ONS - What next?

[European-DJ]

Quick Summary of last night;

I went to a party, and found this girl i've had in my eyes for quite a while.
A lot of flirting, negs and kissing later, we decided to go home.
I F-closed her, and we talked a bit afterwards.
Before we went to sleep, she was the nicest and kindest girl ever - really, she made me fall for her.

*OBS* SHE WAS VERY DRUNK AT THE POINT, WHERE I TOOK HER HOME *OBS*

- When we woke up the next morning, the tension was a bit tens.
I Bought her Breakfast (since she had paid the cab last night) and followed her back to her door - we did it at her place.
I said goodby, just by huggin her - and as soon as she turned around, i said - as i always do - "are you not going to give me a nice farevel?", smiled, and we kissed.

- During the AFTER F-period, before we fell asleep, i gave her my number (we saved it as some crappy name) - but didn't take hers, i never do.


.. What should i do next??

I am a bit confused, as told earlier, i have had this girl in my eyes for quite some time.
Is this just a ONS or not?
If she does not text me, should i add her on FaceBook and contact her insted?

I guess i will wait atleast 3 days before adding her, even thought i really >THINK< I like her..

 

[Iceberg]

why didn't you take her number? That doesn't make sense to me.

 

[European-DJ]

why didn't you take her number? That doesn't make sense to me.

The reason that i always give my number, and never take a girls number i; that for me, the biggest IOI is, if she writes me first.

On the other hand, when we were looking for her phone in the morning, she used mine to call her - so i got her number, but i would never write her, since she didn't "Give" her number to me.

 

[AlexDP]

Dude, she gave you her number. Obviously.

 

[European-DJ]

Dude, she gave you her number. Obviously.

Anyway, forget about the number, focus on the first post :b

 

[Iceberg]

The reason that i always give my number, and never take a girls number i; that for me, the biggest IOI is, if she writes me first.

Yeah, but what if the girl is shy? I couldn't imagine how many women I would have missed out on if I trusted them to make the first move.

On the other hand, when we were looking for her phone in the morning, she used mine to call her - so i got her number, but i would never write her, since she didn't "Give" her number to me.

Oh, for God's sake, dude...

Just f**king call. I'm a bit of a veteran here, and I love this site...but stop playing by these stupid rules. You'd rather rely on Facebook than the number that's in YOUR phone because the girl called YOU?

Doesn't ask for a girl's number. Doesn't want to call a girl he just banged because she didn't "give" him the number. This is ridiculous.

 

[European-DJ]

So Iceberg.

What are you trying to say?

- My Attitude is that i am ****y and nothing near shy, but inside of me, hides a litle PVSSY (honestly).. The girl goes to my school.

So your tip is? - Just call her, Set up something?

- Or let us put it this way, What would YOU do in my situation (a bit more detailed than "Call her" please (-: ! )

 

[Iceberg]

So Iceberg.

What are you trying to say?

- My Attitude is that i am ****y and nothing near shy, but inside of me, hides a litle PVSSY (honestly).. The girl goes to my school.

So your tip is? - Just call her, Set up something?

- Or let us put it this way, What would YOU do in my situation (a bit more detailed than "Call her" please (-: ! )

Yes. Call or text her and set something up.

Never wait for a girl to make the first call. That's terrible. Think about how hard it is for guys on this site to make the first call. If it's hard for men to have the bravery to make the first move, then it's harder for girls.

You take control of the situation. Not her.

Just make some light conversation, and ask her to hang out this week. You're making it more complicated with all your weird rules. Can't you see how strange it is for a guy to refuse to call a girl, but is ready to pursue her on Facebook instead?

 

[European-DJ]

- Yeah, but she was a bit drunk, so i am kind of frightened for her reaction by calling her/texting her.

- But i see what you are trying to tell me with the FaceBook Thing.

.. Well **** it, anyway, i'll just tell her that "she gave me her number" She wouldn't remember it anyway...

- But would you agree to wait a bit before calling her, or should i do it tomorrow already :b?

 

[DonJuanit0]

You really won't sleep at night just because you'll think about what to do right? Listen, you two f*cked, she knew that by calling her phone you would also have her number, what do you actually want? You want her to call you saying that she is deeply in love with you? This won't happen! She might even not call at all cause she might have the same thoughts as yours! She knows you have her number anyway, she might wait! So, what you should do, is take your chance and try contacting with her (yes after 2-3 days it will be a good time) and see what she is up to! Ask if she wants to hang out some day and afterwards you'll see what you 'll do and if it was a ONS! Don't drown in a spoon of water! (Greek phrase )

 

[European-DJ]

I always end up smiling, after visiting Sosuave - and thats what makes this site so great!!..

I WOULD, as you said, end up not sleeping all night - already i am wasting a lot of time, ignoring others girls, while thinking at this one..

But well, **** it? .. If She Turns me down, atleast i ****ed her - right?

 

[DonJuanit0]

I always end up smiling, after visiting Sosuave - and thats what makes this site so great!!..

I WOULD, as you said, end up not sleeping all night - already i am wasting a lot of time, ignoring others girls, while thinking at this one..

But well, **** it? .. If She Turns me down, atleast i ****ed her - right?

And most importantly you will have tried!