On hitting women...

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I realize that this thread may upset a lot of people but I must speak out. It's viewed that hitting women is low and doesn't carry a lot of class. But I think it all depends on the circumstances. Think about the power women have. They realize that most men won't hit them and they can do or say whatever they want no matter how demorilizing it is. In these cases I think women need to be put in their place. I'm not talking about serious physical harm, but stepping up physically and maybe slapping them if neccessary to give them a reality check may seem to be in order somethimes. I think it also show them that you have high self-esteem and that you won't take **** from nobody no matter what the circumstances. Isn't this an attractive quality or is my logic warped?
 
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I personally wouldn't hit a woman unless she was attacking me. Your description sounds similar to scolding a pet.
 

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It's not that it's low or lacking in class, but that it's truly pathetic. Only a pathetic coward hits women or children.

Instead of resorting to cowardice, why not just ask yourself why words from a chick leave you only violence as a first resort. Your name's not GW Bush I hope?
 

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Hitting girls is a BAD idea on so many levels.

If you don't like what she says...walk away. Next her on the spot. Tell her "B!tch, no one talks to me like that. It's over, Good-bye."

So it's okay to hit people to make them fear you? That's the argument for every two-bit punk in prison. "He didn't give me respect so I shot him in the face!" You are basically saying the Fem-Nazis are RIGHT! Men are emotionally crippled apes who beat women if they speak their mind. DO NOT give them more ammunition to continue their castration campaign of men.

Women have power? If you hit her...you have given away YOUR power, she can call the police, have you arrested and you get a "Domestic Abuser" tag hung on you FOR LIFE! Every time you fill out a job application, and it asks if you were ever arrested? You have to put Domestic Abuser on that line. You think you'll ever get a decent job again?

You're a DJ. You're better than that. You are too smart & in control to resort to violence.
 

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If it's only verbal abuse she's throwing at me, I'll give it to her TWICE as hard... in words. :)


If she's coming at me with a kitchen knife, you can bet your ass I'll throw a hard cross to her chin. I'd rather live than not deal with being called a 'wife-beater'. :D
 

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That falls under self defence! You are perfectly justified in protecting your life.
 

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It's one thing when she's screaming and hitting you, but when I come home and my dinner ain't ready.. damn!! ***** better watch out.
 

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See... the dumb thing about hitting a girl or even being slightly physical without her consent can land you in jail. It's completely not fair because girls slap guys all the time and guys are suppose to embrass because the girl slapped you!

I seriously hate all the double standard girls have now-a-days so why the hell are they *****ing about equality?
 

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There is NO reason to hit a woman, other than if she's got a gun to your head.

Even if one's attacking you im sure you're man enough to restrain her without striking her in any way.

As for the verbal abuse they might throw at you... be better than them and dont react. That'll stir them up more than a slap would. Or throw her out of your house... whatever. Teach her a lesson without physical violence.

Its just WRONG dude.
 

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DonJohn, what if it's a 400 pounds, 6 foot tall chick coming at me?

All joking aside, I don't hesitate to take my women friends, pull their arms behind their back, wrestle them to the ground, and sit on them. I only do this when they started to hit me. They always complain about how you can't do that to girl, and I tell them they're sexist and they shut up.
 

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"I think it also show them that you have high self-esteem..."
LOL
Sheesh.
 

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If its verbal keep it verbal.
If she hits you; you hit back.

Dont take **** from women
 

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Yes, you're warped. If she's doing something you don't like, tell her
or stand your ground like a confident man, but there's never a reason to hit, push, threaten her. To do so is weak and desperate - and there's good reason why the police typically react the way they do to these situations.
 
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CONTROL THE FEMALES WITH YOUR MIND AND NOT YOUR FIST.
 

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Never hit a woman. Even if she is hitting you, you should leave. If you give in the impulse to hit back you will just feel like a heel, I guarantee it.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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I wouldn't hit a woman but I would shake the sh!t out of one! :D

Its always better to walk away. You save yourself a ton of misery and aggravation by walking away. You really can't win if you hit a chick. The government is set up to punish you the man and serve/help the woman. There are tons of commercials about men not hitting women, have you ever seen one commercial which told women not to hit men? There is not one battered mens shelter anywhere even though women are far more likely to hit men than men are to hit women. No good will come of the situation so avoid the punishment at all cost.
 

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I can't tell you how many times I've wanted to slap the taste out of a particular woman's mouth! However, I never did and never would.

Now a spanking is another matter entirely.
 

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don't "JERKS" hit women? I thought jerks were attractive?
 

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dont' do it.

This macho crap can get taken too far.

Yes, there are women that expect that kind of thing and only date guys who got out of prison, but they arent worth it. If you find yourself in a situation where a woman or women expect you to be so forceful as to be violent (to them or to others) walk away. You're only being used, and they don't have their heads screwed on right in the first place.
 

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Peep this story,

My best friend was at Subway about 2 years ago. He was waiting for a sub when this fat b1tch he apparently knew from somewhere came in. The fat b1tch (whom i will refer to as the troll) started talking sh1t to my friend. He basically told her to shut up and mind her own damn business.

Well the troll was angered and she began to attack my friend. Im not sure what the exact chain of events were but it went something like this, she swung at him, he either dodged or got hit, he warned her and she came at him again swinging with closed fists, hitting him in the face. She went into a trollish onslaught and at that point my friend had no choice, he had her in a head lock and hit her in the face a couple times.

She leaves and comes back with some dude who i guess was supposed to beat my friends ass, the guy didnt do anything and all party's involved were banned from Subway.

I think that in this situation the troll had it coming. regardless of the fact that she prolly had like 70 pounds on my friend.
 

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