Paid gig, not for me.

kookdekoo

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
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Sure. Im sure there is no shortage of guys here who have "never paid for sex". They are even proud of it.
 

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Yup, I’d feel exactly the same way I’m sure. Never have used a sex worker before because i find it disgusting and reductive.

Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?
 

Slowhandluke

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?

If you don't have sex with a girl for a very long time, what do you do with the blue balls??????? Go monk? Or do you just rub one out every now and then? If you just rub one out, what's the difference between that and getting a professional? Do you have more desire for your hand than for an actual girl (who granted may not really want to have sex with you)? Or is it about just saving the money? I'm genuinely interested.
 
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Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated.
Oh, and you really think that a woman you picked up in a club and have drunk ONS with has genuine desire for you? Or that woman from Tinder that has sex on 1st or 2nd date? :rolleyes: See this recent thread for an example: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/female-mind.278618/

She has that kind of 'genuine desire' for all the guys she's fvcked before you. And it either lasts for that one time or a few more lays. So how is that different from an escort? At least with the escort the exchange of services is honest and upfront. No need for acting, BSing, wasting time texting/going on dates with women you have very little interest in except for her pvssy.
 

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Are there others like me ? I am just out of a five year LTR. Been a month now. Was feeling horny. Spent $250 and learnt my lesson. Rollo says that genuine desire can't be negotiated. It's even more of a no brainer that desire cannot be purchased.
Long story short : **** didn't rise to the occasion. The jaded look on the face of the escort, her going through the motions were a huge turnoff. Anyway, money wasted and lesson learnt. Paid sex is not for me. Has never worked, will never work.
Anymore people like me here ?
Well, that's a bit like going to a restaurant one time in your life, not liking the food and then deciding never to go to a restaurant ever again.
 
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