Oh my Lord

[Fruitbat]

....boy does aloofness work.

I am rather loved up with one plate, to the extent I got a message online and didn't respond. She was fairly nice, but I have a few plates and a little oneitus developing.

I got a rather butthurt e-mail saying why don't I at least tell her no thanks.

Told her I didn't reject her, I just didn't have time as I am dating too hard i.e. lots of plates.

I then got a series of e-mails explaining why I would want her....also, telling me about her breasts and how dirty she is etc, but also well off etc.

I told her she wan't my type but I might date her in the future.

That hamster is going mad....when I had no plates I couldn't spin one for ****. Then, I get a few and they seem to know the difference between fake abundance and real. I didn't try to be aloof, I just am, because I don't need a new plate right now.

 

[Glassguy]

Its all a persona thing. Women can tell if you have abundance or not.

The guys that dont are jumping the gun. They sense that.

Example of a desperate guy: "I am free tonight, Thursday, Friday and Saturday evenings if you want to grab a drink"

Example of abundance: "My schedule is extremely busy with work, dating and hobbies. If I can get free in the next week or so I will let you know".

Women want what they cant have, or at least is a challenge.

 

[NickAdams713]

Glassguy: Your example of abundance is a little over-the-top and seems a bit try-hard (try-hard to seem important and busy). Your desperation example was spot on.

Better example of abundance: "Let's grab a snack when it works for both of us--my treat."