AlexKaiser
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 25, 2017
- Messages
- 194
- Reaction score
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- Age
- 33
So there's this girl. The one that has the perfect body and face that just drives you crazy. However turns out, the girl is **** in the mental department, and I already struck out with her because I approached her back when I was beta. Back when I was the bluest pill in the bottle.
So I moved on!
...or at least I thought I did.
She has a very common girl name, and I catch myself turning my head at every blonde girl that comes my way that even resembles her. I catch myself fantasizing about her sexually. Friends talk about the horrible selfish dumb **** she did when she was part of our lives. Her existence has made an impact on me to the point where I don't think just forgetting her is an option.
But, I do NOT want the idealized image of her to have any affect on me anymore. There are more beautiful, less lazy, less damaged girls out there, even in this small town, and I want to cleanse my mind of this girl and move on.
What tips do you guys have to get over this? Any good guides or practices you've used to cleanse your mind of unforgettable girls?
So I moved on!
...or at least I thought I did.
She has a very common girl name, and I catch myself turning my head at every blonde girl that comes my way that even resembles her. I catch myself fantasizing about her sexually. Friends talk about the horrible selfish dumb **** she did when she was part of our lives. Her existence has made an impact on me to the point where I don't think just forgetting her is an option.
But, I do NOT want the idealized image of her to have any affect on me anymore. There are more beautiful, less lazy, less damaged girls out there, even in this small town, and I want to cleanse my mind of this girl and move on.
What tips do you guys have to get over this? Any good guides or practices you've used to cleanse your mind of unforgettable girls?
It was terrible. I went out on dates with other girls during the years I was 18-23, but all I could think about was the one-itis. The almost shoulda woulda coulda... then... nothing happened, she got bored and started her fast and furious dating years. Bye-bye, oneitis.