Penetrating the ***** Shield

[My Name is Nobody]

Met this girl online and have been talking on the phone and IM.

She basically told me up front she's been dealing with some stalkers online.

So she has this b1tch shield up hardcore. Plus, she's hung up on her EX. Keeps bringing him up and her anger issues. Not sure what happened there, I don't really care or want to know.

Like last night we were chatting, and she led me to believe she wanted to talk on the phone. Then she just hangs up AIM. And like a chump I called her cell and she didn't answer.

Last time I do that. I already deleted her #, and almost deleted her AIM, but I'll give her another chance I guess.

So is she playing me to see if I'll get stalkerish and call her 20 times a day, is she not interested, should I next?

How do I penetrate this girls shield?

 

[mrRuckus]

Every girl I know that has or had some "stalker," actively encourages his behavior.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Every girl I know that has or had some "stalker," actively encourages his behavior.

That's bullsh1t. There is NO excuse for texting some girl you barely know all day and blow up her cell phone because she doesn't give you the attention you desire.

Ofcourse this is just what she told me. For all I know she's playing me and using this as an excuse to be a b1tch. I'm about to walk. But she's hot as hell, and walking may be a mistake.

 

[WhitePimp]

She's probably telling some other dude she's interested in about how this guy, probably a stalker, keeps trying to talk to her when she's not interested in him. :rock:

 

[My Name is Nobody]

She's probably telling some other dude she's interested in about how this guy, probably a stalker, keeps trying to talk to her when she's not interested in him. :rock:

Probably.

And if you are referring to me as "this guy", I will not be calling her or initiating chats with her anymore. I will keep her on AIM and give her a chance to initiate with me but that's about it.
I'm questioning doing this much even.

I'm kicking myself for trying to call her last night and giving her the upper hand when she didn't answer. I shouldn't have tolerated her behavior when she just hung up on AIM after saying she wants to talk. She probably EXPECTS me to become a stalker, but I'm above that nonsense.

Lesson learned.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Is mentioning her ex a bunch of times in the first phone convo a huge red flag or
is it worth pursuing?

 

[The challenger]

well theres heres a good straight forward test.

dont intiate an im with her again for awile. If she im's you then you know shes atleast a little interested. If she still treats you like a tampon then go game another girl at the same time. You'll automaticly seem like you dont give a **** about her anymore and shel miss the attention and might try something again. When she does just play it cool and act dj

o and this girl sounds like she needs some SERIOUS negging holy ****

 

[My Name is Nobody]

well theres heres a good straight forward test.

dont intiate an im with her again for awile. If she im's you then you know shes atleast a little interested. If she still treats you like a tampon then go game another girl at the same time. You'll automaticly seem like you dont give a **** about her anymore and shel miss the attention and might try something again. When she does just play it cool and act dj

o and this girl sounds like she needs some SERIOUS negging holy ****

yeah that's how it's going to go IF I decide to unblock her from AIM.. and that might not happen till later this week.

 

[Raikojo17]

That's bullsh1t. There is NO excuse for texting some girl you barely know all day and blow up her cell phone because she doesn't give you the attention you desire.

Ofcourse this is just what she told me. For all I know she's playing me and using this as an excuse to be a b1tch. I'm about to walk. But she's hot as hell, and walking may be a mistake.

walking is never a mistake unless she clearly shows she is not into u, which this girl seems to be doing.

i would walk, i could give a damn about how hot she was, if she's a b1tch she can jus get to stepping. there are hotter, better girls out there. heck, there are even better girls that arent as hot.

 

[Modro]

why are u on aim? talk to her in person or phone her to arrange this...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

why are u on aim? talk to her in person or phone her to arrange this...

yeah i did that we are supposed to do something sounds like she's flaking though.

 

[LAWYER]

dude when talk to girls online there suppose to call you...

 

[My Name is Nobody]

dude when talk to girls online there suppose to call you...

she did call me first.

 

[wayword]

Crying wolf...

Every girl I know that has or had some "stalker," actively encourages his behavior.

DAMN STR8!!!! :rockon:

Funny how she can't just BLOCK these online "stalkers."

Usually, such a girl is halfway guilty and just mislabels the dude she's been leading on as a "stalker" to immediately pass the guilt onto him and remove all suspicion from herself. All while painting herself as a highly desirable victim. It's similar to falsely crying "sexual harassment" or "rape." BIG RED FLAG for an attention HOR.

Of course, this only works like a CHARM on AFC Captain Save-A-Hor suckas like this OP.

Hook
Line
Sinker

:crackup:

 

[My Name is Nobody]

DAMN STR8!!!! :rockon:

Funny how she can't just BLOCK these online "stalkers."

Usually, such a girl is halfway guilty and just mislabels the dude she's been leading on as a "stalker" to immediately pass the guilt onto him and remove all suspicion from herself. All while painting herself as a highly desirable victim. It's similar to falsely crying "sexual harassment" or "rape." BIG RED FLAG for an attention HOR.

Of course, this only works like a CHARM on AFC Captain Save-A-Hor suckas like this OP.

Hook
Line
Sinker

:crackup:

Keep telling yourself that.

And it's hard to block someone after you give them your #.

Oh and no, I'm sure there are no guys like that. Guys who think they won the challenge as soon as they get the #. Then get obsessed with the girl and call her non stop. Then when she doesn't talk to him, he starts texting her. And acts like a psycho. Then gets pissed and sends her emails, cussing her out.

I'm sure there are no men like that in this world.

Get your head out of fantasyland.

 

[wayword]

Keep telling yourself that.

And it's hard to block someone after you give them your #.

Oh and no, I'm sure there are no guys like that. Guys who think they won the challenge as soon as they get the #. Then get obsessed with the girl and call her non stop. Then when she doesn't talk to him, he starts texting her. And acts like a psycho. Then gets pissed and sends her emails, cussing her out.

I'm sure there are no men like that in this world.

Get your head out of fantasyland.

Like I said, usually these guys were strung along with lots of verbal assurance...and then find out she has been doing the same with other guys, is phucking some other guy, has lied to him, stood him up, has some dirty secrets, etc etc.

At that point when he finally pulls his head out - he's pissed at being misled and lied to - and yes, may want to set the record straight to her.

Of course, at this point the attention hor doesn't want to be held accountable for her web of lies and closet full of skeletons and so will discredit this guy as just some random "stalker" who is "terr0rizing" her. *boohoo*

You are a fool if you take her story at face value. If you actually knew the full story - generally it's some AFC she led on and deceived for attention or maybe an ex-bf that she's now phucking...

And the mere fact that she claimed these guys are still "stalking" her on AIM proves she's not really being stalked - since obviously she hasn't even BLOCKED these guys yet! LMAO! Pull your head out of her ass already, Captain AFC! :crackup:

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Like I said, usually these guys were strung along with lots of verbal assurance...and then find out she has been doing the same with other guys, is phucking some other guy, has lied to him, stood him up, has some dirty secrets, etc etc.

At that point when he finally pulls his head out - he's pissed at being misled and lied to - and yes, may want to set the record straight to her.

Of course, at this point the attention hor doesn't want to be held accountable for her web of lies and closet full of skeletons and so will discredit this guy as just some random "stalker" who is "terr0rizing" her. *boohoo*

You are a fool if you take her story at face value. If you actually knew the full story - generally it's some AFC she led on and deceived for attention or maybe an ex-bf that she's now phucking...

And the mere fact that she claimed these guys are still "stalking" her on AIM proves she's not really being stalked - since obviously she hasn't even BLOCKED these guys yet! LMAO! Pull your head out of her ass already, Captain AFC! :crackup:

Alright. I agree.

Whats up with a b1tch putting her ad up, calling me up (first) then telling me about the ex?

Then I try to get together and she said some stupid sh1t like"she scared of opening up" to someone.

Plus get this: She said the dude who was stalking her or whatever was obsessed with HIS ex.

Then she starts telling me all about her EX and it's obvious she's hung up on him.

 

[DJDoomage]

Id tell the girl I am exactly like her EX, and if she bring it up again tell her all men are like that, and change subject. Same with stalking. Fvck the ho. :kick:

 

[My Name is Nobody]

Id tell the girl I am exactly like her EX, and if she bring it up again tell her all men are like that, and change subject. Same with stalking. Fvck the ho. :kick:

I don't know about telling her "im exactly like her EX".

 

[My Name is Nobody]

well she just came online... She came online, then it looked like she blocked me and went off real quick. 5 minutes later, she is back online and its been about 20 minutes and i havent said anything neither has she. what should do stay quiet?