It’s not as easy as you make it sound. A person has to put in at least 10,000 hours to attain mastery whether it’s a subject, skill or profession but of course there are exceptions to the rule for those of us who learn fast. It’s easier said than done because a person literally has to put there head down and get to “work” which could take years without yielding any immediate results. It’s called delayed gratification which is the hardest thing to do and understand for most people.
Everyone wants to take shortcuts, quick ways, and people think that watching a random video or reading a random article on a subject just once...makes them an expert which is hardly the truth. That’s why there is a whole industry catered to people who don’t want to do the “work” required to get what they want but rather just be given the “secrets” of the rich, wealthy, leadership or anything else that these “gurus” prey on...which is a persons laziness and lack of grit required to achieve the results they want in whatever endeavor they might choose.
If you ever go to a Vodoo shop (black or white magic practiced in Africa primarily in the Haitian culture) or Santeria shop (black or white magic practiced in Cuba or mainly in Latin American countries) — (they are almost the same but vary a little bit based on the culture and both originated in Africa) — you will see bottles of potions and elixirs that promise you fertility, wealth, longevity, happiness and they even have rituals and practices for anything else that your heart could possibly desire. Again it’s preying on the basic need of a human to not put in the “work” but rather pay a some small amount to achieve what would require a lot of time to materialize. It’s still taking a shortcut which doesn’t work.
Same thing with the lottery and scratch off where majority of the winners come from poor neighborhoods and within a few years the winners lose all there fortunes because they never developed the character and mental fortitude to attain that type of wealth.
Talking to women is just one aspect of life and a man should be working on other things besides that to attain mastery over oneself which is not an easy process. You want to strive for things that challenge you and push you to be better just a little bit everyday. Little things/changes add up to big results overtime...if you stay consistent and patiently aggressive. Regardless, everything takes time to learn, build, or do. In a perfect world we would all be rich, good looking, in shape and famous but unfortunately no one wants to pay the price required to make there goals/dreams a reality. You have to pay the price and sacrifice a lot of things before you even begin to see results.
There is also a myth of the overnight “success” story but what you don’t see is the amount of time, sacrifice, and energy they put into there field to get where they are. There is no such thing as overnight “success” and don’t be fooled by those who claim it. Ask anyone who is the best at what they do and they will all tell you that it takes a lot of “work”. So mastery doesn’t come easy but with enough persistence, effort and hard “work” it can be achieved by anyone.
