Older woman, games etc - experienced advice please

rjames407

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So...I met this girl in a club about 4 weeks ago. We met and couldnt go back to her place (because there were people staying at her house, it has subsequently transpired that it maybe because of her ex) so we ended up trying three hotels for a room and finally found one. The obvious happens and the following morning we both go for a walk in the park, both dressed in the previous nights clothes....we joked about it!

I then met her for lunch about a week after and she then went away on holiday for a week.

We have little contact, she txts a few times I have rung and she always rings back, but apart from meeting her, in the last month communication is few and far between.

Anyway, I met her on Tuesday just gone and we got hammered and went back to hers. On the way home in the cab she says 'right im going to have to come clean'...I looked surprised but say go on, she then says 'well....I split up with my boyfriend 3 and a half months ago, its totally over but he moved out and there may still be some of his things there'. I said thats fine, not to worry and continued making out etc. On the date she had queried my age, she's 28 and i'm 25. She thought I was younger. When we were in bed she was saying that she is old and I just told her not to be ridiculous and to stop worrying. It also came up in conversation, it wouldnt have been me who initiated it (I cant remember the conversation), but I remember responding in a ****y way that i liked her 'this much' (signalling a small amount between my forefinger and thumb). So the following morning we were doing the 'obvious' again before work, and I said sober sex is so much better! She then said I wish I didnt have to go to work and could have sex all day, she was complementing me on my body etc and suggested that we go out on a weekend because we dont have work the following day!

Anyway, so i left it until friday afternoon to get in contact (since leaving her wednesday morning). I am probably being too concerned and thinking too much about this (but I am not spinning plates at the moment). Ordinarily she would respond but nothing yet. Although this is a minor issue, what I wanted was an opinion on the older woman. She is a tiny girl, doesnt really look 28 (early 29), she is a professional, is a fun girl, likes to get drunk etc and 'seems' to be a nice girl (pays half, always wants to pay etc). Do older women play games less than younger ones.....? Or do the same 'rules' apply?
 

COD

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ummm a chic 3 years older DOES NOT CONSTITUTE FOR OLDER WOMEN DUDE.

not sure what games specifically she is playing..............

not even sure you have a question............lrts recap your dilema............u met a chic, kicked it a few times,she is into you...........SO UMMM whats the question???????????
 

cola

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She's just a cool chick.. nothing really to do with her age.. she was probably just as cool at 21 ppl don't change much..

But your on the verge <-- probably not quite there but close of being clingy..
Don't call her anymore focus on getting some new plates and if you were good in bed when she's horny shell call..
 

Kevin Feng

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Okay, I understand that you're looking for an opinion from older guys, but just from doing this for a while, I think I can give you a good answer.

First and foremost, just because a girl is older, doesn't make her different by any means. Girls are all different, you can't categorize women, they're all going to be unique and have different personalities, just because a woman is older doesn't mean she'll play less games with you. All women play games, it's their way of ensuring a quality mate.

I think you answered your own question, you're just over analyzing the situation and "thinking too much" about her.

If that's the case, you need to make a decision on what you want to do with her.

1. Date her
2. Start seeing other girls

If you stay in this current frame of mind, you'll drive yourself insane.

-Kevin
 
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