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What are the best tips for 30 plus guys to score with younge puss? Are there any sights or authors anyone here has found helpful with this.


I think Mens health has some good advice.
 

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Youg girls, specially ones that feel have been burned by guys,will be very impressed when they run into a guy who takes no crap,and has his game together.

Just remember, most young guys don't know what's up when it come to women. The ones that finally get it, it took them a while to figure out. This is why we often say "I wish I knew what I know now when I was 18."

Most older guys don't know what time it is either. Imagine, a younger guy, her age, with very little game, competing against you in your 30's, who has his act together, and knows how to deal with all types of women, and is ready to walk away from any girl regardless of how hot she is.

Being in your mid 30's, you have to realize that your perceived value will be higher with girls in their mid-late 20's than it will be with the teen age puss. At 18-22 age range, they are attracted to guys for all the wrong reasons. By the time they are in their mid 20's, they know what's out there and can be more impressed with somebody older. This might be the same girl who at 19 "would never date somebody over 24." LoL.

As long as you come across as always doing something,and being busy, they will look up to you. And of course, as long as they're is an initial attraction, you will be able to amplify it by acting like a man who goes out there and takes it.

As long as you are able to turn all YOUR ADVANTAGES of being older (financially stable, mature, experienced, busy, etc.) and turn them in to benefits she can't overlook, you'll do just fine. So use your advantages to the fullest. If you don't have any, or don't see em, then its time to get to work. Your attitude will, and "Inner Game" will determine how successful you are.

My favorite technique to use on a much younger girl (8+ years), after some attraction has been established, I start calling her a "child." Kinda like a neg hit. If she's interested it will create doubts in her mind, as all of a sudden you want "mature" women, and she know must prove herself. You are now the choser.

If I had to pick ONE single program to learn from, if you already haven't, it would be David DeAngelo's Double Your Dating. Read his e-book, then get the DVD Advanced Series. Guys in their late 20's+ are probably more bold and likely to pull some of the "Outer Game" covered. I say this because most of his guest speakers are in that age range.
 
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Originally posted by theproject
What are the best tips for 30 plus guys to score with younge puss? Are there any sights or authors anyone here has found helpful with this.


I think Mens health has some good advice.
I once dated a man ten years my senior. Bring it on Mr.Robinson.
 

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Originally posted by theproject
What are the best tips for 30 plus guys to score with younge puss? Are there any sights or authors anyone here has found helpful with this.


I think Mens health has some good advice.
Don't give up on older women though, there's always something to be said for an experienced woman :p
 

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Originally posted by theproject
What are the best tips for 30 plus guys to score with younge puss? Are there any sights or authors anyone here has found helpful with this.


I think Mens health has some good advice.
The same principles apply. It's a bit easier picking up younger chicks in my opinion.

Check out the DJ Bible.
 

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Youg girls, specially ones that feel have been burned by guys,will be very impressed when they run into a guy who takes no crap,and has his game together.

Just remember, most young guys don't know what's up when it come to women. The ones that finally get it, it took them a while to figure out. This is why we often say "I wish I knew what I know now when I was 18."

Most older guys don't know what time it is either. Imagine, a younger guy, her age, with very little game, competing against you in your 30's, who has his act together, and knows how to deal with all types of women, and is ready to walk away from any girl regardless of how hot she is.

Being in your mid 30's, you have to realize that your perceived value will be higher with girls in their mid-late 20's than it will be with the teen age puss. At 18-22 age range, they are attracted to guys for all the wrong reasons. By the time they are in their mid 20's, they know what's out there and can be more impressed with somebody older. This might be the same girl who at 19 "would never date somebody over 24." LoL.

As long as you come across as always doing something,and being busy, they will look up to you. And of course, as long as they're is an initial attraction, you will be able to amplify it by acting like a man who goes out there and takes it.

As long as you are able to turn all YOUR ADVANTAGES of being older (financially stable, mature, experienced, busy, etc.) and turn them in to benefits she can't overlook, you'll do just fine. So use your advantages to the fullest. If you don't have any, or don't see em, then its time to get to work. Your attitude will, and "Inner Game" will determine how successful you are.

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In the past 6 months I have dated girls aged 21 to 38. From my experience all I can suggest is that you treat them the same. You need to operate under the assumption that age difference is not an issue, because if you try to start making excuses before she's raised even a hint of an objection, you appear insecure. Also, by making age a non-issue (i.e. make no reference to it unless she mentions it first), you subconcsiously allay her own insecurities about it.

Good luck with it! Really though, mid-30s women are where it's at. Those are the only ones that have had me begging for more :)
 

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Originally posted by theproject
What are the best tips for 30 plus guys to score with younge puss? Are there any sights or authors anyone here has found helpful with this.


I think Mens health has some good advice.
if you are over 30 and still referring to females as "puss", you can forget about getting any love from any age.
 

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Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by BMW
if you are over 30 and still referring to females as "puss", you can forget about getting any love from any age.
Greatest reply so far. Exactly how young are you talking? You are 35. Anything under 25 is just...Grounds for the college guys you are stealing thier females from to have to jump. Prime age for females are 30-38 anyway.
 

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Re: Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by crazykid
Anything under 25 is just...Grounds for the college guys you are stealing thier females from to have to jump. Prime age for females are 30-38 anyway.
To have to jump.......huh?

"Prime age for females are 30-38 anyway"

Prime age for what?...... developing cellulite?

Don't be crazy...crazykid!
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by Helter Skelter
To have to jump.......huh?

"Prime age for females are 30-38 anyway"

Prime age for what?...... developing cellulite?

Don't be crazy...crazykid!
I am going to have to agree to this.

That is exactly why I am here. I want the 18 to 24 year olds. When they are still hot. Not after kids, stretch marks, exhusbands, or numerous bedbuddies.etc.etc.etc.

I am here because I love sexy woman and I want to live my life to the fullest. If life is an experiment and everything arbitrary then "do watcha like, and bite em in the bisquit".
 

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It's not hard at all. I have a few college towns around my area and I've been getting fresh young and new puzzy for the past 4 years without a problem.

I'm not sure as to why you're having difficulty but MY ONLY ADVICE FOR YOU IS TO KEEP IT OVER 18.

Assuming you're not a tatal looser and have accomplished a few things at your older age and you know how to talk, it should be easy. The rules are pretty much the same, present value to them.

The value that I present to most of the college girls I'm screwign is the oportunity to get off a boring campus and to hang out at all the hotspost.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by theproject
I am going to have to agree to this.

That is exactly why I am here. I want the 18 to 24 year olds. When they are still hot. Not after kids, stretch marks, exhusbands, or numerous bedbuddies.etc.etc.etc.
Interesting insight. Makes me wonder what 20-something girls think of balding, beer belly, alimony paying, middle class, boat shoe wearing, Kia driving, 30-something year old farts...

Things that make you go hmmmmmmm...
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Interesting insight. Makes me wonder what 20-something girls think of balding, beer belly, alimony paying, middle class, boat shoe wearing, Kia driving, 30-something year old farts...

Things that make you go hmmmmmmm...

That is exactly why I am here to go against the norm. All the things you mentioned are stereotypes that I am breaking. I work out and tan and now dress more with more style. You don't have to look like you are in your thirties just because you are.

You might not like to hear this...but my contribution to the board for the younger guys is too remember that we become more valuable as we age if we take care of ourselves. While women become less valuable. You might disagree and it will be your loss.This is a fact. I just want to know who has succeeded and what steps they followed...kinda like a support group thing.

One last point. I am doing this not only for myself but for men in general. I am sick and tired off all the men bashing that goes on.
Across the board men (alimony) etc get screwed around. It is time we change things and I am going to help with it.
 

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You might not like to hear this...but my contribution to the board for the younger guys is too remember that we become more valuable as we age if we take care of ourselves. While women become less valuable
I agree.
 

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Re: Re: Re: olderguys/younge puss

Originally posted by crazykid
Prime age for females are 30-38 anyway.
Yes you keep going for those women... I'll stick to the chics in their 20's.
 

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Well I am 43 with a 21 yr old (only a 6 though in looks but what the hell...) and I can tell you that you need:

Money
Power (career)
Social status (I am a senior US Army officer - helps a great deal)
But mainly a DJ attitude and DON'T TAKE ANY CRAP from them.

My Gf told me straight out recently that she was with me because I was "arrogant" and would not be a complete wimp like 99% of the men her age. She has stated this more than once. She told me almost all the men she has dated would do "anything" for her, while I do not... this sounds illogical but women want men they cannot push around... and it seems younger men can be pushed around.

Of course some women just are not attracted to older men, but a lot are, so if you have your sh!t together, you can have success.

But I can tell, they are all the same after you date them a while... all have the b1tch in them...

Dietzcoi
 
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