I'm experimenting with this one girl (just to test some things out)so here's the deal and the EXACT messages (translated 99.5% correctly from my native tongue).
Background: I met this girl at a party and I was charming her and making her laugh (went great. she almost spoiled me with attention). So after about 20 minutes I asked if she would like to take a walk with me (apparently to great a friend of mine that called and couldnt find the party). She agreed fast of course (and I knew the friend wouldnt show up for another 45 minutes- 1 hour - so I figured Its a chance to use more DJ techniques).
So we talked and talked abit more.
I was really ****y and funny. She asked if I wanted to catch a movie some time and I agreed. Anyway I asked for her cellnumber (not homenumber) and then we went back to the party (she had already forgotten the excuse to meet the friend).
I stayed for about 20 minutes and mingled with some other people and girls (and made sure she watched) and then left (because I knew that if I remained I would get drunk and hence blow my chances with this girl).
Anyways the day after (yes you got it. the DAY after) I wrote (yes you got it. I WROTE) her a message on the cellphone.
And since then (its been 3 days) we've written about 10 messages back and forth (Im making sure not to call her and I figure she wont call me first, because girls dont to that). She keeps writing "hear from you soon", "hugs" and "kisses" etc etc.
So today I wrote and asked "well do you want to catch that movie you wanted to see so much?"
and the answer was "well I got homework to write and Ive got a new job which sucks up alot of time. I cant really commit myself until the fifth and I am really stressed. But after that then I will be a free soul. So it will take atleast a week before we can see the movie."
I figure that I have proven a couple of things. First my ****y/funny cover is blown by not being ****y and funny by voice, i.e calling her. Second she is starting to "test" me and see how far I can "wait" for her.
She is not really that pretty and not on my level.. But I just wanted to prove to myself about DJ tactics.
Now comes the question.
Should I next her?
Should I put her on-hold?
Use more DJ tactics?
Or should I actually go on the movie and then stop being such a wuss and start calling her like a DJ should?
Suggestions?
Background: I met this girl at a party and I was charming her and making her laugh (went great. she almost spoiled me with attention). So after about 20 minutes I asked if she would like to take a walk with me (apparently to great a friend of mine that called and couldnt find the party). She agreed fast of course (and I knew the friend wouldnt show up for another 45 minutes- 1 hour - so I figured Its a chance to use more DJ techniques).
So we talked and talked abit more.
I was really ****y and funny. She asked if I wanted to catch a movie some time and I agreed. Anyway I asked for her cellnumber (not homenumber) and then we went back to the party (she had already forgotten the excuse to meet the friend).
I stayed for about 20 minutes and mingled with some other people and girls (and made sure she watched) and then left (because I knew that if I remained I would get drunk and hence blow my chances with this girl).
Anyways the day after (yes you got it. the DAY after) I wrote (yes you got it. I WROTE) her a message on the cellphone.
And since then (its been 3 days) we've written about 10 messages back and forth (Im making sure not to call her and I figure she wont call me first, because girls dont to that). She keeps writing "hear from you soon", "hugs" and "kisses" etc etc.
So today I wrote and asked "well do you want to catch that movie you wanted to see so much?"
and the answer was "well I got homework to write and Ive got a new job which sucks up alot of time. I cant really commit myself until the fifth and I am really stressed. But after that then I will be a free soul. So it will take atleast a week before we can see the movie."
I figure that I have proven a couple of things. First my ****y/funny cover is blown by not being ****y and funny by voice, i.e calling her. Second she is starting to "test" me and see how far I can "wait" for her.
She is not really that pretty and not on my level.. But I just wanted to prove to myself about DJ tactics.
Now comes the question.
Should I next her?
Should I put her on-hold?
Use more DJ tactics?
Or should I actually go on the movie and then stop being such a wuss and start calling her like a DJ should?
Suggestions?
