Opinions needed

[Cougar10033]

Ok here it is me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year... Things are great/sex is great. She doesnt get to spend much time with her friends anymore, alot of them are guys she grew up with. ANyway on friday i was out at a party with her and her friends. She was talking to one of her guy friends and he was joking with her how since shes in love they dont get to hang out much so she says she will hang out with him... He makes her ask me if its allowed and i say sure.. who am i to tell her what to do.. well anyway today they are hanging out and i dont know how i should react or feel.. My girlfriend is out right now off roading with another guy and drinking beers... IM trying not to be salty about it but when i think about it its screwed up.. How would you guys deal with this ?

 

[Reloaded]

Lucky bastard is getting his winky sucked like a popsicle. You poor, trusting idiot.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Zerix]

Lucky bastard is getting his winky sucked like a popsicle. You idiot.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

:crackup:

 

[Cougar10033]

Thanks for that.... Well them explain to me how else you would have gone about the situation? Tell her NO she cant go with someone shes known since she was 10 and come off as a jerk ????

 

[Hawke]

I can't say what you should have done, because personally i'd have done the same thing. If she does anything with the guy i move on and find someone else. I guess though you could have given her the whole trust speech before she went/when she asked. Saying you trust her enough to hang out with an old friend, and that your trust is something you don't give out often... and is never regained when lost. Or words to that effect. I'm sorry i can't be more helpeful, i don't really get involved in relationships often as i don't trust women not to go f*ck other guys. Perhaps that makes me cynical, who knows.

However i will say that trusting someone like that is something that i don't consider a stupid thing to do. If she does something with him then atleast you've learnd what she's like and not to get any closer emotionally with her. And if she doesn't do anything, then you've learned she's someone you could possibly trust. You have to risk every so often.

 

[flexion_]

If it becomes a trend of her hanging out with this guy then I'd deal with it. If not I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[DarkChaos]

You did the right thing; if she's the kind of girl that cheats then you can't stop her from doing it and she'll do it anyway sometime.

 

[Mr_knowit_all]

Usually I don't go for this type of thing BUT.....they've known eachother since they were 10? She asked your permission? It sounds pretty harmless.

Like the other guy said, if it becomes habitual, then you might want to say something.

 

[AngelusPUA]

What did you do? MAN you should never let your girl out of your sight, not even for a second. I have a solution though…………….. Are you ready? OK I want you to go shopping right now and buy....

-Rope
-Some low carb food (you don’t want her getting fat while you have her locked in your basement do you?)
-A drill (For the DIY lobotomy)
-Hydrochloric acid (For the DIY lobotomy)
-Sleeping pills.
-Bottle of wine

-Now when she gets home under the ruse of a welcome back party you offer her a glass of wine. Earlier that night you slip 6 sleeping pills into the bottle after about 20 min she will start getting woozy.

-When she falls asleep drag her body to a chair (if she isn’t already on one). Tie her to the chair tightly; this is where the fun starts.

-Ok now get your drill, plug it in, you need to drill a hole on the front tope side of her head that goes right through the skull into the brain. Do this slowly you don’t want the drill bit to actually pierce the brain (you don’t want to get done for murder do you?)

-Put the hydrochloric acid into a measuring cup and pour it into the hole you have made. Not too much the idea is to lightly scar the brain tissue.

-Now untie her in a few hour she should wake up, you will have performed a homemade lobotomy and now she will never leave you again. If you done it right she will also be very obedient and shouldn’t cause you any problems.

-She won’t be very active at all most of her time will be spent staring at walls so you should feed her low carb food if you like your women skinny.

There you have it her off-road; beer drinking days are over now you can have her constantly in your sights. No need to thank me I will just take solace in the fact that I have helped another human being fulfill one of their lifetime desires.

 

[SnowBlind77]

What did you do? MAN you should never let your girl out of your sight, not even for a second. I have a solution though…………….. Are you ready? OK I want you to go shopping right now and buy....

-Rope
-Some low carb food (you don’t want her getting fat while you have her locked in your basement do you?)
-A drill (For the DIY lobotomy)
-Hydrochloric acid (For the DIY lobotomy)
-Sleeping pills.
-Bottle of wine

-Now when she gets home under the ruse of a welcome back party you offer her a glass of wine. Earlier that night you slip 6 sleeping pills into the bottle after about 20 min she will start getting woozy.

-When she falls asleep drag her body to a chair (if she isn’t already on one). Tie her to the chair tightly; this is where the fun starts.

-Ok now get your drill, plug it in, you need to drill a hole on the front tope side of her head that goes right through the skull into the brain. Do this slowly you don’t want the drill bit to actually pierce the brain (you don’t want to get done for murder do you?)

-Put the hydrochloric acid into a measuring cup and pour it into the hole you have made. Not too much the idea is to lightly scar the brain tissue.

-Now untie her in a few hour she should wake up, you will have performed a homemade lobotomy and now she will never leave you again. If you done it right she will also be very obedient and shouldn’t cause you any problems.

-She won’t be very active at all most of her time will be spent staring at walls so you should feed her low carb food if you like your women skinny.

There you have it her off-road; beer drinking days are over now you can have her constantly in your sights. No need to thank me I will just take solace in the fact that I have helped another human being fulfill one of their lifetime desires.

i dont even get why people say this kind of crap. the guy is asking you for help, and you waste x amount of tiem writing crap like that, thats why these forums have gone to sh*T.

read this post, its about something called maturity
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104993

 

[AngelusPUA]

Forums have "gone to sh*t" because of people like this guy.......

They come in, without reading the DJ bible and ask for advice, now 100 people give him 100 different types of advice and he chooses the one he likes best and goes with it. That advice is usually wrong because he knows nothing about seduction and then he comes back here and calls everyone on this forum an idiot because his relationship ended.

People like him don’t deserve to post here, take a look at the stickied post by "B-Lemond" "how to use this forum"

Fundamental Rules

1) Read the DJ Bible
2) Search before you post

He obviously hasn’t done neither, so when people like him come her asking ridiculous questions and I am bored I will give them ridiculous answers.

This guy is ruining to forum not me.

 

[Cougar10033]

OK ANGELUS im ruining the forum... I looked on the bible there is a huge difference in Picking up girls and the early stage of the dating game which 99 percent of the bible is related to. I am in an LTR with this girl... there is not much info on the subject.... SO if you didnt feel like answering go **** yourself you moron and grow up.

 

[AngelusPUA]

Search and read the DJ Bible dont post usless posts. This exact same question that you are askign gets asked 2 or 3 times a day. If you read the bible you will find a lot of refrences to LTR's no excuses man. Read the rules of the forum man search, search search.