***Official Late Night with zekko Interview thread***

[The Simple Man]

Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Ever considered children?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age?

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

I remember you once said that there is nothing to learn on this forum, then why are you still staying here?

Thoughts on the Manosphere and it's direction?

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

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[zekko]

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I was getting worried about my age. I had a self image of being a cool older guy, but I was wondering if I was maybe getting to the point where I was just old. I remembered reading when I was younger about how certain behaviors were turn ons to women, and I thought maybe I could use some of those to offset the effect of my age. I read quite a few seduction books, and then found SS through Google. I liked that SS was a free site without an obvious product to push/sell.

By the way, the worry about my age just turned out to be a passing phase. Sometimes a little discomfort can accompany adjustments in your self image.

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Best: "Confidence is a choice". This goes along with choosing to take a positive attitude instead of a negative one. And choosing a negative one never helps.

Worst: A girl had just broke up with me, and I was kind of down in the dumps about it. Another girl I knew told me "Just give her another chance, she'll be back, fight for her". I knew this was wrong, but like an idiot I did go try to get her back. Just as I knew, she had lost interest in me and was like "Zekko, I'm already seeing someone else, move on". That's a classic case of how you shouldn't take female advice on dating lol.

No way will I ever fight for a chick again. If anything, they need to fight for me.

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
This is the only place I post at. I read the RSD forum sometimes. Once in awhile I'll check out another forum, but here and RSD are the only sites that have held my interest.

How many chicks have you slept with?
I lost count literally decades ago. I didn't know I was supposed to keep track.

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Worst was this one girl I had been dating and she lost interest, this was from my horrible AFC days, I was pretty young still. She told me she wanted to take a break. I knew I had fvcked things up, but I wanted to redeem myself, so I kept trying to get her to go out with me again. She kept putting me off. Once she told me she would go out with me when summer ended. The end of summer came, and I was all okay, it's the end of summer, let's go out, but she didn't want to. This kind of humiliating experience taught me never to lose my self respect over a girl like this again.

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Yeah, I got out of it. I just kept being fun and positive and framed things in a very casual, friendly way. Like when I wanted a kiss, I just called it a friendly kiss. Eventually she got turned on and let me out of the friendzone.

Most plates you've spun at one time?
At my peak, six. Two girls I really liked, two FBs, and two girls I was just seeing because I could and because I wanted to drive my "plate" numbers up. We didn't call this spinning plates at the time though, we called this "playing the field".

How do you handle having no plates?
Just keep on keeping on. I have a lot of hobbies that keep me interested, I always have plenty to do. If I find myself in a position where there are no women in my life, this can be a very exciting time because there is the potential to pick up any girl you want. You can feel the possibilities. If the dry spell drags on too long though, it can get depressing.

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
I haven't gone out to meet chicks for years, so I'm not even sure. Generally I dress in either jeans and t-shirts or slacks and button down shirts. I sometimes find I get more interest wearing a more layered look, like a long sleeve shirt on top of a short sleeve. Nice shoes or sneakers that match, of course.

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..
I've never tried online dating. Social circle seems to work best for me because women seem to get attracted to my personality, and it can take a little time for that to come through. I don't seem to have the kind of looks that immediately gets a woman's attention. I do better if they have a little time to warm up to me. By social circle I mean like meeting a girl at a party who is a friend of friend or something like that - distant acquaintence kind of thing.

Continued next post.

 

[zekko]

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Oh, for sure, I've had girls on freeze out before. It's a helpful thing for your own mental health.

Do you ever see yourself getting married?
No, I tried marriage once. I knew it was a risk, but I figured I would try it once, it didn't work out, so there you go. The only way I might get married is if I have a terminal disease and want to leave some of my estate to my girlfriend and spare her the big tax hit. Romantic, huh?

Actually, marriage was awesome for the first five years, then it went to sh!t.

Ever considered children?
Nope. Maybe if people lived to 150, I'd try to squeeze some in.

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Most of it.

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
Nope.

Favorite So Suave posters?
I like Backbreaker and Desdinova for their personal stories. Atom Smasher, Mike32ct, 5string, for being good people. Jophil, before he passed. Danger is fun to argue with. I'm sure I'm forgetting some so if you think you should be on the list, just consider yourself there.

In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age?
It did for me, I mean once I hit my 30s. I had to work at building my social skills and value though. There are probably more opportunities to nail the much coveted "18-24" year olds when you are younger however. So I could see that if you are a natural player stud to begin with, you might peak when you are younger.

Before I built my value I could get laid, but I had trouble getting women to want to stick around long term.

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)
Nope.

I remember you once said that there is nothing to learn on this forum, then why are you still staying here?
Whoa, I don't think I said that exactly. I did say that most of the major points they hit on here are things I learned through the school of hard knocks. When I went to study seduction, I was disappointed with the content. I was hoping for something really cool, but it was mostly just stuff I had heard before in some form or other. Then I'd read younger posters reading the same stuff and they'd say how life changing it was and all because it was all new to them, and it was a little frustrating.

But I stay because I am fascinated with the topic of how attraction works, and also because I like message boards. And also because this site is a good source of motivation.

Thoughts on the Manosphere and it's direction?
I think the subject of men's rights is very important, so I like to see awareness being raised.

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
I may get it eventually, I wouldn't mind having it. I think I pretty much know his philosphy from when he used to post here more though. I always thought he was working on a book or something because he was always copy/pasting a lot of his material into his posts lol.

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
There are a lot of very good ideas here, but there is some misinformation as well. Some of the material is maybe a little too slanted or affected from guys who are very bitter toward women. I understand guys being bitter about women, there are certainly reasons for it, I just don't think overall being bitter does any good. I would never 100% trust a woman though, or any other person for that matter. You don't want to give away your power. So it's good to be realistic, but you don't have to be bitter.

I think the site should keep digging and searching for the truth. As it is, like I said there is some good material here, but I don't think SS has really quite nailed it yet. There's something missing, maybe it's some heart, I don't know. I know some guys look at the model of the world presented here and they think SS really has it down. But I don't find the SS view sufficient to fully explain attraction and the male/female dynamics that I see going on in the world. I mean it's as good or better than any probably, I just don't think we've got it figured out all the way yet.