So, i generally don't approach too many women. I'd say maybe a handful a year and my success rate is about 10%. This is including women that give me IOI's. I'm pretty attractive on Asian males, 5'11, 170lbs, good physique and in shape.
The thing is i get hit on a lot imo. Atleast on average once a month since i was a kid. Either some girl calling my sexy, cute, hot, or nice earring/necklace, etc. I just ignore it normally if it's a cat call. I'm confident in my looks but don't really know how to respond. Ever since i was a kid, i was always awkward in approaching women but i never cared.
Women haven't been on my mind too much as of late but i'd like to have a healthy lifestyle and date around. The thing is, i get and can get dates regularly, since women ask me out a lot. Just the way i am, really calm, reserved and serious (its not really who i am, just how i shield myself from drama). Most of the time i don't like any of the girls that approach me. They range anywhere from 5's-7's. If i see an 8, i like. I can use my passive game to get her. Somehow squeeze my way to a drinking session with the group and i literally just drink and smoke by myself and doze off looking at the way, the sky, think about sh1t and she will come talk to me or will make subtle passes at me. Now if i approach her, always turns out bad, but if i wait for her to come to me and take it from there it works well.
Now, once in a blue moon there will be like a 8+ and its pretty darn annoying when there is an 8+ and i catch her looking at me multiple times she has a boyfriend(assuming that's why she doesn't talk to me). I honestly like keeping to myself, i got a lot of **** to sort out and drinking sometimes lets me think clearly or just allows me to zone out and take a break.
My proactive game has taken a major hit in the last few years as i've been doing so much stuff, my brain literally shuts off i believe. I can't hold a conversation with men or women. I manage 80 accounts and my job is to make sure all 80 companies are happy. I talk to hundreds of people through phone, email and face to face meetings on a regular basis. It takes enough concentration to hold a fluid conversation already that i just let my brain turn off once i'm done. I want to start approaching women I WANT to talk to, not the ones that talk to me. Waiting for the women to show up in my circle is not ideal as i do have some ****blocking friends.
Anyone have problems with holding conversation and still have gotten to be successful in picking up. I know conversation and witty chat is the key, I'm actually good at flirting and joking when i want to be but it's like that skills is gone.
The thing is i get hit on a lot imo. Atleast on average once a month since i was a kid. Either some girl calling my sexy, cute, hot, or nice earring/necklace, etc. I just ignore it normally if it's a cat call. I'm confident in my looks but don't really know how to respond. Ever since i was a kid, i was always awkward in approaching women but i never cared.
Women haven't been on my mind too much as of late but i'd like to have a healthy lifestyle and date around. The thing is, i get and can get dates regularly, since women ask me out a lot. Just the way i am, really calm, reserved and serious (its not really who i am, just how i shield myself from drama). Most of the time i don't like any of the girls that approach me. They range anywhere from 5's-7's. If i see an 8, i like. I can use my passive game to get her. Somehow squeeze my way to a drinking session with the group and i literally just drink and smoke by myself and doze off looking at the way, the sky, think about sh1t and she will come talk to me or will make subtle passes at me. Now if i approach her, always turns out bad, but if i wait for her to come to me and take it from there it works well.
Now, once in a blue moon there will be like a 8+ and its pretty darn annoying when there is an 8+ and i catch her looking at me multiple times she has a boyfriend(assuming that's why she doesn't talk to me). I honestly like keeping to myself, i got a lot of **** to sort out and drinking sometimes lets me think clearly or just allows me to zone out and take a break.
My proactive game has taken a major hit in the last few years as i've been doing so much stuff, my brain literally shuts off i believe. I can't hold a conversation with men or women. I manage 80 accounts and my job is to make sure all 80 companies are happy. I talk to hundreds of people through phone, email and face to face meetings on a regular basis. It takes enough concentration to hold a fluid conversation already that i just let my brain turn off once i'm done. I want to start approaching women I WANT to talk to, not the ones that talk to me. Waiting for the women to show up in my circle is not ideal as i do have some ****blocking friends.
Anyone have problems with holding conversation and still have gotten to be successful in picking up. I know conversation and witty chat is the key, I'm actually good at flirting and joking when i want to be but it's like that skills is gone.
