

I’ll list some tips to illustrate my point.

Meditation before talking with chicks by KillBill
(What is this? You call this a tip? PLACE TIPS OF VALUE!)

Astrology seduction by Saki
(Yes, it’s a cute tactic but why place this as a tip? This is not a tip that adds value. It's a "cheap" tactic and a tactic that's not worth memorizing. )

Simple tip on one-it is by Alex_L
(This is a tip that I thought was fairly obvious. Anyone who’s already read the DJ Bible pretty much has this rule memorized. I mean, I’ve recently read the DJ Bible and this is a rule that’s repeated throughout. Why place obvious tips?)

Self-Confidence by Vulture
(Have any of you actually read this tip? It’s pretty weak. I’m sorry but this is a concept that’s been drilled over and over again. Place some GOOD tips, not obvious things)

Make them leave in a hurry by LowPlainsDrifter
(This is singlehandedly one of the worst tips I have ever read)

Developing Intuition by Dimebag_Darrel
(This is a decent tip, but it’s a tip that will be ultimately ineffective. He’s making the rules more complicated than they really are. No one should approach women in a step by step process. Everybody does it differently. Plus, you don’t learn “intuition” from a forum or from a post. I think that’s pretty weak)

You gotta smell great.. Not good.. But GReat! By Sexy_Kuta

(Another OBVIOUS tip. It’s a tip that doesn’t really add value to anyone who reads it. Of course, you have to smell great! It’s common sense! It’s common knowledge! What person doesn’t know that? The main problem with these tips is that they are OBVIOUS rules that people with common sense have. My take is this. If you DON’T have anything GREAT to say, don’t write anything.)

High Five Random Girls by I_Only_Live_Once

(This is a tip that just makes me shake my head. My point is this. Why are we all looking for cheap tricks to get with women? We shouldn’t have to resort to tactics or other stupid tactics.)

I move my body too much by DJ McBuster
(God, this post makes me wince everytime I see it. Anyone who’s read the DJ Bible or even read Weapons of Mass Seduction knows that this is pretty obvious knowledge. Again, post something of VALUE.)

Nouning by Silverwex.
(This is an interesting post but in my opinion it’s unnecessary. You don’t have to be all technical when talking to women and trying to do so will cause problems. Keep it simple.)

Kino Boob Grab by Monster
(This is one of the most stupidest posts I have ever read)

Go out with your sister by Wheeling&dealin
(God, these posts are getting lame by the minute)

You look taller than you think you do by Guitar Player
(What kind of garbage is this? Why in the hell does this matter? How does this tip add value? Why are these tips so terrible in comparison to the DJ Bible?)

Now, I know I'm going to get flamed for this. But I just wanted to do something to help improve the quality of tips on this forum. We shouldn't post cheap tricks. We shouldn't post obvious knowledge. We should add something of VALUE. That's the DIFFERENCE between guys who posted back then and the guys who are posting now. They actually added value. Let's add value to our posts. I know I haven't posted a tip on here yet, and one of these days I will. I'll be sure to follow what I'm saying and also post something of value.

 

[shiningshadow]

Best tip ever, this should be in the DJB.

 

[flippinfreak]

This tip is played out, been said a hundred times before... the solution?

more moderators, the answer?

not enough experienced people to spend their time on the site...

either it's going to be too emotional, or too controversial with the deletions...

All I say is, get rid of the damned AFCness on the site

delete a thread, and either say read the DJB, do the DJBC, or GFTOW

 

[Ever onward]

Wow, you are so judgmental! People go out of their way to post something they think might be helpful to others and you bust on em for it. What if someone who has the greatest tip ever, that will absolutely get every one of us laid, is afraid to post it because of guys like you?

Nice

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

Wow, you are so judgmental! People go out of their way to post something they think might be helpful to others and you bust on em for it. What if someone who has the greatest tip ever, that will absolutely get every one of us laid, is afraid to post it because of guys like you?

Nice

Well, first of all, no matter how great a tip may be, there will never be advice that will get EVERYBODY laid. There's people who are willing to accept that advice and people who won't. Because in life, there are fools and there are wise people. Some of the wisest teachers, philosophers, and men of genius had the greatest advice, and there are many who fail to obtain this wisdom.

A smart man is one who looks at his own mistakes and learns.
A wise man is a one who looks at the mistakes of others and learns.
A fool is one who never learns from his own mistakes or from the mistakes of others

You are correct in saying that I am a bit judgmental. But I am not discouraging new ideas. I am merely saying that people should ask themselves a couple of questions.

Does this add value?

Is this something that isn't obvious to my readers?

Is this a proven and field-tested tip?

Does this work on everyone? And if it doesn't work on everyone, who would it work on?

Am I being too methodical about this? Am I making it more complicated than it really has to be?

Is this advice already in the DJ Bible? Am I being REDUNDANT by placing this tip?

Is this a tip that works on all ages? Is this a tip that works on all people?

And if not, which particular group would it target? What may work on high school girls won't work on a 28 year old woman and vice-versa. Fools are those who assume that all tactics work universally.

Again, I'm not discouraging advice. I'm just saying that people should really think about what they write.


Say what you mean. Do what you say. Don't waste words. Add value to yourself and to others.

 

[Ever onward]

Well of course I was exagerating when I mentioned one universal tip that would get everybody laid. You are right, it would be awesome if there were better tips posted. I just think you came off a little negative towards people who might have really been trying.

 

[I love Hyori Lee]

I just added

Meditation before talking with chicks by killbill to the list.

Come on, people! We can do better than this. I know I probably don't have a right to criticize others, but come on! This is ridiculous. Let's add tips of value. Something that will help the community, not some fake bull****. No more cheap tricks! Add a tip of value!

 

[sexy_kuta]

i just read this and

my tip i made "You gotta smell great.. Not good.. But GReat! By Sexy_Kuta"

wasnt supose to get you laid, you was supose to help you with your hygiene.

there are alot of people who still smell like sh(it half way throughout the day and still dont know it.

of course its common sense
but guess what! alot of people dont know what common sense is! so thats why we write tips, to help those whom need help.

its a helping forum and if the help that is given doesnt apply to you, then move on,

not alot of people are not at where we are.. when i first came onto this borad i didnt know jack shhit, but i gained knowleadge as i read more..

theres people joining this borad everyday so let them learn..

simple is that

 

[theSpeculator]

It's quite simple. A lot of guys have big egos and likes to write big tips to make themselves feel smart. There's nothing you can do about it. The only defense you have is practice your judgement skills so you can tell the good ones from the bad. Forget about other people, help yourself. It may sound self-fish, but you can't help other people, unless you help yourself first.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Any tip that works is a good tip.

 

[Boschy]

What happens on this message board is exactly what happens on every other message board on the Internet that I've visited.

People are interested in the topic and want to join in, seek validation/acceptance from the tribe, bump their post numbers up, etc. It's not a DJ problem, it's a human behaviour problem. The only answers are to have moderators screening posts before they are published, or have closed areas that are invite-only. I try to avoid dumb posts by looking at the subject, and even then I get sucked in sometimes.

 

[Bonhomme]

All the really good tips I can think of are ones I consider obvious.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Does walking up to a group of girls in a club, giving them a group hug, and telling them that you love them all equally sound like a good tip??? NO... it sounds idiotic, but it works like a dream for opening up the conversational airways. Therefore it's a good tip.