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[jookins]

So I was drinkin with some friends. i was sittin on the couch, Friend A was on the left side, HB6 was in the middle, I was on the right. couple friends were sitting on the floor. I'm kinda drunk. Girl sits forward and her ass crack is hanging out 3 inches right in my face so I grab a empty beer bottle and stick it down her crack and say "Pull yer pants up woman!" everyone laughs. she laughs. Friend A says she should slap me. I warn her that if she slaps me i'll slap her back. she slaps me. i slap her back(not hard) we both laugh.

Fast forward 1 hour. She said something about how it was ****ed up for me to slap her. then Friend C's girlfriend went on about how i'm ****ed up and should never hit a girl. I explain that if a girl slaps me i'll slap her back if she deserves it or if she's just joking around. I explain that she threatened to slap me and I warned her that i'd slap her back and how it was out of play. Everyone starts bit*hing at me and telling me to calm down(i never raised my voice i just explained my point of view calmly). I didnt give in to what they were telling me. I stood my ground on the subject.(if a ***** slaps me damn right i'll slap her back!) Then my buddy's GF that started all the drama apologized to me. took me in the backyard and said sorry for like 5 mins and i told her it was ok.

It felt good to stand my ground on what I believed and then having the ***** that started it all apologize to me for like 5 mins. 6 months ago i would have pussed out.

Now what do you guys think? was i wrong? the girl didnt seem to give a **** and thought it was funny but everyone else thought it was messed up.

 

[Ripper]

From her reaction, looks like you made the right move. Don't second guess yourself bro.

 

[onyx]

a while back some chick slapped my around the face but she was not playing, I kinda lost it.

I think when a woman slaps you around the face its one of the most disrepectful things that can be done.

When its done playfully though its just a joke, I think your friends made a mountain out of a mole hill.

 

[rrrrr]

It's no problem to slap her softly as a joke, I've done the same thing. But when you actually put force behind it or do it for real, remember women are a fraction of the size and strength, don't do it. If a woman slaps you you should be able to deal with it other ways than giving them a right hook. You may as well be fighting little boys if you're going to fight a woman.

Anybody who thinks it's "alpha" or "confidence" to hit women is full of ****. No, a woman shouldn't be hitting a man but deal with it other ways than hitting them.

 

[SamRi72]

You had good game and got blatantly c'ock-blocked. Hence, you did a right thing, but I'm sensing that there was a better play you could have made.

 

[G-Theory]

Nah, you were right AFTER you said if she slaps you you would slap her back; you had to follow through with what you said you would do or look like a chump. But, in retrospect, you might have been able to come up with something different to say like, "if you slap me, my **** is going down your throat...." lol or "if you slap me, this drink is getting poured on you." Then just wait until your drink is almost gone (like a 1/4 left) then pour it on her when she isn't looking. Shame to waste a full drink plus it'll feel like you poured the whole thing on her.

You have to be careful though because she'll think she needs the last "word" and will probably pour her drink on you. But thats the fun of the game, watch it escalate until two drunk people blow up then make up.

 

[Thomas94305]

I've had a similar convo with women. It's actually provocative, so good for sarging... ask "if a woman hits first, is it OK for the guy to hit back?" Or.. if she threatens to hit for whatever reason, like you, I say I feel fine to hit back, etc.

Women cry just because.. they can get away with that crap. But, in the middle of their drawn out crap about how it's OK for a woman to hit, but not a guy.. I'll plainly say to them.. a woman hitting first is legally assault, and she can be arrested. If I hit back, that's considered self defense. Gets great reactions.

 

[Kev07]

standing your ground was good.

maybe you should have threatend to slap her ass instead, that would have been funny.

or threaten to scoop her

 

[fedagent]

It's no problem to slap her softly as a joke, I've done the same thing. But when you actually put force behind it or do it for real, remember women are a fraction of the size and strength, don't do it. If a woman slaps you you should be able to deal with it other ways than giving them a right hook. You may as well be fighting little boys if you're going to fight a woman.

Anybody who thinks it's "alpha" or "confidence" to hit women is full of ****. No, a woman shouldn't be hitting a man but deal with it other ways than hitting them.

Sorry bud, I'm going to have to disagree with you on this one. Certainly there is no need to haul back and slug her, but teaching respect starts with letting girls know they can't use any part of their womanhood to get away with things. Including using it to hide behind assault.

If they are smaller and weaker, then they shouldn't go around picking fights with larger and stronger guys.

Fed

 

[jookins]

thanks guys, i need to work on my game tho, sometimes i flirt too much, or joke around too much, at first they like it then it gets old! and i've been a freakin puss*y lately! someone needs to punch me in the face.

 

[bigjohnson]

Shoulda swatted her on the ass. It's a two-fer.

 

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So I was drinkin with some friends. i was sittin on the couch, Friend A was on the left side, HB6 was in the middle, I was on the right. couple friends were sitting on the floor. I'm kinda drunk. Girl sits forward and her ass crack is hanging out 3 inches right in my face so I grab a empty beer bottle and stick it down her crack and say "Pull yer pants up woman!" everyone laughs. she laughs. Friend A says she should slap me. I warn her that if she slaps me i'll slap her back. she slaps me. i slap her back(not hard) we both laugh.

Fast forward 1 hour. She said something about how it was ****ed up for me to slap her. then Friend C's girlfriend went on about how i'm ****ed up and should never hit a girl. I explain that if a girl slaps me i'll slap her back if she deserves it or if she's just joking around. I explain that she threatened to slap me and I warned her that i'd slap her back and how it was out of play. Everyone starts bit*hing at me and telling me to calm down(i never raised my voice i just explained my point of view calmly). I didnt give in to what they were telling me. I stood my ground on the subject.(if a ***** slaps me damn right i'll slap her back!) Then my buddy's GF that started all the drama apologized to me. took me in the backyard and said sorry for like 5 mins and i told her it was ok.

It felt good to stand my ground on what I believed and then having the ***** that started it all apologize to me for like 5 mins. 6 months ago i would have pussed out.

Now what do you guys think? was i wrong? the girl didnt seem to give a **** and thought it was funny but everyone else thought it was messed up.

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u did ok, but u still did the wrong thing trying to explain ur way out of it. You should have just said

"yo i was just playing around with her take it easy"

you dont need to explain nothin - u slapped her playfully, she laughed at it. It ends there.........if anyone tries to make a big deal out of it, then u stay out of it and let them be a part of the drama while u sit back and think to yourself "wow, people these days"

its easy