indiorunner
Don Juan
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You know when a girl goes "I am busy" a bunch of times or "let me check my schedule..oh I'm sorry, I have to take my pet for a walk in the park.."
If she doesn't offer to make the date up, then forget her. So many guys post on here about what to do next...the answer is you forget her. If a girl were truly interested she would not just leave you hanging. Makes sense doesn't it? WOuld you just say "I am busy" if you really liked a girl? no! You'd tell her another good time to hang out..
These qualify most of the time as excuses...
"I have a lot of things going on in my life right now"
"I am too busy partying.." (this one actually happened to me and I stopped talking to her since and she actually emailed me last night saying "I just wanted to say a quick HI!")
"I want to date around"(which really means I want to mess around with other guys, but if they leave me you're my last option.No girl would want to share a man whom she really likes..trust me)
"I want a break" etc...there are just endless lines of crap like that.
The true DJ(you) would not accept anything less than a yes..none of that maybe crap. The true DJ(you) has many options and if this one doesn't give you a definite answer, you're moving on...cuz you can get any woman out there. I mean..really there are just so many single women out there...why put up with some mind-game-playing girl?
I have a true life experience with what I am talkin' about.
I was dating this half mexican/white girl a while back and it seemed we really hit it off and we were going good. Then she started avoiding me and being hesitant when I talked to her...I came to find out she wanted another guy. But, she tried to make it seem OK for her to like another guy. I was pissed and I just left her ass without asking her why. So she calls me back a while later and says "you'll like the news I have to say...I left him cuz he cheated on me." I still could never forget what she did to me and I felt that she deserved what happened to her. SHe started playing some kind of sick game where I fell in..I fell for her again, I have no idea why. Then she brings on this "I am too busy, I am depressed" front. Of course I didn't believe her. She started saying one thing.."i love you" one day and the next she would be completely rude. Whenever I ignored her, she would be on my ass until I gave her attention and then she went back to rudeness. She would cancel dates at the last minute ALL the time giving some stupid ass excuses. Then when I wanted to end it she would say "why are you so inconsiderate?"..and make me feel bad for her. I knew from her friends that her excuses were just that,excuses.
Well, this was a classic case of a mind game playin' ho. I got caller ID and I just don't answer her calls anymore. Beware DJs, if you come across a girl like this, run!
Warning:insecure females will use you to make themselves feel better.
If she doesn't offer to make the date up, then forget her. So many guys post on here about what to do next...the answer is you forget her. If a girl were truly interested she would not just leave you hanging. Makes sense doesn't it? WOuld you just say "I am busy" if you really liked a girl? no! You'd tell her another good time to hang out..
These qualify most of the time as excuses...
"I have a lot of things going on in my life right now"
"I am too busy partying.." (this one actually happened to me and I stopped talking to her since and she actually emailed me last night saying "I just wanted to say a quick HI!")
"I want to date around"(which really means I want to mess around with other guys, but if they leave me you're my last option.No girl would want to share a man whom she really likes..trust me)
"I want a break" etc...there are just endless lines of crap like that.
The true DJ(you) would not accept anything less than a yes..none of that maybe crap. The true DJ(you) has many options and if this one doesn't give you a definite answer, you're moving on...cuz you can get any woman out there. I mean..really there are just so many single women out there...why put up with some mind-game-playing girl?
I have a true life experience with what I am talkin' about.
I was dating this half mexican/white girl a while back and it seemed we really hit it off and we were going good. Then she started avoiding me and being hesitant when I talked to her...I came to find out she wanted another guy. But, she tried to make it seem OK for her to like another guy. I was pissed and I just left her ass without asking her why. So she calls me back a while later and says "you'll like the news I have to say...I left him cuz he cheated on me." I still could never forget what she did to me and I felt that she deserved what happened to her. SHe started playing some kind of sick game where I fell in..I fell for her again, I have no idea why. Then she brings on this "I am too busy, I am depressed" front. Of course I didn't believe her. She started saying one thing.."i love you" one day and the next she would be completely rude. Whenever I ignored her, she would be on my ass until I gave her attention and then she went back to rudeness. She would cancel dates at the last minute ALL the time giving some stupid ass excuses. Then when I wanted to end it she would say "why are you so inconsiderate?"..and make me feel bad for her. I knew from her friends that her excuses were just that,excuses.
Well, this was a classic case of a mind game playin' ho. I got caller ID and I just don't answer her calls anymore. Beware DJs, if you come across a girl like this, run!
Warning:insecure females will use you to make themselves feel better.