I want to do some survey here about how many of the older guys here in their 40s are getting women in their 20s and 30s. In this day and age when it is getting more and more fashionable for older women to have a young male piece of tale, there shouldn't be any problems for older guys doin the same thing. And I'm not talking about LTRs here. Just very short flings or one nighters, that sort of thing.
Older Guys and Younger Women
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Fashionable or not, older men have ALWAYS been able to have a shot at younger women.
When you are in your 20's the women seem to hold all the cards. But when you hit your 30's and 40's as long as you take decent care of yourself and your financial situation you should never have any shortage of younger women willing to please you.
When you are in your 20's the women seem to hold all the cards. But when you hit your 30's and 40's as long as you take decent care of yourself and your financial situation you should never have any shortage of younger women willing to please you.
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yeah I don't see many older guys getting girls around here. A lot of 30-40 year old guys try really hard, but alot of them are the most AFC. It doesn't really matter to me, after 20 everybody gets equal, at least to me anyway...
Well, I'm in my mid 30's so I can't comment on being in my 40's, but all you have to do is look back throughout history and see that as long as a man has access to resources and is reasonably attractive (the more resources the less attractive you have to be!) he can pull younger women for a long time.
Look at Hef.
Look at Hef.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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I know one 47 year old realtor that pulls anybody he wants. He's my ex's cousin (she's 26) and fukks her friends. So I guess if you've got game it doesn't matter. Myself I learn more about the dating game the older I get, so I figure when I'm 35 I'd be quite alright if I'm still single...
When I first started dating my current gf, a 30 year old DOCTOR asked her out at the same time. She dated us both for a month or so. I acted aloof and just sat back and had fun, but he got all self conscious and was asking about me all the time. Well as you can probably conclude, she got disgusted by him and now is in love with me...
Point is, I think as you get older you either get better or get more AFC. There's very few DJ's in the 20's, and that number gets smaller when you get older, just my take...
When I first started dating my current gf, a 30 year old DOCTOR asked her out at the same time. She dated us both for a month or so. I acted aloof and just sat back and had fun, but he got all self conscious and was asking about me all the time. Well as you can probably conclude, she got disgusted by him and now is in love with me...
Point is, I think as you get older you either get better or get more AFC. There's very few DJ's in the 20's, and that number gets smaller when you get older, just my take...
I prefer or get drawn into LTRs, so I don't have the time to go looking. But I wouldn't mind. I had a LTR GF aged 10 years younger when I was in my early 40's, I've got a LTR at the moment with a 37 year old and 45 year old.
Men my age can't spare the time for high maintenance,. high turnover relationships due to all sorts of commitments. What am I supposed to do for Valentine's Day, its a nuisance.
Men my age can't spare the time for high maintenance,. high turnover relationships due to all sorts of commitments. What am I supposed to do for Valentine's Day, its a nuisance.
Ok, let's rephrase the question. How many guys in their mid 30s and 40s are able to have very short sexual interactions with women 25 to 35? I'm not talking about 'relationships'. I'm talking a young woman wanting to have sex with you once, twice, or maybe three or four times before you both 'part ways.' After reading John Alexander's book: "How to become an Alpha Male" I believe that this is far more common and possible than any of us have previously believed. You guys tell me your ideas and more importantly your experiences on this.
ER!C L!VE
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Dude, not too many guys around here hit up younger women. Hell, most guys here don't even think they can get girls their own age and up.
There are a few of us on here, but not many.
I've posted many times about my experiences - do a quick search using my name and the word, "younger" I try to jump on every topic regarding younger girls and older guys.
There are a few of us on here, but not many.
I've posted many times about my experiences - do a quick search using my name and the word, "younger" I try to jump on every topic regarding younger girls and older guys.
Vulpine
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I've just neglected a 20 y/o f-buddy (didn't give her the attention she was wh0ring for). And the last two times out, my wing and I brought home 2 20 y/o's and 2 19 y/o's. And, now that I'm thinking of it, the last LTR I was in was with a 23 y/o.... mmm... hot times. Hooked up 3-ways with her and a 22 y/o and a 19 y/o.
Don't try the LTR's with the young girls, they just want sexin'. It's a lot of drama trying to keep the young ones around - they all seem to be attention wh0re's playing silly little girl games.
Don't try the LTR's with the young girls, they just want sexin'. It's a lot of drama trying to keep the young ones around - they all seem to be attention wh0re's playing silly little girl games.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
