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Phone call standoff

AceyR6

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Got into a fight with this girl where I caught her in a lie. I told her it was immature to lie about such petty ****. She then tests me by saying that maybe I didn't wanna talk to an immature person. I quickly agreed and hung up the phone. She is very thick headed and I doubt she'll be calling anytime soon even though I know she likes me alot. My question is, should I call her back and if so, what do I say so she doesn't think I'm crawling back. Thanks alot.
 

Hendon

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My opinion is to get ahead with life, have the abundance mentality, you have more than one girl to socialise with. Let's hope by sheer luck she gets to see you getting on life as usual, or even better, hanging around with other girls, but don't try walking pass her home with a girl and making things obvious that you're trying to show her you have a life still.
 

TesuqueRed

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Ah, man, acey, I answered on your other post on this. Too late. Anyway--you're not really in a position to be calling her very thick-headed (does that make her stupid or stubborn? or both?) since you weren't very swift here, either.

She didn't test you, she was defensive and angry and sarcastic--actually, since you were giving her a 3rd Grade morality lecture, her sarcasm was more sophisticated than anything you trotted out at that point. You walked yourself into that verbal exchange, I don't know how you could've avoided it except by not taking that ill-advised action in the first place.

But if she is really all that thick-headed and apparently lying to you in a manner you find unacceptable, why would you want to hear back from her? (regardless of her IL in you....)
 

AceyR6

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Sex

I read somewhere here that you shouldn't be afraid to walkaway angry from a woman sometimes. Make her know your the prize. So this is what I did. And it kind of backfired on me. I ended up calling her 3 days later, we both said we were in bad moods that night. But now she doesn't call me as often as she did before.
And why do I still want her after she lied to me??? Sex, simple
 
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