OLD should be used as practice & personal evaluation.

[TheManMasenko]

I don't **** women from OLD. I cannot date/be seen with fat women due to my pride and ego. You see OLD, it's not where you want to be, honestly. The process is unnatural and the selection is terrible. But despite, the platform being dogshiz. It can still be utilized. Here's how I use dating apps to practice my social skills with women and evaluate myself (mentally, physically + spiritually).

Thus, I use OLD solely for practice.

Here's how it goes,

The Initiation

Once matched, I do two things..."yo" followed by "facetime?".​

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I'm not typing anything else, I'm not exhausting extra time, and I'm not doing the extra ****. It's either we talk...or you ignore me and I move on. This is how it should be in the real world too!​

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The point of facetime is to develop rapport/connection/understanding.​

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Do you get it?! You're getting some practice! You're developing a frame of action/response.​

The Talk

Once facetiming, she sees, hears, and understands a glimpse of my persona. In contrast, I understand hers as well. I don't know the women, but I have an idea of who I'm messing with. The entire point of facetime is to GO ON A DATE --- if she does not comply. DROP HER!​

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As we talk, I'm CONSTANTLY reading her, and guess what? I'm mirroring her too! I read this book on negotiation by Chris Voss called Never Split The Difference. Three key takeaways were 1. Mirror someone's behavior when they don't match yours. 2. Never surrender (expose) your position (obligation/self). 3. Give positive energy! ​

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For one, when I did meet up with this woman I immediately figure out what not to do in the future with other women. Wanna know? I listened to her complaining about being alone and lacking thereof, then it just hit me like a truck. BAAAM! Even though I could relate to the women, I knew expressing misery to others gives bad vibes. So what? I caught the lesson and I stopped doing that because prior, I, myself would complain to women! But guess what? As I didn't care about this woman being alone and miserable! The women I complained to didn't give AF either about myself being alone and miserable!!!!!!!! They must have been completely turned off to me, as I was to this woman.​

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These three tips HELP me get the date sooooooooooooooo many times. When a female is acting dry toward me, I do the same. You should see how they respond, it's like they know they're ****ed.​

The Date

Once you two are on a date, test things out. Decipher female nature firsthand. This is a great opportunity for you to understand females more.​

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I read prior PUA coaching would go against men talking to women they don't find attractive. But perhaps, this advice varies from person to person. My current situation removes most of my time. But at the same time, I don't want to stop talking to women completely because I feel I could get cold and be left behind.​

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Pointless Rant:
I'm not looking to acquire plates or find an LTR. I heard Pook (Legendary SoSuave Member) state, if you're always waiting for the right time you're missing opportunities, you must create the right time! I made time for women when I didn't have it!
Though Pook's advice is very much practical and I do agree with it--- that mindset is not necessary for myself and how I want to live. Myself, I'm busy obtaining income/progressing through school. Juggling multiple/obtaining LTR women would compromise my goal to raise a big family (since I need $$$, which I lack currently).