One on one first dates are crap, here's a better alternative

[Chickfight]

This doesn't apply if you've met through tinder or something.

But if you just met a girl and got her number, don't invite her out for a one on one date. Instead, wait til the next time you set up something fun with your friends and invite her to that. Here's why;

Less pressure on her: she doesn't know you. You could turn out to be an *******, not be able to hold conversation. A one on one could turn out really unpleasant and awkward for her. So it's less likely she'll agree to a date in the first place. If you invite to a thing with your friends she'll think you must be alright if you got some people to like you.

Brings her into your world: You're going to go out regardless if she comes or not. It's her opportunity to see your world. You're in your natural environment surrounded by friends which makes you high status. Creates high social value.

If she brings a friend or 2 it doesn't matter: ever had a girl ask if she can bring a friend or even worse brings one without asking to a date where you're the only guy? We'll it doesn't matter now. In fact, it's a good thing. She'll be more comfortable. Her friends won't be third wheels and you're potentially supplying you're buddies with fresh pvssy, which is doing then a solid. Plus if you have a bit a charm, they'll put in a good word for you.

All pleasure she derives from that date you're indirectly responsible for. Your friend cracks a hilarious joke? Haha, his friend is hilarious, he's so awesome for having friend like that, I'm glad he invited me out.

You're still doing the normal Sh!t. Kino, escalation, getting sexual. Bars are the best place for this. At some point just isolate her and make out easy as that. You might get laid the same day, but if you don't you can be sure her and her friends will be talking about you and she'll be getting excited. Now you're all set up for a great one on one date.

Unless your friends are all douchebag losers, in which case get better friends, this works like a charm

 

[PipeDope]

This doesn't apply if you've met through tinder or something.

But if you just met a girl and got her number, don't invite her out for a one on one date. Instead, wait til the next time you set up something fun with your friends and invite her to that. Here's why;

Less pressure on her: she doesn't know you. You could turn out to be an *******, not be able to hold conversation. A one on one could turn out really unpleasant and awkward for her. So it's less likely she'll agree to a date in the first place. If you invite to a thing with your friends she'll think you must be alright if you got some people to like you.

Brings her into your world: You're going to go out regardless if she comes or not. It's her opportunity to see your world. You're in your natural environment surrounded by friends which makes you high status. Creates high social value.

If she brings a friend or 2 it doesn't matter: ever had a girl ask if she can bring a friend or even worse brings one without asking to a date where you're the only guy? We'll it doesn't matter now. In fact, it's a good thing. She'll be more comfortable. Her friends won't be third wheels and you're potentially supplying you're buddies with fresh pvssy, which is doing then a solid. Plus if you have a bit a charm, they'll put in a good word for you.

All pleasure she derives from that date you're indirectly responsible for. Your friend cracks a hilarious joke? Haha, his friend is hilarious, he's so awesome for having friend like that, I'm glad he invited me out.

You're still doing the normal Sh!t. Kino, escalation, getting sexual. Bars are the best place for this. At some point just isolate her and make out easy as that. You might get laid the same day, but if you don't you can be sure her and her friends will be talking about you and she'll be getting excited. Now you're all set up for a great one on one date.

Unless your friends are all douchebag losers, in which case get better friends, this works like a charm

I like this method a lot. I used it for a ton of one night stands before my LTR. Me and the guys would ride 4-wheelers on the river, light a Bon fire in the pasture, go noodling, etc. Women love the out-doorsy, man stench i gave off, they were always down to join the group and shag success rate was high. The bar and club scene were a whole lot harder compared to this for me personally.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

1st date she meets my friends? Hellz NO she has to earn that kind of fun. I don't think I've ever had a unpleasant and awkward 1st date, if I did I didn't give 2 sh*ts.

I get it but that's just too much right off the bat IMO. Younger crowd I could see it working. It's not terrible idea, just not my style I suppose.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I like this. Haven't ever thought about it and it actually IS a new concept here. Invite her out with your friends coming along and tell her to bring her friends too. My bros can wing me and the focus will be on fun so I won't be doing any of the work at all. I have fun, get laid, and end the night well.

Sounds pretty good to me. Definitely repped.