MrJack
Master Don Juan
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- Jul 1, 2017
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Hey guys,
So I’ve noticed a change in myself, I’m getting better but still far from where I want to be. Here’s a situation that just happened that I’d like your feedback on for next time it happens.
I just left the mall after getting myself a new pair of kicks and in the store I was in, there was this really hot girl with the NICEST azz I’ve seen in awhile, working alone. (She was an 8.5-9).
So she came up to me right away and asked if I needed help with anything so I said yea let me get that pvssy...
Jk but I was thinking it lol.
I told her to get me the shoes I was looking at in my size and she came back with 2 different but similar pairs because the kind I wanted was out of stock.
I made a joke about her making a ton of commission off of everything she sells and we bantered a little about that. Then I saw a different pair I was interested in so I asked her opinion on what she thought of them (I didn’t realize she was wearing a pair of the “girl version” of them) so she pointed that out and I push n pulled by complimenting hers but then saying I like the low top version better (she had the high tops).
Anyways I had her grab me a pair of the low tops and she came back with the shoes and a few pairs of socks saying that she noticed how awesome my socks were that I was wearing (funky dress socks, I came straight from work) and thought she would bring them in case I was interested.
I told her I wasn’t interested but would take the shoes and joked about me getting them half off like I deserved special treatment (it was kind of a lame joke, kinda regret it cuz it probs made me look cheap lol).
At this point I can tell she’s at least attracted to my looks. We went over to the cash register and she asked me for my email address to enter in their system and without even registering what was coming out of my mouth I said “did you want my number too?” With a cheeky grin and she smiled back and said “yea!, no” (the “no” was said a lot quieter than the “yea”) but in a smiley/laughy/positive type way.
After this unfortunately I didn’t know what to do and I just gave her my email address and the transaction took place as any other normal transaction and I was on my way.
I’m happy to have even had the experience because back when I was full on blue pill this sort of flirting type shyt would’ve never been a part of my vocabulary, ESPECIALLY to a girl working her job.
What are your guys thoughts on this and how could I have played it better to get her number?
Also how do you guys build attraction in this scenario? I feel I built some attraction but I didn’t feel there was any opportunity to make any sort of sexual joke and if I just decided to do it anyways it would not have been organic in how the situation played out.
So yea how would you guys have played this?
Thanks.
So I’ve noticed a change in myself, I’m getting better but still far from where I want to be. Here’s a situation that just happened that I’d like your feedback on for next time it happens.
I just left the mall after getting myself a new pair of kicks and in the store I was in, there was this really hot girl with the NICEST azz I’ve seen in awhile, working alone. (She was an 8.5-9).
So she came up to me right away and asked if I needed help with anything so I said yea let me get that pvssy...
Jk but I was thinking it lol.
I told her to get me the shoes I was looking at in my size and she came back with 2 different but similar pairs because the kind I wanted was out of stock.
I made a joke about her making a ton of commission off of everything she sells and we bantered a little about that. Then I saw a different pair I was interested in so I asked her opinion on what she thought of them (I didn’t realize she was wearing a pair of the “girl version” of them) so she pointed that out and I push n pulled by complimenting hers but then saying I like the low top version better (she had the high tops).
Anyways I had her grab me a pair of the low tops and she came back with the shoes and a few pairs of socks saying that she noticed how awesome my socks were that I was wearing (funky dress socks, I came straight from work) and thought she would bring them in case I was interested.
I told her I wasn’t interested but would take the shoes and joked about me getting them half off like I deserved special treatment (it was kind of a lame joke, kinda regret it cuz it probs made me look cheap lol).
At this point I can tell she’s at least attracted to my looks. We went over to the cash register and she asked me for my email address to enter in their system and without even registering what was coming out of my mouth I said “did you want my number too?” With a cheeky grin and she smiled back and said “yea!, no” (the “no” was said a lot quieter than the “yea”) but in a smiley/laughy/positive type way.
After this unfortunately I didn’t know what to do and I just gave her my email address and the transaction took place as any other normal transaction and I was on my way.
I’m happy to have even had the experience because back when I was full on blue pill this sort of flirting type shyt would’ve never been a part of my vocabulary, ESPECIALLY to a girl working her job.
What are your guys thoughts on this and how could I have played it better to get her number?
Also how do you guys build attraction in this scenario? I feel I built some attraction but I didn’t feel there was any opportunity to make any sort of sexual joke and if I just decided to do it anyways it would not have been organic in how the situation played out.
So yea how would you guys have played this?
Thanks.
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