owwwwww.

[Cloud-uk]

Damn!

Just came for a quick whine. Girl I was seeing, real hottie, ltr just made the biggest mistake of her life.

We were kinda in a mutal non-seeing other people relationship. lol, if that made any sence! Now you folks there wasn't any oneitis in anyway, she was, and still is a great girl, funny, smart, and hot.

Still, we go to a party together, I meet her there. I expect a warm welcome, but she's rele stand offish "wtf is up with that???" I ask myself, and I take her off to a field (as you do) to find out. Turns out some people had been talking bad about me, saying I was using her. Idiots. Rele messed up my game, but still, stupid ***** should have asked me about it, so I decided toke her realise what a dumb ***** she'd been, basicly I told the truth. It was quite easy, I wasn't using her, and I guess I rele did think the world of her.

So, "crisis averted" I think to myself, quite proud on my handleing of the situation.

Then she gets drunk and pulls some guy.

Very bad move girl, very bad move. You don't give me that talk and then get with some other guy.

She was actually distraught about it, she was pretty pissed tho. Still, she was breaking down over it, crying uncontrolably. Her friends wanted me to talk to her. I was understandably quite pissed off. She'd dissapointed me more, thats what rele got me down.

But there's one thing I didn't do. I didn't get angry, and there was plenty reason to. I was a bit sad, kinda put a damper on my night but I have two good girl mates who were there when I needed to talk about it, very good mates them, helped me put the whole thing in perspective. I'd just like to say that there are some people here who are rele against girl mates, but I think thats wrong. They were far better at being there for me to talk to that my guy mates. I hope no one comes and says that talking thu this was a girly thing to do, and if you were thinking about it I wouldn't make a fool out of yourself.

Anyway, morning after now, and I have recieved about a bizilion "sorry" text messages. There is kinda a morbid pleasure in having a girl who's hurt you fall to your feet crying. Then looking her in her eyes, and simply saying "maybe I'll call you tomorrow".

She's been an idiot cos she's lost me as a friend. A year ago....I dunno how I would have handled the situation...but now, I know exactly what I want to do. She ****s with me, on alcohol or not, she pays. And she pays the biggest price, never being with me. Remember kids, you are the most important thing in your life. Once you see that, you have an inate value that is worth more to anyone than any material posession. The biggest impact you can have on someone's life is the denial of your company. And every now and then its good to have an impact on someone, just to show you cant be ****ed with.

And an impact I will have.

Besides, there were some hotties at drama today, may have to do something about them Oh well- easy come easy go!

 

[bibby18]

this reminds me of when a girl dumps you...you make her come back to you...and then give her the ljbf. morbid pleasure it is..or is it pay back..... like you say....easy come easy go!

 

[drixsa]

cloud-

nice job playin it cool

here the ironic part:

you 2 agree to be in a "relationship" where all you really do is hook up yet you are free to get with others

though she gets mad for you "using" her... uh hello you both are using each other

since you agreed with this girl that you didnt have a commitment you have no real right to be pissed at her for hookin up with another dude

your only real argument would be that she disrespected you while hookin up with someone practically in front of you

since she has apologized it doesnt seem to be an issue

see the disrespect is what really bothers me. what she did is technically nothing wrong, regardless though id me madd pissed

if someone did that to me id get rid of them so fast, it shows weak charecter, in my opinion

in terms of female friends, i think they are very good but i dont like to reveal my problems, espically not to girls b/c i feel that i cannot trust them (we all know how much girls like to talk espically when they just got an exclusive)

also, who was talking **** bout you??

find out who it was and approach those fauckers

put them in their damn place

 

[El brujo]

find out who it was and approach those fauckers

You said it man. SHow them who's the boss.

 

[Joe Schmoe]

way to be man not going back to her to give her another chance to piss you off

 

[jmm854]

I think this situation calls for a hump em and dump em!

Seriously dude, why not? Take her out, bang the bejeezus outta her(shouldn't be difficult seeing as she's pretty much begging for you to come back), and then act like you don't know her. She'll still feel bad but you'll have gotten some action outta the deal as well!

 

[Eventide]

drix: I think he meant that they're both going "steady," he just worded it oddly.

Cloud: She probably went to the other guy because she couldn't stand how you kept saying "rele."

 

[Cloud-uk]

eventide: ur rele a tit.

lol, just playing man, but I'll say rele if I want to

Yeah we were going steady- just to clear that up. I have since talked to her recently, I have no real intention of getting her to hate me, she's a nice enough girl. Technically the ball is in my court, and I could start the relationship up again if I wanted to, probably hump & dump if I felt like it, but I'd rather not.

Sometimes its healthy to treat people right if they've deserved it, and since this was a drunken mistake I'll let her off a serious ass kickin.

Oh yeah, problem is I don't know who these people are! Dumb ***** wouldn't tell me...and I'm not sure if it's them speaking bad, or her being useless and getting a twisted interpretation of stuff. Maybe someone will be man enough to tell me they ****ed up...

Ah well, shame that didn't work out, back to the game...

 

[drixsa]

Sometimes its healthy to treat people right if they've deserved it, and since this was a drunken mistake I'll let her off a serious ass kickin.

just a drunkin mistake?

please a drunkin mistake is tripping or being too flirtatious, but hooking up with another dude, pretty much right in front of you (at least in the same house).

man you are being way too loose and letting her off way too easy

it seems like you are thinkin with your d1ck instead of your head

 

[Cloud-uk]

mmm gd point. lol, yeah the only reason I would want to get back with her would be because of my ****. I hate you penis. You **** up my deciksion making.

But my decision to leave her, while not being overly harsh to her is actually a head decision- it wouldn't help me or her.

By dropping her hard I send out a message that you cant mess with me, but that also makes me seem like a total ass, and to throw her apology back in her face is just rude, not cool.

By dropping her, but being reasonable about it I show that I don't tollerate this ****- drunk or not- but I'm a reasonable guy, in control of my emotions. As I've said before, there's no need for hump & dump or any of that other "revenge" stuff. You guys may disagree, but i think thats petty, and that definetly wouldn't help me in the long run.

We're talking about a girl who's friends with a lot of hot *****. I'm having an impact that says I cant be ****ed with, not an impact that says "I'm an overly emotional arsehole that will hurt you after we break up". Its just about finding a happy medium

I love this board, I was begining to reconcider my decision, but yeah that was definetly a penis thing. I've put him back in his place now- the cheeky young scamp!