Oh brother! Now women want to get married "as friends"!

[MatureDJ]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...might-marry-for-friendship-and-money-not-love

At least with regular marriage, in theory, women are offering up the Golden Vajaya. Now they want to get married "as friends"!

my opinion:

 

[Asmodeus]

Marry for "friendship and money not "love"

Wow.. so they can get the beta bucks without any giving out any fvcks...

(Edit)

Took a gander at it and it proved exactly what I assumed from the title... She basically talks only about the finances of it. So I was right, she is just looking to get the best deal of money out of this and for the benefits of it.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news...might-marry-for-friendship-and-money-not-love

At least with regular marriage, in theory, women are offering up the Golden Vajaya. Now they want to get married "as friends"!

my opinion:

They haven't "had" to give up the vagina in many years. I mean many many years ago, there were literally laws in place that if your wife was starving you of sex, that you had a right to take it. All that's gone. As a matter of fact even the most Alpha male is subject to potential starving after the marriage license is signed. Women are using marriage as a strategic incentive and empowerment.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear MDJ,
At first glance like most Alpha Males,I was deeply suspicious of the whole deal,seeing it indeed as yet another explanation to the Sites own tail end article,"Why are Millennials putting off marriage"...But the Older US Guys on here might agree with me that in a Country with such an appalling level of Welfare as yours,perhaps there are some hidden benefits here for you...Still hard to see why a special form of marriage is required....In this Country (Australia)the Spouse or dependent of a Superannuated Public Servant will get up to 60% of their Pension...This also unlocks a Cornucopia of Welfare Benefits...So could this perhaps be of value to some?

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

she is just looking to get the best deal of money out of this and for the benefits of it.

All humans, and even all mammals are hard wired to do this. Get more and give less. Whatever you can get away with, you get away this. This isn't so much about the greediness of women, as it is about the absolute spinelessness of the men who put up with this.

That one dentist from the Bachelor Party I was pretty much a comedic caricature of this type of guy.

 

[Prime_Beef]

Scaramouche -yes, happens in the US too. Many systems get gamed by fake marriage, welfare, immigration, and the military. Many soldiers in my unit married for the housing benefits. I was "proposed" to by a fellow officer prior to a war time deployment. The woman tried to date me on a few occasions, when I wasn't feeling it it was think of the money. .

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Prime Beef,
Yes People do this....Greed is inherent in many peoples Souls...Just like to say I feel privileged to meet a Long Serving US Soldier...Yours was a thankless job,you deserve ever little benefit your Government gives you...Enjoy the years left to you

 

[The Duke]

Hmm.....so marriage for financial gain basically. The sugar babies and gold diggers are going to have more competition.

 

[Alvafe]

the real problem here is, there will be guys willing to do so, or to not be alone, or even worse because they think she will fall for him....

I would so like to ask her, woman please, if no one want you for free, who the hell will want to lose half of his money for you?

but then I see a lot of stupid guys going for it, I even have a friend who is thinking on marriage with his actual gf, and the only reason for that is he thinks since she want him its ok, and not because he wants her...

also this cry of her makes her worse then sugar babies and gold diggers, at least on both cases the girl is younger and the guy even not wanting to belive know then both are with him because of his money and she will put out for him to at least string him along, this woman are so damn lazy she don't want even put that much effort on it

 

[SkrooU]

She respects him? Right! Hahaha. Right up until the moment she gets swept off her feet by Mr HotStuff and says, "well, we're just friends remember?". And I doubt this "friend-husband" will be able to date or fvck women because her precious marital benefits will be at risk if some woman pulls this guy away. Maybe then this "friend-wife" will just decide it's not working and put this guy through a crappy divorce that benefits her. After all, she didn't mention a prenuptial agreement did she? Of course not. It's all about how SHE can benefit.

 

[wifehunter]

Any guy who goes for this deal, needs a brain transplant.

 

[SeymourCake]

Marriage was never about love in the first place. Love marriage and romance is general was just a marketing tool companies used to sell products. At the first it was just men owning women as property. Now the tides are turning.

 

[LiveFreeX]

After decades of being single, I’m thinking of getting married. It’s not because I finally found true love, or because I want to wear a white dress (again) or because I fantasize about domestic bliss. It’s because I’m tired of being shut out from the perks and benefits that marriage provides.

It’s an idea that I’ve discussed with my good friend Albert. Neither one of us is dating much. We’re too busy doing other things. We’re both divorced and have no interest in another traditional marriage.

He has grown kids; I have none and no desire to raise any. If we got married purely as a legal decision — no church, no wedding hoopla and please don’t call me “wife” —

So basically she is saying "Both of us are losers but he more so as he is willing to be a cuck, I failed in my first attempt, I'm a narcissist and will add nothing to his life and he's not even allowed to call me wife. I want his health benefits legally, that is all.

These guys should quit their jobs a year previous to marriage. Then if the girl still sticks around and is stupid enough to give him flack, leave and collect 50% of the cash and prizes, just as a 'friend' of course.

 

[wifehunter]

Marriage was never about love in the first place. Love marriage and romance is general was just a marketing tool companies used to sell products. At the first it was just men owning women as property. Now the tides are turning.

Actually the idea and history of marriage begins in the bible. It's meant to symbolize Christ and his church.

Ephesians 5:22-32 English Standard Version (ESV)
Wives and Husbands
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.

25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.a]">[a] 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

The church did not invent marriage. It was used to create a stable work force by many different power structures.
Why work your ass off if you are only supporting yourself. When you are responsible for a wife and children as well you gotta work, no running away to join the circus.

 

[wifehunter]

The church did not invent marriage. It was used to create a stable work force by many different power structures.
Why work your ass off if you are only supporting yourself. When you are responsible for a wife and children as well you gotta work, no running away to join the circus.

You're right, the church did not create marriage, but neither did governments. It predates the idea of governments as we know them. See: Genesis

Side note: It also predates mankind's fall into sin and death.

 

[Alvafe]

You're right, the church did not create marriage, but neither did governments. It predates the idea of governments as we know them. See: Genesis

Side note: It also predates mankind's fall into sin and death.

I really think you should stop bringing religion up to defend your point of view, only show you are not really sure about your points, marriage was a way to make sure the kids was from the men, hence why she HAD to be a virgin to marry with him.

religion, is nothing more then a mass control tool, nothing say more give me money or you will pass the eternity burning.

and yes there is a lot of studys who shows guys are more willing to work his ass off when people count on him for his life, remember we as mens are goals oriented, we normally don't things we find useless or who will bring risk to us, so having a family will push most guys to have a better life and bust his ass off in doing things. with means why goverments are so preocupied with the tend of mens not willing to marry anymore, that means they will not go after money so they wife's can spend then and keep moving the economy.

with is funny most of this is happening because the feminism fad, the same goverments are so willing ti cuddle with to get votes

 

[wifehunter]

I really think you should stop bringing religion up to defend your point of view, only show you are not really sure about your points, marriage was a way to make sure the kids was from the men, hence why she HAD to be a virgin to marry with him.

religion, is nothing more then a mass control tool, nothing say more give me money or you will pass the eternity burning.

and yes there is a lot of studys who shows guys are more willing to work his ass off when people count on him for his life, remember we as mens are goals oriented, we normally don't things we find useless or who will bring risk to us, so having a family will push most guys to have a better life and bust his ass off in doing things. with means why goverments are so preocupied with the tend of mens not willing to marry anymore, that means they will not go after money so they wife's can spend then and keep moving the economy.

with is funny most of this is happening because the feminism fad, the same goverments are so willing ti cuddle with to get votes

It's not my point of view or opinion, it's the truth, whether you want to believe it or not. The Bible is a legitimate history book. Facts, not fiction.


2 Timothy 3:16-17 English Standard Version (ESV)
16 All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, equipped for every good work.

But yes, I agree churches and governments have taken marriage and used it to further their own selfish agenda... I'm not surprised, are you?

 

[nismo-4]

Religious arguments aren't allowed on the forum.

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