Overthinking this situation

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There was a girl working in a store which I go to frequently. During one of my visits she always made eye contact, and kinda felt nervous and blushing. So yeah, slight attraction there. But I didn't like her. After I ignored her, the next time I got there she acted as if I'm invisible, which I don't give a damn about.


I've run into her 2 times in two different streets near the store and she looked very nervous, probably thinking I'm a creep, but I LIVE in that area. I pretended I didn't notice her and kept doing my own thing.


The problem is I have to visit that shop, but I haven't got there for 3 months due to that encounter. I don't want to come off as a creep. Am I overthinking this?
 

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Huh? Why would that even enter your mind? That's for her to worry about not you.
 

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Since nothing happened between you too, it's not worth it to think about. You are overthinking. It's not a bad thing but it will weaken your mindset if you overanalyze scenarios like that.

You will forget soon. Don't worry man.
 

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This thread reminds of something like:

"I took a shvt today. What do you think?"
 

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guru1000 said:
This thread reminds of something like:

"I took a shvt today. What do you think?"
So what do you think, guru?
 

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You seem to care an awful lot about someone you don't even find attractive.

But.. if you don't want her to think you're a creep, for whatever reason, you should be friendly. Look at her, smile, make small talk, etc. I don't know why you intentionally avoid acknowledging her, but that's obviously not helping.
 

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Yewki said:
I don't know why you intentionally avoid acknowledging her, but that's obviously not helping.
I enjoy going there so I didn't want dramas.


yannick43 said:
Since you can't get any pvssy and telling me i give dumb advise maybe you should get a cat, you seem like a real idiot commenting on other people post. Acting like you know your stuff and more but deep inside you are lost like a little mommy boy who as no clue how to get women or as you call them pvssy.

The keyboard warrior way coming onto people post and try to put them down, act all cool but you look at what they post and you see what they really are, weak minded beta afraid of rejection, focusing on women 110%, living in a dream world or frustration, focusing on one women at a time living in the Disney fairytale, you really really are a worthy title older for Ahole of the month.

God damn idiot can't even aboard one women am i laughing out loud now, actually thinking of all the stress, and anger this is causing you, and when she reject you, you will be all shaken up and feeling regret for one month hahahaha.

As i tough you are a big mouth that can't get any, funny thing is that right now even older i get some without even trying and thanks to guru1000 tricks.

Who gives the bad advise now mister WHITE KNIGHT ...........

My advise to you go with the cat you have more chance with that one then with women and its much safer and you won't get rejected like all your pass failures with women.... until you reach old age and get into the retirement home, then you might have a chance. Slight but at least a chance.

The problem is I have to visit that shop, but I haven't got there for 3 months due to that encounter. I don't want to come off as a creep. Am I overthinking this?

Haahah avoiding a shop due to being intimidated by one, ,,,, one women ,,,,,,, you really are a weak weak weak beta.........

LMAO this is too funny ....

If Poon King reads this he will have some nice input for you too, can't wait to hear what he think about your whole life threatening situation SON.

Maybe you should get out of sosuave and find a place to post where whiner post like you, and maybe get to meet theses people in person so you could share all your failures with women together and cry and whine that would be more appropriate for you Suspen hahah real Suspen it is.
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MidnightCity said:
Stop plAyin. You know you're feelin shorty.
I wear elevator shoes, that's a non-issue.
 

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Yes you are overthinking it.

Remember, it's only awkward if YOU make it awkward. Carry that confidence and If you remember her name, say hey and that it's good to see her.
 

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Drummer93 said:
Yes you are overthinking it.

Remember, it's only awkward if YOU make it awkward. Carry that confidence and If you remember her name, say hey and that it's good to see her.

Yeah, pretty much...once she realizes that you don't feel its awkward and make a big deal out of it, she will start wondering what's wrong with her and if she is socially inept for thinking its awkward or weird.
 
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