Originally posted by frenchlover
a buddy of mine once told me that if a woman flakes on you,
just flush her number down the toilet and NEVER call her again.
BINGO!
why on earth are u torturing yourself with this cr@p? do you not have respect for yourself and your time? do you like to have women walk all over you? do you like the idea that she cancelled on you, in favor of another guy that she is MORE interested in? do you like to be the back up dude, third string even?
would you accept this kind of behavior from a guy friend of yours? didn't think so.
if you've BEEN dating and she flakes, that's one thing. but if it's early in the dating (e.g. first couple or three dates), a flake out is a bad bad sign--there is NO WAY AROUND IT. if she flakes twice, forget it, toast her, move on.
if she flakes, AND gives you some advance notice AND gives a genuine reschedule offer that comes through, that's okay, but proceed with caution. reduce your contact with her, and put her lower on your list--the "A-LEAD" gets dropped down to a "B-LEAD". make her put some effort into getting some of your time. if she's interested, she will. if she's not interested, she won't. you've automatically filtered her.
do you not have any other options with the ladies?
if you don't have very many options with chicks, you will sweat flake outs.
get yourself five prospects in the pipeline, always have five in the pipe. do this and dealing with chicks that flake out becomes MUCH easier.
MY BOTTOM LINE: if a chick flakes out on you, there's a 90% chance she ain't interested 'enough' in you. i'd rather wack off then call or contact a chick that clearly isn't interested in me. WTF?
