Time and time again, we rant and rave that the DJ-way is the ONLY way.
Or PUA's log-on and say, that DJ's are wussies and don't know anything.
Even other sites do the same. They make claims to fame to get women.
Yet, all these boil down to 1 thing, each "style" or philosophy, seeks to get 1 kind of woman. They're like BAIT. The BAIT here is, it begins with inner game. You define or install certain beliefs, then behaviors, and act them out, attracting CERTAIN women that would be attracted by certain things.
Tyler Durden made mention of 'social robots' before, and you become a robot of 1 program or system. Proof is in the pudding, because guys defend 1 style or the other, as they would religion, their family, or their country.
Take the pills.
Don't ascribe to 1 system, form of thought, or path.
Guys who think DJ-ism doesn't work, don't get it. They follow one method, and don't try what works for them, as opposed to trying them, incorporating what works, and discarding what doesn't.
That's the measure of success.
No one says you have to NOT be you, you just have to wake up to who you are.
The mind you think you own, owns you, and it's not your's. It's been programmed by family, friends, schools, the media, teacher, authority figures, and so on. They essentially told you who you are, who you'd be, what the world is like, and what reality is like. And now, the mind seeps into your daily life. Controlling and creating your world.
Own your mind and regain control of what you TRULY believe.
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I value ALL sources, but I look at each 'guru', mentor, book, program as 1 piece to MY arsenal, incorporated and used as I see fit.
When you incorporate ALL techniques, you become invincible, formless, changeless, not defined, flexible, and capable. You're not limited. You're limitless.
This means what's on PUA sites, written by Pook, or Doc Love, or any guy you like, has validity, but it isn't gospel. It isn't the WHOLE truth. It's a piece of it. There's no right or wrong. Right or wrong is a matter of perception.
Focus on being a Complete DJ/PUA.
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On How to be a Man: You are a man. You were born one. The internal beliefs and urgings are all you must act upon to BE. Do, then BE. You can be born a king, by title, but not actually BE king, because you don't embody the principles of doing it.
In very a thin analogy, President Logan on 24 is a complete pvssy. He claims ambition, but by and large, he lacks a backbone, he lacks leadership.
Just as Peyton Manning lacks leadership, as he blamed his Offensive Line for the problems they experienced on D. And if that's true, you don't call them out in the media. Ever hear the phrase: Congratulate in public, criticize privately???
So again, being, means doing. Sexually you might have the balls, but not use them. You might have the Y chromosome, but to me, more guys are like "fairweather fans", around when there's winning, rather than around when it's the toughest.
This is an issue that needs to be killed, right now. Being a Man means Doing the things that a Man feels inside. Your feelings hail from testerone and the internal feelings passed down from your ancestors before you. Follow them. Otherwise, are you unique if you follow others?
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Again, no one can say "Do this, you'll get girls" "Do this, you'll be complete."
The best part of THIS, is the journey. The best part of dating, of women, of any of it, is the learning, the growing, the fumbling. The imperfection. Because it gives the adrenaline of the rush of triumph, of work, of effort. But really, you are what it is you want to be, if you ACCEPT right now, that's what you'll do.
You aren't defined by the successes or failures. You aren't a PUA because you've scored 100 girls. Nor are you NOT a pua if you haven't. They're just titles by what you DO, not who you are.
I can't say READ THIS book, because what works for me, might not work for you, or be good for you. Try it. If it doesn't fit, go find something that does.
SoSuave is an information resource for men, boys, to wake up. To come together. The biggest problem overall, is that we try to make systems, thought processes. But isn't that what got you here?
The AFC system is a process, and if you're caught by system, you'll be caught by another. You'll be trapped by it. It will be like wearing certain 3-d glasses and viewing the world one way. Thought systems are prisons themselves, because you're forced to view it 1 way. So if you define yourself by PUA, DJ, or any other fun title, you're trapped. Now you defend the site. Maybe. And you define what you do by what the site says. Maybe. Or maybe you do the complete opposite. Either way, you're not acting in accordance to you and your life, which is why you're here.
That's what the AFC is. He's a victim of a system of thinking. A pua could be the same, and so could a DJ. The only reason a PUA feels pride and satisfaction is because he's rewarded socially. Socially, he's reinforced. Guys like guys who lay chicks. They get respect from other's. You feel accomplished. Women want men who are wanted by other women. So you get reinforced. Doesn't mean it's totally RIGHT for you, or RIGHT morally, but you get social acceptance so you're not all wrong. Or are you?
The DJ mentality can fall into the same trap, too. Perhaps you get TOO idealistic that you forsake your life, you forsake today. Maybe you toss up good girls, or you define women too quickly as slvts. Maybe you neglect PUA skill sets, not because they might work, but because you don't like the outcome, yet, that 1 skill might round of your whole self and enlighten you to what must be done to close.
This is akin to disliking sales, though it's the reason for business, period. And it's how all the analysts, admins, ceo's, and so forth survive and get paid. It's akin to foresaking the fundamentals of sales, when the only skills that might get you paid more, even in your analyst job are principles learned in a selling class or marketing class. That bias only hurts you and your total package.
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What's the answer?
Figure out what you personally want. And go from there. Find stuff that gets you where you want to be, and reject stuff that doesn't.
A-Unit
Or PUA's log-on and say, that DJ's are wussies and don't know anything.
Even other sites do the same. They make claims to fame to get women.
Yet, all these boil down to 1 thing, each "style" or philosophy, seeks to get 1 kind of woman. They're like BAIT. The BAIT here is, it begins with inner game. You define or install certain beliefs, then behaviors, and act them out, attracting CERTAIN women that would be attracted by certain things.
Tyler Durden made mention of 'social robots' before, and you become a robot of 1 program or system. Proof is in the pudding, because guys defend 1 style or the other, as they would religion, their family, or their country.
Take the pills.
Don't ascribe to 1 system, form of thought, or path.
Guys who think DJ-ism doesn't work, don't get it. They follow one method, and don't try what works for them, as opposed to trying them, incorporating what works, and discarding what doesn't.
That's the measure of success.
No one says you have to NOT be you, you just have to wake up to who you are.
The mind you think you own, owns you, and it's not your's. It's been programmed by family, friends, schools, the media, teacher, authority figures, and so on. They essentially told you who you are, who you'd be, what the world is like, and what reality is like. And now, the mind seeps into your daily life. Controlling and creating your world.
Own your mind and regain control of what you TRULY believe.
---------------------------
I value ALL sources, but I look at each 'guru', mentor, book, program as 1 piece to MY arsenal, incorporated and used as I see fit.
When you incorporate ALL techniques, you become invincible, formless, changeless, not defined, flexible, and capable. You're not limited. You're limitless.
This means what's on PUA sites, written by Pook, or Doc Love, or any guy you like, has validity, but it isn't gospel. It isn't the WHOLE truth. It's a piece of it. There's no right or wrong. Right or wrong is a matter of perception.
Focus on being a Complete DJ/PUA.
--------------------------
On How to be a Man: You are a man. You were born one. The internal beliefs and urgings are all you must act upon to BE. Do, then BE. You can be born a king, by title, but not actually BE king, because you don't embody the principles of doing it.
In very a thin analogy, President Logan on 24 is a complete pvssy. He claims ambition, but by and large, he lacks a backbone, he lacks leadership.
Just as Peyton Manning lacks leadership, as he blamed his Offensive Line for the problems they experienced on D. And if that's true, you don't call them out in the media. Ever hear the phrase: Congratulate in public, criticize privately???
So again, being, means doing. Sexually you might have the balls, but not use them. You might have the Y chromosome, but to me, more guys are like "fairweather fans", around when there's winning, rather than around when it's the toughest.
This is an issue that needs to be killed, right now. Being a Man means Doing the things that a Man feels inside. Your feelings hail from testerone and the internal feelings passed down from your ancestors before you. Follow them. Otherwise, are you unique if you follow others?
----------------------------
Again, no one can say "Do this, you'll get girls" "Do this, you'll be complete."
The best part of THIS, is the journey. The best part of dating, of women, of any of it, is the learning, the growing, the fumbling. The imperfection. Because it gives the adrenaline of the rush of triumph, of work, of effort. But really, you are what it is you want to be, if you ACCEPT right now, that's what you'll do.
You aren't defined by the successes or failures. You aren't a PUA because you've scored 100 girls. Nor are you NOT a pua if you haven't. They're just titles by what you DO, not who you are.
I can't say READ THIS book, because what works for me, might not work for you, or be good for you. Try it. If it doesn't fit, go find something that does.
SoSuave is an information resource for men, boys, to wake up. To come together. The biggest problem overall, is that we try to make systems, thought processes. But isn't that what got you here?
The AFC system is a process, and if you're caught by system, you'll be caught by another. You'll be trapped by it. It will be like wearing certain 3-d glasses and viewing the world one way. Thought systems are prisons themselves, because you're forced to view it 1 way. So if you define yourself by PUA, DJ, or any other fun title, you're trapped. Now you defend the site. Maybe. And you define what you do by what the site says. Maybe. Or maybe you do the complete opposite. Either way, you're not acting in accordance to you and your life, which is why you're here.
That's what the AFC is. He's a victim of a system of thinking. A pua could be the same, and so could a DJ. The only reason a PUA feels pride and satisfaction is because he's rewarded socially. Socially, he's reinforced. Guys like guys who lay chicks. They get respect from other's. You feel accomplished. Women want men who are wanted by other women. So you get reinforced. Doesn't mean it's totally RIGHT for you, or RIGHT morally, but you get social acceptance so you're not all wrong. Or are you?
The DJ mentality can fall into the same trap, too. Perhaps you get TOO idealistic that you forsake your life, you forsake today. Maybe you toss up good girls, or you define women too quickly as slvts. Maybe you neglect PUA skill sets, not because they might work, but because you don't like the outcome, yet, that 1 skill might round of your whole self and enlighten you to what must be done to close.
This is akin to disliking sales, though it's the reason for business, period. And it's how all the analysts, admins, ceo's, and so forth survive and get paid. It's akin to foresaking the fundamentals of sales, when the only skills that might get you paid more, even in your analyst job are principles learned in a selling class or marketing class. That bias only hurts you and your total package.
-------------------------
What's the answer?
Figure out what you personally want. And go from there. Find stuff that gets you where you want to be, and reject stuff that doesn't.
A-Unit
