***Official Late Night with TheVirtualMind Interview Thread***

HumbleNinja

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***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

TheVirtualMind, please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

22) How did you become a mod on So Suave?

23) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
 

TheVirtualMind

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HumbleNinja said:
***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

TheVirtualMind, please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I came to Sosuave for the same reason as everyone else. To improve with females. I found this site through another site who’s name I can’t remember…
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
I’m sure there is, but I don’t remember what made me choose it. I think it’s just because I thought it sounded cool.
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Best advice: Be yourself. Worst advice: Be yourself. When you don’t have success to begin with, being yourself isn’t the best thing...
4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Yep, the one that got me here.
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
Over 40
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Worst experience: Ended up being used by a gold digger who ditched me when I made a move…After several months. I knew the whole time what was going on, but reverted back to chump ways…
Best experience: Successfully got out of the friend zone from a chick and ended up nailing her.

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Been friend zoned several times and have gotten out a few times. No contact and higher value is actually a great thing!
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Yeah, several. Most I blow off because they are ugly and several others aren’t my type. There was also two that I blew off because I couldn’t stand being around them the least bit. Where they hot? Yeah. Where they annoying as f*ck and I wanted to jump infront of a moving car? Yep!
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
Simple…I don’t. If a chick flakes, that’s it. If there is a good reason, or they reschedule, then fine. But if I don’t hear from them and then they contact me a week or so later with the “oh, I was tired/busy/ect” then I tell them I already have a system to play games on.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
5
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
When that happens, I just go out and do my thing. I don’t need to be spinning plates to be happy.
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Depends. I go as comfortable as possible. Jeans/t shirt, or jeans/button down. I’d rather just be comfortable than trying to get dressed up to impress and not be feeling it.
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yep, but started really picking it up for work and football.
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
I have tried all the venues you mentioned, but I’ve had most success with online, because I work late hours. But to each their own.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
I’ve done that more than I can remember. When you try a lot, you get flaked on a lot.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Eventually, but now is not the time.
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Yes. I actually helped with some of the bible in a previous name.

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
I met a few and recruited a few for here. None in the past few years though.
19) Favorite So Suave posters?
A lot of the older posters from the days. Oh, plus my fellow mods.
20) Thoughts on online dating?
If it works for you, great. I found success in it. I know others don’t have luck but can pick up a chick off the street with one sentence.
21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
I’m continually evolving. I started having better success several years ago but I still have slumps and “what the f*ck!?” moments. Everyone should keep evolving. That is how you get better.
22) How did you become a mod on So Suave?
I asked nicely. ;)
23) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
This place has its ups and downs. I see a LOT of potential from posters here who can help bring in the next big “wave” of seduction, but I don’t see the same drive. It’s not a “quick fix” process like so many people come in looking for.
Anymore questions, just ask. This was actually fun.
 

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Thanks to HumbleNinja for doing this awesome interviews
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

TheVirtualMind

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RiceandChicken said:
Over 40? My goodness teach me your ways.
Haha, it's a LOT of "hit or miss" effort. I know right now, I don't want a girlfriend anytime soon unless they absolutely blow me away (!!!!) so I have no issue talking to females and escalating sexually without any care. Don't be afraid to escalate. It's like they said in Waiting:

Either she doesn't sleep with you, then there really is no need to call her again, or she DOES sleep with you...Then there really is no need to call her again.
 

Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

NorwegianDJ

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BPH said:
I'm curious because 40 is a lot and not everybody on this forum is in high school.
TVM has been around for a LONG time. He's obviously not in High School. He was part of compiling the HS bible back in the day I believe, which would put him at an age around 7+ years post High School.
 
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