Pathetic problem i know......

rejhavin

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My problem is that I was really good friends with a girl, almost best friends, and I kind of got the impression that she liked me too. We got really close and I know that she did like me in that way, and I asked her out, she said yes, but then two days later said no, and that she wasnt ready for a boyfriend.

Now whenever I see her, she totally ignores me when I say hi, yet I still want to be her friend, and she just doesnt want to know.

Have I totally screwed this up (i think i have), and how can i sort this out. i sent her a text saying cant we just forget about the past and move on, she didnt text back.

What should i do, should i just totally not say hello to her anymore, or what else shall I do, it's making me quite miserable because i've lost one of my best friends.........
 

i am me

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talk to her. say sorry for makin her uncomfortable and just joke around with her like you would if you never asked her out.
 

The Comeback Kid

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similar problem here, although the girl wasn't one of my best friends lol.

It seems there is always awkwardness (more on the girl's part) after a guy asks her out and she says no. :rolleyes:
 
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