ok...so this girl is showing all the buying signals....BUT!

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both her (angel) and i are off of work this weekend...all weekend. i go out to the club i work at just to bull**** around with all of my friends that are working. i get a text from Angel asking if im going out toinght. i told her that she's already behind me and that im already out. so she says she's just leaving her apartment and she'll call me when she gets downtown so she can meet up with me.

well her and her roomate meet up with 2 of thier AFC guy friends and introduce me to them. i immediately start busting on the 2 girls in front of thier 2 afc guy friends and the guys look at me like i have no idea what im doing with women and they think im just turning them off. Well all night Angel was all over me all night long. on the dance floor she was lifting up my shirt and licking me.... lifting up my drink making me drink more to try to get me drunk and just enjoying herself the whole time. in the meantime, im not paying much attention to her, i actually walk away from her 3-4 times that night and see her turn around looking for me but im no where to be found. when i come back she once again resumes to be all over me. then 2:00 hits and hte music stops and we head outside to their car. i ask them to drop me off at my truck and she says that they have to drop off thier afc friend at his truck. well when they get to their afc friends truck, angel asks if its alright if she gets a ride from him, kisses me on the cheek thenheads out and im left stuck with her friend in her car to drop me off. i talk ot her friend and she says that she was really into me until a few weeks ago when we kissed then she realised how much that she liked her boyfriend.

i've never had this happen before. women have always given the buying signals, then taken the sexual communication that i've given and turned it up to where we end up having sex. this is the first girl that i've met that doesn't do that and i can't get her out of my damn head. whats going on here guys....can anyone help?
 

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Change her mind, make her notice you...

I dunno, sounds like by the end of the night she was comfortable with the foreplay at the club but she didn't want to go any further because she's also comfortable with her relationship with her boyfriend.

Seems like you may have to hope for things to flop with her current man.
 

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So she have a boyfriend already, but she kissed you. (Did you read this signal?)
 

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Whoohooo!! Chalk one up for the AFC .. you did all the work and he got the Pvssy at the end of the night. What a dam shame. Dam Dawg, what happened here? This is an insult to all DJism (if you did it right).
 

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Not all women are the same. They each have different barriers, and this is why no one can be a perfect Don Juan.

Take it like a man, after all...you are one.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Whoohooo!! Chalk one up for the AFC .. you did all the work and he got the Pvssy at the end of the night. What a dam shame. Dam Dawg, what happened here? This is an insult to all DJism (if you did it right).
"Ouch"...Yes, women love to do this. They will allow you to purchase drinks and entertain them while their SO waits to f**k them after hours.
 

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lol its far from that...she was the one getting me the drinks and her boyfriend works offshore and is out for another week at least.

im just awestruck at her ability to keep her composure around me and not break down like every other girl that i meet.
 

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Well, to me it seems like you need to CLOSE THIS DEAL IN THE CLUB.

You were at the club, dancing with her, she's showing buying signals - go for the kiss!

Don't just let it hang until the very end and let her get a ride home with some chump.

What seems to be happening is that you CANNOT close afterwards when HER FRIENDS and the AFC's are there - because they KNOW she has a boyfriend and so HER ANTI-SLVT DEFENSE KICKS IN.

A club is a busy, packed place with lots of people. You need to KISS CLOSE IN THE CLUB. Close the deal with a kiss and SLIP AWAY FROM HER FRIENDS and back to your place.

It looks like the friends, in this case, are the problem - you're not going to be able to close her when the friends are around, and they won't be around too often at a packed, busy club. You close her AT THE CLUB, and then MOVE IT BACK TO YOUR PLACE.


A basic precept is that you need to strike when the iron is hot. She was certainly all about it on the dance floor and you need to return and amplify her emotions by going for the kiss. To avoid an anti-slvt defense you can lead her by the hand to a darker corner of the club or something.

It sounds to me like she is ripe for the picking, but your timing is a bit off. Close it in the club and everything else should take care of itself from there.
 

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that makes a lot of sense man. thanks for the tip
 
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