I've got a severe case of oneitis. For reasons I'd rather not mention, my chances of success with her are very slim, and I've already DLVed to her through my neediness (f*ck, I hate oneitis!) I should also mention that do not know this oneitis very well, at least not enough to justify her being a oneitis (typical mark of the AFC ).
Thing is, I wan't to get over my oneitis, and although I've read the common advice of FTOW, that won't be possible all that soon since my game is seriously lacking at the moment (most likely a result of bad social skills, since I don't look all that bad, and I'm not very shy).
My plan to accomplish this is a CrashandBurn, or a kamikaze-sarge on this particular girl. In other words, I either act like the biggest @$$hole that I can, or I act like a needy WBAFC in order to get clearly, directly and explicitly rejected by her (the axact opposite of solid PU-skills). The idea behind this is that it might a.) b!tchslap me back to reality, thereby putting an end to my romanticized drooling and fantasizing about her, so that I can finally admit to myself that I will never be with her, and b.) cause me to see her in a negative light, thereby diminishing my attraction for her.
I want to know from the experienced PUAs/DJs on this forum if this is likely to be a successful cure for my oneitis.
Thing is, I wan't to get over my oneitis, and although I've read the common advice of FTOW, that won't be possible all that soon since my game is seriously lacking at the moment (most likely a result of bad social skills, since I don't look all that bad, and I'm not very shy).
My plan to accomplish this is a CrashandBurn, or a kamikaze-sarge on this particular girl. In other words, I either act like the biggest @$$hole that I can, or I act like a needy WBAFC in order to get clearly, directly and explicitly rejected by her (the axact opposite of solid PU-skills). The idea behind this is that it might a.) b!tchslap me back to reality, thereby putting an end to my romanticized drooling and fantasizing about her, so that I can finally admit to myself that I will never be with her, and b.) cause me to see her in a negative light, thereby diminishing my attraction for her.
I want to know from the experienced PUAs/DJs on this forum if this is likely to be a successful cure for my oneitis.