Pickup but not with full attraction

[daygameguy]

Hey guys, I took your advice this time and closed even though there wasn't satisfactory attraction built.

As this is summer, college is empty, so I game on the jogging track

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So here it goes, (HB 7)

OPEN:
I stopped to drink water from the tap and noticed her standing behind.. I was drinking really slowly.. so I chuckled and said sorry.. she was smiling said its ok..
I rolled off, she finished drinking, i throw opener over the shoulder -
"Do you know what time the bookstore closes" (my fav opener)
No I don't have much idea about the summer. (smiling)
"You don't go to USC do you?"
I DO! (what a moron lol)
We ask each other's majors at the same time... IOI
She was studying communication - i said RESPECT (kino punch as always)

ATTRACTION:
She says she needs to go run a few more rounds.. so I say ok before you go...OPINION OPENER.
I DHV about my major and my internship.. I was locked in sitting.. she was standing in front.
But then I let her run.. (bad move)

LATER as she left the track and went out the gate:
I go out too.. casually.. and say "you are the rudest person ever"
HER: huh?
ME: U said I'll talk to you later
HER: (a lil scared/confused) NO i..i din't say that...sorry.. starting to roll off
ME: Do you have an email or something (I was super relaxed with an IPOD playing "party like a rockstar" in my head)
HER: (Smiling) maybe - IOI
HER: do YOU?
ME: yes I do.. you don't?
HER: I do..
ME: and what is it?
HER: (OPEN mouthed) do you have a pen?
ME: No.. but i have a good memory..
ME: what do you do for fun?.. cuz I only hang out with adventurous girls..
HER: (smiling).. nothing.. just hang out.. (smiling)
CLOSED.
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What do you guys think? I don't feel good when I am not in the power position.. but she was cool in giving her email.. should i attract her more or just qualify her and build comfort?

Btw.. I won't close without complete attraction again.. i don't feel so good about it.. its better to be in a power position.

 

[broken dreams]

Dude this sounds awesome but when I understand closed I think F-closed, so you number closed her then right? OK.

Ive been doing daygame for the past 3 wks indirect but I will start direct.

night game was a draw back for me but I'll start working on it too.

I don't know how to do social circle college game but I think its more comfort game and building trust , social proof
(being cool laid back guy, interesting identity,you convey that there are women in your life whether friends or FB's you dont go in detail but it should come out very subtle in your story " my friend sara ...colleen etc etc " always convey that you dont kiss and tell so her ***** shield is down and she trusts you.

then going in sexual, kissing, touching, then closing her.

if she's on the track she must have a body, nice.

I like how you worded your interaction and you went indirect I think your comfort with her was awesome!

I dont think she'll flake dude, but remember that this is the only part of the interaction where there's nothing you can do it and she has control when it comes to phone game.

Good work man!

 

[AKA FLEX]

From what you've told me, I'm not feeling the IL from this chick. But then again, I wasn't there.

You got her e-mail address though, so might as well shoot her a line and see if you can get her to hang out. Nothing to lose...

 

[wjh]

You know nothing about this girl and didn't mention anything remotely worth her time. She may have been physically attracted to you, a bit at least, but you gave her nothing to work with. She held all the power in this dynamic. You shot canned routines and it left you with an e-mail address, but that's not much.

You were running and she was running. You had something in common that you could have used to gauge what she was really like. Made a couple jokes, and then told her you had to go but would like to talk to her again because she seemed cool (and number closed).

Why are you asking about the bookstore? Did you really want to know, or were you making unnecessary small talk? Cut the crap and get to know a little bit about what this girl is about. You need to make a connection that flows naturally from within (inner-game).

I give you props for approaching and asking for an e-mail. You made some moves and that's good. But if you want to actually consider having sex with her you have to build something more tangible.

 

[daygameguy]

i wanted to game other girls on the track after she went away.. but i was tired this time..

 

[daygameguy]

You know nothing about this girl and didn't mention anything remotely worth her time. She may have been physically attracted to you, a bit at least, but you gave her nothing to work with. She held all the power in this dynamic. You shot canned routines and it left you with an e-mail address, but that's not much.

You were running and she was running. You had something in common that you could have used to gauge what she was really like. Made a couple jokes, and then told her you had to go but would like to talk to her again because she seemed cool (and number closed).

Why are you asking about the bookstore? Did you really want to know, or were you making unnecessary small talk? Cut the crap and get to know a little bit about what this girl is about. You need to make a connection that flows naturally from within (inner-game).

I give you props for approaching and asking for an e-mail. You made some moves and that's good. But if you want to actually consider having sex with her you have to build something more tangible.

Read the title - "pickup but NOT full attraction". I KNOW what true game is. I didn't complete game her. But I wanted to test if I can still get her contact, which I did. I just wrote a short email back to her.. didn't ask for any dates yet.. just said "hey wats up hope you're doing good." I don't give a **** about her anyway.. this world is too big to think about one girl unless you feel she is really special. She hasn't flaked. She's on facebook.

Her IL was pretty good the first 2 mins.. but then I didn't continue on.. maybe I was tired or something. But now I know, you got to avoid/handle any interrupt that might happen within the first 3 mins and only after you are done building IL and attraction.. you can roll off.. or let her roll off.. so you can reopen her and go into comfort or qualification. But attraction building time (first 3 mins continued to 5 or 10 if needed) must not be compromised by interrupts.

 

[daygameguy]

she said she broke up with her BF and this is a bad time for me to come in.

So, conclusion is, attraction is key, if you feel its lacking, then she might still give you the digits but its unlikely to go smoothly all the way.

 

[ARrocket]

this is a bad time for me to come in.
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Is that what SHE said, or is that what you're saying?

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

she said she broke up with her BF and this is a bad time for me to come in.

Could be true, but it still reeks of one of those things women say to let you down easy without flat out saying "not interested."

 

[daygameguy]

Could be true, but it still reeks of one of those things women say to let you down easy without flat out saying "not interested."

Yea she said I like your outgoing personality, but just broke up with my BF.. and your forwardness is unfortunately received at a bad time.

That is exactly what she said. But if she's single, and I am alpha, wtf is her problem? Being direct anytime in pickup ALWAYS ends up badly for me.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Yea she said I like your outgoing personality, but just broke up with my BF.. and your forwardness is unfortunately received at a bad time.

That is exactly what she said. But if she's single, and I am alpha, wtf is her problem? Being direct anytime in pickup ALWAYS ends up badly for me.

If she's not just giving you a line and is getting over her breakup or something, I would just push the issue. What do you have to lose? "I'm not asking you for your hand in marriage, I'm saying we should hang out." Or something similar and casual.

 

[daygameguy]

If she's not just giving you a line and is getting over her breakup or something, I would just push the issue. What do you have to lose? "I'm not asking you for your hand in marriage, I'm saying we should hang out." Or something similar and casual.

i think i'll rather move on. She isn't fun enough. I want girls to make my day, not to make me tensed and stressed. I'm not that attracted to her.

btw, I opened another chick on the jogging track today:

Me (over shoulder jogging): "Do you (look away from her towards bookstore).. Do you know what time the bookstore closes?"
HB 8: <smiling> prolly at 8.. maybe 8:30
ME: U r not from USC are you?
HB: I am..
ME: good.. what major are you?
HB: long list of subjects (i wonder why she felt like qualifying that much)
ME: wow.. that's awesome.. RESPECT (my fav Kino punch)
HB: whats yours? IOI
ME: Computer Science
HB: Well that's pretty impressive too.. RESPECT (Kino punch back) IOI
ME: quick DHV story
HB: <laughter>
HB: <turns to the gate and drifts away but facing me (walking)>
ME: <keep on walking (smiling at her over the shoulder)>
HB: <jumps back on track> - BYE!
ME: <still smiling n walking away>
HB: <drifts away again towards gate but facing me.. (she wanted me to close)>

I just smile and turn and keep walking away

DAMN!!! Y the freaking fcuk din't I ask her number/email

But heck.. I love the attraction.. LOVED it.

I thought if I stop myself and close it would seem desparate..but i so easily could have closed her.. <kicking myself> AHH!...

RESET. Game on again. phew!