Passing PUAhood

[SexiMan]

Have been reading sosuave occasionally for a while now. Long time lurker so to speak. Been a natural for years, nailing over 100 women a year on a good year, however I am 34 now and I would like to settle down and have kids before I am 40. However the entire system is totally rigged against men, divorce laws, custody laws, the entire system. With over 50% of marriage's ending in divorce and a third of all fathers loosing custody of children it seems like an insane risk to take, especially when you can loose half of everything you have and be forced into indentured servitude for 18 years to pay for getting stabbed in the back and having your children taken away. Sure you can screen the girl and try and make sure she is better than the rest but pretty much every guy who settles down attempts to do the same thing and a huge amount fail.

Prenups can be thrown out so marriage is a total no-go for men, however even having kids seems like a risky business.

What are your thoughts on procreating and passing on your genetic material.
I was playing with the idea of getting a woman in a poor country to have kids and raise them at a fraction of the cost (outsourcing to India so to speak)
Somewhere warm and cheap I could go and spend time with the kids and live like a king while on holidays, however there is still the risk of the woman getting a visa, coming over to europe and trying to take me for cash, and women from that region would be very motivated to try. Fake identity perhaps?

What are your thoughts on having a family with minimal risk, cost, and limited impact on your freedom.

 

[zekko]

This is crazy, but I was thinking that if I was younger I would go donate sperm. Because there's no way I'm going to have kids, and certainly not at my age. But at least, like you say, my genetic material would get passed on. The bad thing is, I wouldn't be able to raise them the way I want, but if I wanted to do that I'd just have them myself. Truth is, I don't want to spend the money or the energy.

I can't do this though because I think 36 is the cutoff age for donating sperm? I'm not sure. If it is though, you still have a little time left to do it.

 

[Albatross953]

Well if you really are a natural, find and keep a woman who easily makes more money than you do.

 

[skinnyguy]

Well if you really are a natural, find and keep a woman who easily makes more money than you do.

+1

You should have kids. I think that you're probably bagged a lot of BPD/crazy women and think that they are all bad. I'm guessing having that many different sex partners can do that to you. I've had much less sex but I've never been cheated on or hurt. If I were to marry a girl I'm pretty sure that she would be quality cause I'm a very good judge of character.

If you find a lawyer/doctor etc they will want to keep the marriage alive (for the most part). Don't marry some girl who's working at Costco or Cheetah's.

 

[Beetlesales]

Just make sure you watch The Bourne Identity a few times before you attempt it.

Have to have them Jason Bourne skills before nutting inside a HBB 5/10 and expecting to last 18 years.

 

[SexiMan]

Well if you really are a natural, find and keep a woman who easily makes more money than you do.

Well I am good looking and fairly suave, however a large part of it though is that I do make a lot of money so I do tend to attract a lot of parasitical women, this has left men very suspicious of women.

Sperm donation is an idea, it just feels a bit weird, if I did have kids out there I would like to know about it and know they are being taken care of, also I do like the idea of a relationship that lasts for when I am older, its just I have been burnt so many times that I am really unwilling to take the risk right now.

Sure I loved they playboy lifestyle and I am not willing to give it up just yet however the sort of women who get attracted to me flashing the cash are probably not the sort of women I want to settle with, and given how many women like that there are and how skilled some of them are at manipulation I sometimes despair about being sure that any women I settle with wont end up turning out to be like that. I know the legal system with regards divorce and family law are so stacked against men that I feel it would be like having a sword hanging over my head all the time, even if the women is good.