Oy! What to do?

[So pimp its scary]

Here is my problem :

I've been seeing this girl for about a month now... when we started going out, she told me how she is a 21 yr old virgin. Which I thought at the time was fine, I mean, she was saying how I outdo every single one of her past bf's by a long shot (she was from a small town, so I imagined that dudes from hicksville are nowhere near dj's).

Anyway, I get a call last weekend from a girl that I was dj'ing in the past, but she flaked on me, so I Nexted... saying that she wants to get drunk.

Then, I was at the bar last weekend, and as I was sitting with my buddy a girl sat next, and put her feet up on the counter, I looked and blurted out, " who do you think you are putting your feet up on the counter." to which she took them down... I replied,"I didn't say you had to take them down, I was only joking."

Then she comes and sits next to me, and we start talking... next thing I know, she sticks her tongue into my ear, and not long after... down my throat... and she gave me her # before the night was out.

Back to my gf, She is a great girl, except for the fact that she is too religious, and uses that as reason to not have sex before marriage... that is really starting to cause a lil bit of pressure down in the gonads.

I guess my question is, what would be a way that I could 'dump' my gf, while leaving the door open so that I could come back to her after my little side projects are taken care of?

I've been trying to think something up for the past couple of days... and I'm also getting worried cuz this women is starting to try and get me into thinking about marriage.... OY! That isn't going to happen any time soon.

What do you guys think?

 

[iqqi]

so... then why are you even in this commitment???

 

[So pimp its scary]

The thing is that I first got into this commitment mostly because of a lack of prospects, and I was only expecting the relationship to last not very long... or that I would somehow convince her to change her mind about sex.

Was I sadly mistaken, now, after seeing her for a while, she turned out to have a lot more potential then I had first imagined.... and I really am not ready to settle down yet. I still need to get some stuf out of my system.

Oh, and untill you are with a girl that will do most anything except for have sex... even though she LOVES to talk about it, you will find out that there is a great deal of pressure that builds up down there... and seeing as she is not going do anything anytime soon.

All that I really need is to find a way to put her on the backburner for a few months while I go and relieve myself so that I can come back to her and not have this thing eating away at my concsiousness... Any ideas? And, I know that this is a very brutal way of putting it, but that is the only way that I know how to put it right now, any help is appreciated.

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Don't ever apologize for being a man, and wanting what is natural. You need to get this across, and not let her control you by her lack of sexual interest. At 21, you should not be in a serious relationship, specially if you are not getting everything you want out of it. Unless you are planning on marrying her soon, be prepared to walk a way.

 

[DankNuggs]

Originally posted by So pimp its scary
The thing is that I first got into this commitment mostly because of a lack of prospects, and I was only expecting the relationship to last not very long... or that I would somehow convince her to change her mind about sex.

Was I sadly mistaken, now, after seeing her for a while, she turned out to have a lot more potential then I had first imagined.... and I really am not ready to settle down yet. I still need to get some stuf out of my system.

Oh, and untill you are with a girl that will do most anything except for have sex... even though she LOVES to talk about it, you will find out that there is a great deal of pressure that builds up down there... and seeing as she is not going do anything anytime soon.

All that I really need is to find a way to put her on the backburner for a few months while I go and relieve myself so that I can come back to her and not have this thing eating away at my concsiousness... Any ideas? And, I know that this is a very brutal way of putting it, but that is the only way that I know how to put it right now, any help is appreciated.

Seems like whenever you come back to her, the issue will remain unsolved unless you marry her...seems like a bum deal...there is no good answer...she'll go ape$hit if you tell her you need sex and are leaving her for it...damn religion...