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Tiggis

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Dateing a lady for about 3 months..

When Im with here its holding hands and smiles and incredible sex..

When Im not there she does not call me at all no matter how long I wait and is just dropping off the face of the earth..

When Im there is sex 5 or 6 times a day..

I really think its that she likes having sex with me.. what do you think..

I like the lady.. and I think she is a doll...
 

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Yikes.

Doesn't sound like she wants much of a relationship with you. Probably just a physical (sex) type relationship. Which isn't bad, but you have to accept it, or not.

She probably doesn't want to be tied down and feel like she HAS TO call you. Hmm.... don't get your hopes up. Just keep going back to the well until the well runs dry.
 

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Sounds like it's just sex for her, I also bet you're not the only one with her either. Don't get emotionally attached to her, she doesn't want that with you. JMO though.
 

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A simple test: do not call her for a longer time and see if she calls you. Altough if she does she might still be having only physical attraction - but at least you'll know that even then she gives at least some value to this sex-only relationship.

If you want more than sex with her, you'd better start doing some DJ stuff on her. Do not have sex with her. Who says you have to? Or at least don't have it so often. Start dating her instead of banging her to see what reaction you'll get (assuming, of course, that you're in for something else than just a sex relationship).

If all this doesn't make her call you, then she really isn't too attracted to you other than physically.
 

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Originally posted by Tiggis
Dateing a lady for about 3 months..

When Im with here its holding hands and smiles and incredible sex..

When Im not there she does not call me at all no matter how long I wait and is just dropping off the face of the earth..

When Im there is sex 5 or 6 times a day..

I really think its that she likes having sex with me.. what do you think..

I like the lady.. and I think she is a doll...
I agree that you're not her only f*ck buddy. And 5-6 times a day!

That being said, I'm not sure the term lady fits here.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

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