Phone Conversations

[BuddhaSMASH]

My woman is OBSESSED with talking on the phone. I understand that the general DJ rule is not to spend alot of time on the phone, but trust me, I've tried not talking to her on the phone and it ends up badly. Just take my word for it. My question is: How the hell am I supposed to think of interesting things to talk about on the phone?? I can do it in person because it's more personal. Talking through a wire just throws me off. Help me out here homeboys.

 

[RKTek]

You honestly can't think of a way to control your phone conversations? What happens if this works out, and you get married? What happens when you must agree on where you'll live, the color of the carpet, the kind of car you buy, who you'll be friends with, etc., etc.

It's called 'p*ssy whipped'. I know, I know "It's just a phone conversation", but it sets the stage for other things down the road. You're not in control of the situation now, imagine what could happen later. Either she respects the fact that you dislike the phone and want to talk no more than 10 minutes or she's in reality a controlling manipulative woman who has very little regard for your true wants, needs and preferences.

BE CAREFUL.

 

[K56Connect]

In other words, bang her but don't marry her.

 

[Quick]

Are you seriously letting her hold you hostage on the phone? I understand you feel it's necessary to keep things good with her, but how long are you willing to put up with that. There's gotta be a point where you tell her you're not going to do it anymore.

If she's the one that wants to talk on the phone so much, let her think of things to talk about. After minutes of silence, maybe she'll want to hang up. Why would you make things easier for her? Not only is she insistent on talking all the time on the phone when you don't want to, but she's going to hold you responsible for keeping hours of boring conversation interesting?