***Official Late Night with Learning Slowly Interview Thread***

[HumbleNinja]

***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

Learning Slowly, Please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

22) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

 

[Jack Wealthy]

I want to add my question to this because I feel it's valid (who is Rollo Tomassi?)

25) What do you see as the most important area to develop for a steady sex life?

 

[HumbleNinja]

I want to add my question to this because I feel it's valid (who is Rollo Tomassi?)

25) What do you see as the most important area to develop for a steady sex life?

Took the Rollo question out and the Manosphere one. (Meant for the Mature Men forums. Same copy and paste questions for everyone with two less for the HS forums. Had to edit it. Thanks)

 

[LearningSlowly]

Thanks humbleninja here we go.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I trolled some other pick up forum for a while. I was a keyboard jockey sophomore in high school, I got lucky that a mod there recommended this site for HS.
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Its pretty obvious what it means. I don't think there was a good reason, I just wanted to show that I was humble and I was here to work long term. No quick fixes, just hard work.
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Best advice: Touch girls. Jaedons journal is good proof of what happens when you up your physicality a couple notches.
Worst advice: trying cold approaches in high school. Go to other public spaces, don't be a weirdo.

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
yeah I did. Not a good forum. This one has more journals
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
I think it's 9 now. The biggest problem was always logistics for me, getting them to my bed. I don't have a roommate at college anymore so it got a lot easier.
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
There's been some wild sex... 2 girls in one night and stuff. But the real best might be when me and my ex gf took a spontaneous trip to Chicago. 7 hour drive each way with no planning at all. Super fun, 1st time road head.
Worst, there are a couple. Maybe this one girl with devastating teeth or the time my car battery died while I ****ed a chick in it (I had snuck out of my house. Messy situation)
7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Definitely. I'm thinking of one in particular, back when I was first starting. I took her on a date and didn't make a move. I eventually went NC, I was tired of hearing about her boyfriend problems. The secret to breaking the FZ is making out.
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why?
Definitely. Probably cause I had a better option around. There's a funny thing at parties where everyone is playing the people there based on what they think they deserve. I guess I was her top pick and she wasnt mine.
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
I ask them out again. I realize people have lives and get busy, but I also know that girls will make a ton of effort to see a guy they want. I judge how much effort she's making and that's about what I give back after a flake
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
I am currently spinning 5. That's not hooking up with 5, just I have 5 that I will go on dates with either here in my city or back at school. Of those I've kissed 1, sex with 1 and have numbers for them all.
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION. For me at least. The real answer is I do nothing about it. I don't make women a priority, I don't go cold approaching more than usual, I don't wish I was getting laid. I simply work hard on myself with less distractions. I know more chicks will come later.
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Hard to say. I'm an artist, so I dress down in studio pants and a neutral long sleeve shirt with a watch for style. I dress up either classy, with leather shoes and courdoroy pants or I go with bright colors and a graphic t shirt.
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Of course. I still play some basketball so my lifts usually work for that. Also ran a couple of 10k races recently
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
Social circle is the most successful. Cold approach is the most available. Developing your day and night cold approaches will give you a few girls in your life, just no telling who they will be. I consistently meet a new girl every time I'm at the airport. The last one i met and # closed 5 days ago has a boyfriend, it's a mixed bag you could get any kind of woman.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
All the time. This is the most valuable tool in our arsenal. Going NC taught me how not to be needy over texting and Facebook. Just shut up any talk about feelings. Be quick on the draw, use your first opportunity with girls and go on lots of dates so you have options.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Sure. If I have kids they'll be adopted though.
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
it's good stuff I've read most of it.
18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
Yeah I have. BPH stayed at my house for a weekend. The guy is a beast he can really approach.
19) Favorite So Suave posters?
Mindgamez has really turned his journal around... It used to be he had no idea how to close, now he goes for make outs anywhere and anything in clubs. The change is crazy lets see how he develops.
20) Thoughts on online dating?
Never tried it. The girls I want don't use it.
21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
I'm definitely still evolving. I think I was really happy once I had a couple of successful dates in senior year. I was really figuring out how to kiss on the first date consistently. I'm glad I can do that. I still kiss the same way, about halfway through the date.
22) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments? College forum? Haha no. I dunno. The value of this place is in the journals. New journal writers, Facebook friend people who also write journals. It's cool to see where people with successful mentalities are headed, there's so many different paths for the successful man.

Jaedon wants to know what allows you to have a steady sex life. For me I'm not sure there is a trick, I was built to work in spurts of loneliness then spurts of women. But I'll say this, treat women with patience consistency and leadership. One girl will follow you to the end of the earth if you keep it simple, live your own life, and fvck her right. Orgasms are like glue that keeps any long term thing going.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Double post. Writing this reminded me of some stories maybe I'll post em.

Oh also I completely skipped over spirituality. NDJ and AlexLefty are properly spiritual (a couple others I mentioned are as well). Power of Now by Tolle was a big influence on me. It's not essential to game, for example BPH doesn't believe in a lot of that, but it helps.

 

[AlexLefty]

Nice interview

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Great answer to my question. Very true. Rep.