OMG Who does this hoohaa think she is?

[Vasko]

This is just something that I had to post.
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tell me what you think about it. I personally got really pissed.

 

[belividere]

I actually think that a good chunk of this list is probably pretty correct.

 

[Vasko]

Originally posted by belividere
I actually think that a good chunk of this list is probably pretty correct.

dude, just look at #23. how can that be correct? If you are in a relanship, and your girl deprives you of sex, because you got into a fight about something, then you should be looking for a new girlfirend, my firend. That is one major mistake. Its not right to deprive a guy of sex. I mean if the girl can do that, then obviously the relanship is not going to last!

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Vasko
dude, just look at #23. how can that be correct? If you are in a relanship, and your girl deprives you of sex, because you got into a fight about something, then you should be looking for a new girlfirend, my firend. That is one major mistake. Its not right to deprive a guy of sex. I mean if the girl can do that, then obviously the relanship is not going to last!

Well...a woman depriving a man of sex is essentially no different than a man depriving a woman of telling her that he loves her. A man's number one need in a relationship is sex. A woman's number one need in a relationship is feeling and knowing that she is loved. When you guys refuse to tell your girlfriends that you love them or verbalize feelings for her you are harming her in the same way you get harmed when she deprives you of sex. Doing either is wrong and harmful to a relationship.

 

[Vasko]

i tell my girlfriend how much i love her, when she calls me mr.orgazmo in bed. haaha im just kidding. I believe that saying 'I Love you' is risky bussiness, i mean unless your really love the girl. and I thknk that saying i love you too much is going to make yolu sound like a wuss. its really important to know when to say I love you!

 

[Brother_Rapp]

That's the thing about being in a relationship that involves an exclusive sex claus. If you don't screw any body else then the hornyness of the two individuals will force them to reach some kind of compromise in their differences. If one of the party goes outside the relationship for sex, then that person has less of a reason to compromise. That's why outside sex is called cheating. Exclusive sex helps hold the relationship togethere.

 

[belividere]

Vasko,
yeah 23 seems like a bad thing off the bat but when you are actually in an exclusive long term relationship #23 makes sense, go back and look at #6. The girl is using her actions instead of her words. This is quite common and anyone with experience in LTR's knows that if your girl is holding out on sex it is due to deeper reasons. I dont really agree with the fact that #23 says it is because they feel fat. I would more truthfully think that if they were holding out on sex in an LTR becuase they felt fat is was because the guy said or did something to make them feel insecure. I continue to stick by the fact that this list is pretty accurate except a couple of things.

And supergigalo I'm actually a southsider by birth. I dont live there anymore but spent most of my life there. Where abouts are you from?

 

[belividere]

i tell my girlfriend how much i love her, when she calls me mr.orgazmo in bed. haaha im just kidding. I believe that saying 'I Love you' is risky bussiness, i mean unless your really love the girl. and I thknk that saying i love you too much is going to make yolu sound like a wuss. its really important to know when to say I love you!

Sorry I forgot to mention this. I think that you are right to say that those three words are risky as they will entirely alter the state of your relationship. I have to say that wyldfire is definetly right here though. Women demand affirmation of their feelings and denying them that will only led to them second guessing you. I read some of the articles or tips on here saying that you should never say that you love a woman until you are married or have been dating for 10 yrs+. Honestly I haven't found a girl that would wait around without cheating on you for that long. I dont encourage saying things that you dont truly mean but if you have been dating a girl for over a year and you dont feel that you are either in love with her or falling in love with her that you shouldn't be with her anyways. I think that at that point your girl would consider you a commitment-phobe and drop you anyways since like wyld said she isn't getting the emotional satisfaction from you that she desires.

 

[Don Pablo]

Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
That's the thing about being in a relationship that involves an exclusive sex claus. If you don't screw any body else then the hornyness of the two individuals will force them to reach some kind of compromise in their differences. If one of the party goes outside the relationship for sex, then that person has less of a reason to compromise. That's why outside sex is called cheating. Exclusive sex helps hold the relationship togethere.

That's a good explanation. Never thought about it that way.

 

[ohiofutballa]

Don't ever tell us what to do, even when we ask you to.

We're unimpressed by men who don't take the lead. Be a man, dammit!



Contradictory anyone?

 

[McKindley]

#1 Saying "I love you" before, during or after sex doesn't count.


This may be a semantic argument, but is there any time that isn't before, during, or after sex?

But overall I thought it was dead in. The thing us guys need to know about girls is that while men are motivated by things like success and accomplishent, women are movtivated by relationships.

Because of this they need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and are doing well in their relationships (with you, their parents, and their friends. That's why girls will tell each other they love each other often, yet you'd never tell a guy friend you loved him unless he had cancer).

 

[Brother_Rapp]

ohiofutballa

We're unimpressed by men who don't take the lead. Be a man, dammit!


Brother Rapp
In this modern day times, I've been told many times on this board that women didn't like dominant men.

 

[Vasko]

sorry for the late reply, but ive had some setbacks. anyway, back to bussiness.

SuperGigoloDJ, I live on the north side of chicago. Naperville is a really nice little town, ive been there for chicago fire game back in the day, like 3 years ago or so, when they were working on soldier field, or something like that.

I must say though, and i agree with all of you, but i guess its just me, because if a girl holds out on sex then im out the door. i mean not right away, but if she abused me, then i would be gone. I also believe that saying I love you is risky, unless like you guys said, in a long term relanship. in other words, i agree with you.