Omg It Wouldnt Get Up!!!!!!!!!!!!

[animal crackers]

I'm freaking out right now, a girl I have been hanging out with but not really going out with came over to my house tonight. Well I have a history with this girl (we used to go out). So, weve messed around before, but shes religious, and I didnt think anything major would happen until tonight...

We were making out and fooling around for like an hour and a half, and then I fingered her for like 25 min while she gave me a handjob, well during this whole time I had a ROCK HARD ERECTION, and I eventually got on top of her. I whispered to her " I have a condom" and she nodded yes to me, so I went out to get it from the other room.

Now let me explain that I'm a virgin, and I had already Jacked it this morning, but when I went out to get it, my mom talked to me for a few seconds.

I get back in the room and I start kissing her again, when she mentions to me that she only has 10 min before she has to leave so I was trying to get her pants off, and then it happened I LOST MY ERECTION. I freaked out then, and tried to get it back, but I was so hot and worried that I couldnt!!! So she told me that maybe we better "wait till next time"

Guys I'm freaking out about this, and I dont want to talk to any of my friends about it cuz I'm kinda embarrassed, please help I've never been the kind of guy to not get a hard on!!!

 

[BobbDobbs]

Big deal. You had it, got majorly distracted and lost it, and then had time pressure to get it back. That's completely natural and no big deal. The worst thing you can do is worry about it. The fact that you had wood for two hours pretty much means you don't have a physical issue. You'll only develop a mental issue if you worry about it.

 

[Captain Anonymous]

It was probably your mum.

And you don't need to post this twice (in here and HS)

 

[The Real Deal]

2 Things come to mind.


" I have a condom" and she nodded yes to me, so I went out to get it from the other room. "


The other room??


" when I went out to get it, my mom talked to me for a few seconds. "


That should be enough to do it. Next time try keeping them a little closer, like within reaching distance maybe. Ohh, and try to stay away from your mom, sister, grandmother and other distractions untill it's over.

 

[Tyler]

Originally posted by animal crackers

Now let me explain that I'm a virgin, and I had already Jacked it this morning, but when I went out to get it, my mom talked to me for a few seconds.

Your MOM? Was in the house? Talking to you? Yeah, I wouldn't be able to function either!! I don't think there's a single person here who finds your situation odd. Damn. Don't worry about it.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Sounds like performance anxiety.

Next time, don't stress too hard. Actually, don't even worry about it. You'll be stressing yourself out and putting more pressure on yourself than you need.

Remember, you're about to get some!!! Don't worry if its going to get hard next time. All you have to do is get naked with her and KNOW that you're going to give her the best lay of her life.

Tips:

1. Have the condom ready next time.
2. Ditch mom...Just the thought of mom/sex is enough to make you soft like a wet sponge.
3. No alcohol. It'll ruin your erection.
4. If she's down...tell her to give you a lil oral to get it back up. Oral works wonders right before you slip the condom on.

hope this helps
-HQ

 

[Corndowg]

I just had the same problem today. Me and this girl were kinda drunk and I was about to stick it in her when she told me to get a condom. I ****ING HATE CONDOMS. I got up, took a quick walk to get it, opened it, put it on, and went soft. Talk about ****in embarassing.

This ***** is a ***** though. There was like no foreplay and she was just laying there saying stick it in me. She didn't want to help me out with some head or anything. I'd rather have a wild girl all over me then some chick just wanting to be f---ed. We're very close though so I guess its all good. The thing is, it's hard to not think about it when its the only problem you have. Eventually, it will have to stop.

My mind has plenty of issues.

 

[Lozz]

Ah the penis and its uncontrollable mind. Yeh this kinda thing can happen for various reasons. I mean once wen it came to putting on the condom it went down when i would rather have done it without. Other times with another girl I simply had to be close to her/touch her to get an erection. Strange huh? sometimes i guess its your attraction to the girl. Drink is a no no tho. it does give you a shrivelled twanger.

Anyway at the end of the day these things happen so suck it up and try again.

 

[ApocalypseCow]

Originally posted by Corndowg
I just had the same problem today. Me and this girl were kinda drunk and I was about to stick it in her when she told me to get a condom. I ****ING HATE CONDOMS.

What were you going to do if she hadn't told you to wear a condom?